Family & Relationships - 4 January 2007

I am going through a divorce with my husband of 2 years and he is also the father of my 8 month old daughter. I filed for a divorce after dealing with his drug problem for months and months. He refused to get help for the problem and lost 2 jobs in the proccess. He blew through all of our money and had to support his habit by borrowing money from other people, most of whom weren't the nicest people on the planet. I actually had people showing up at my door step all hours of the day looking for him and thier money. He has been arrested twice but never for drugs. I finally moved out when someone showed up looking for him after my daughter had been born. I have asked him to take a drug test before I allow him to see the baby, he has refused and has not seen her in about 4 months. I am requesting suppervised visitation and sole custody. My lawyer has advised me well but I was just wondering if there was anyone out there who has gone through something similar and what the outcome was.

2007-01-04 02:38:21 · 5 answers · asked by jasmynld 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so my best freinds Brooke and Max were dating, and they split up. Both of them are still my freinds but I want to date Brooke. max knows it, and he dosent seem to care, but I think I should ask him first, to see how he feels, becuause I really dont want to hurt him.
Yes I'm bisexual, and she is too, and she likes me, so it all good. I just dont want to ruin a freindship.
Do guys really care that much about the freinds dating the ex's thing? Or is that just girls?

2007-01-04 02:36:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can someone help me figure out what's going on in his head?
A week ago i told a friend of mine that it would be better that we didn't talk so i can get over my crush on him. before this happened, we joked around about hooking up, but then i felt bad about us joking about it. Today I wrote him a letter telling him how i felt about us joking around, and the fact we just treat each other as professionals and he didn't even say hi or acknowledge that he got the letter. He didn't even say anything at all. What do you think he's thinking?

2007-01-04 02:36:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found out my wife was cheating by walking in on her F'n two guys.

Did anyone else find out by walking in on them in the act?/

2007-01-04 02:36:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i mean b/c you miss them can't find someone else or think you made a mistake!!!!!

2007-01-04 02:35:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you are talking to this person on the computer and that person askes you if you have a boyfriend.what would you say.you have never seen him before and yall just started talking what would you do and why????

2007-01-04 02:35:43 · 11 answers · asked by hot_cowgirl_1986 1 in Friends

What would they be?

2007-01-04 02:35:25 · 20 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

i m a very soft hearted person and i never want to hurt anyone but i have seen one thing that usually one person ends up hearting other person.why cant we always speak in such a way that no one is hurt by our words.i have seen people who are heartless/they speak so blunt they never care about others feelings.why cant we be careful while speaking to others i belive if we cant keep people happy we dont have the right to make relations.when we cant manage it.what do u think?

2007-01-04 02:35:04 · 13 answers · asked by jasmine 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok well theres this guy i like alot and one night i went to where he was 4 like 4 hours and we ended up having sex...this guy knows i like him alot and i ask if he'll call me and he says he'll try...well he texts me anyway i've been feeling sick and have been eating alot and really tired. i asked him if i got pregnant if he would help take care of our baby and he said yea. i know i was totally stupid for doing itbut i like him alot and i thought that maybe he liked me 2 since he wanted me to come see him. what do u guys think. i already know i was dumb for doing it so you don't have to tell me that.

2007-01-04 02:34:49 · 14 answers · asked by kpbkmcjtb 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm really short,
and some guys like me.
Do guys not like me because I'm short?

2007-01-04 02:33:47 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So while I was chilling at this chick's crib, she got dressed up so we can grab a bite to eat. After one hour of dressing up, she asked me how she looked? I told her that she would make a bank in red light district. She slapped me and kicked me out. She didn't appreciate my honesty. If she dress like one then she should get treat like one. It wasn't my fault to begin with.

2007-01-04 02:33:43 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems like lately my wife has lost interest in sex. We've had open and honest conversations about what both of us need and desire during our relations and I feel like I've made every attempt to give her what she likes and wants (or at least what she's told me she's wanted) but there doesn't seem to be much comming my way. I've hinted, suggested and even flat out told her what I want and need, but there seems very little interest on her part. Do you think there is something I'm doing wrong? I do special things for her like making her dinner, taking her out spending time with her, buying her flowers, complimenting her, etc. What would you do?

2007-01-04 02:33:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-04 02:33:04 · 10 answers · asked by guardianangel 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-04 02:32:45 · 24 answers · asked by jigo 1 in Singles & Dating

So what should I do, I have been wtih this girl for the last 4 months, and for the last month, ive been trying to break up with her. Including telling her 4 times in one day that i couldtn be with her, And i just dont think she gets it that thats what i Really REALLY want, and need. I think for 4 Months, she might just be a ltitle to attatched, and having her talking about getting married and having a kid, quite honestly scared me a little, even though i have already told her this, But the quesiton is, How do i get her to finally accept it! she tells me over and over that she is not going to give up and that she cant give up, Please help!

2007-01-04 02:32:43 · 15 answers · asked by Salad Tosser V3.0 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 02:32:17 · 7 answers · asked by anahita m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

mine was, you look so soft, i almost cried when i saw you, i didn't think angels lived on earth

2007-01-04 02:31:23 · 20 answers · asked by Tiny little hot one 2 in Singles & Dating

Why did my boyfriend cheat on me? we were the happiest boyfriends ever, and than when im away on holiday he cheates on me with a portugese bloke, and after that he leaves me, after three years together,,,

saying he still wanna stay friends... whats going on like?

im kind of depressed at the moment,, hmm

2007-01-04 02:30:04 · 43 answers · asked by zivojin 1 in Singles & Dating

I have noticed with many relationships, that after some time sex between couples diminish. My boyfriend wonders why I don't want to have sex with him anymore. The answer for me is simple. If you want me to go down there & if you want to stick that in me, it better be as clean as the first time I did it or you're not getting anything. I mean, how many of you notice that when you first met your bf/gf, they spent a good amount of time cleaning down there, brushing their teeth, and making their aromas smell fantastic; but then after a decent amount of time, he/she starts forgetting or just being plain lazy in the personal hygiene department & then expects to have sex or have sex acts performed on them. In the end, it doesn't smell as fresh as it used to and it no longer becomes fun; it more/less becomes a task. Bottom line, everyone (male and female) need to take a shower evry single day or you are going to stink down there and you aren't going to get any ***. Does anyone agree with me??

2007-01-04 02:29:58 · 8 answers · asked by pinkestcamaro 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 02:29:35 · 14 answers · asked by L.O.V.E. 2 in Singles & Dating

What should I do?
We were living toghther. he dated a girl while we were broke up. We have d dated off and on for 6 years. I seen where she is calling him and I kicked him out.
Should I jsut raise this kid by myself?

2007-01-04 02:28:54 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it the shape of the eyes?
The form of the mouth?
They way they gesture?
The campanella of their laughter?

Is it the little line they get on their nose when they get mad?
The frailty they frailty they reveal when they get upset?
The way they rake their hands through their hair when exasperated.
The way their eyebrow twitches when they are being mischeivous?

What exactly attracts you to someone else?
And do you think it would work for me? >:)

2007-01-04 02:28:37 · 15 answers · asked by raydeeo_face 2 in Singles & Dating

i need help to get one of these

2007-01-04 02:28:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What should I do?
We were living toghther. he dated a girl while we were broke up. We have d dated off and on for 6 years. I seen where she is calling him and I kicked him out.
Should I jsut raise this kid by myself?

2007-01-04 02:28:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do u think that it could because of a mid life crisis?

2007-01-04 02:27:43 · 4 answers · asked by ♥ReeLsWeeeT♥ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Please state your reference material. Thanks

2007-01-04 02:27:41 · 5 answers · asked by storm_reborn 2 in Family

We broke up because I didn't want to put out.. now I feel like maybe I should have. How do you heal and get over something like that?

2007-01-04 02:27:28 · 8 answers · asked by ƒ®îgg Üþ ©hî¢ ®™ 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 02:27:00 · 16 answers · asked by cameron i 1 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy i like hes cute and nice lol but hes a pot head should i like him?

2007-01-04 02:26:24 · 11 answers · asked by Tracy h 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex g/f of 4yrs broke up with me 7wks ago its really weird 1 week she can not talk to me next week she wants to and is really nice she was very depressed at the time of the spilt wanted to stay friends etc; but it's like she loves me then hates me any ideas!!!!!!

we ended well she said we where moving apart etc:
i moved out of our rented house!!!

2007-01-04 02:26:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating