We broke up because I didn't want to put out.. now I feel like maybe I should have. How do you heal and get over something like that?
2007-01-04 02:27:28 · 8 answers · asked by ƒ®îgg Üþ ©hî¢ ®™ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh sweetie do NOT feel bad for taking a stand for yourself. I am so proud of you. Any guy who breaks up with you because you will not put out is NOT worth the aggrivation. Believe me- he is not worth the tears or the heartache.
I wish there was a pill to cure the broken heart- but there isn't. Just try and keep yourself busy so you have less time to think about what has happened. Keep reminding yourself that you DESERVE someone who is going to respect your decisions. Time heals all wounds sweetie- each day will get easier and easier as long as you KNOW that ther IS some one better out there for you.
Again I am SO proud of you!
2007-01-04 02:32:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 02:45:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you believe me, it's hard or even impossible to just ignore it, but you will feel better faster than you imagine. All hurts eventually heal, and you will find someone who is right for you.
You don't "put out" just to keep someone. If that's all that person wanted, they are just looking for what you can give, and that's not a relationship... it's being used.
No, you did the right thing, and you will be fine. Trust me.
2007-01-04 02:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by Linea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let your heart be broke over this.
this person was not good for you.If they didnt love you or respect you enoguh to wait until you were ready, they do not deserve you.
This person sounds like a total jerk.
Its not all about sex.
2007-01-04 02:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok when my first boyfriend brock up with me i wqas sad as heck because he left me 4 my best friend. i think chocolate can heal anything!
2007-01-04 02:34:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you learn to be alone first and love yourself before you step into something new! if you didnt want to put out then that was your standards and you shouldnt have to lower them for anyone!
2007-01-04 02:30:02 · answer #6 · answered by Melle Mel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't beat yourself up. You had reasons for not putting out.
2007-01-04 02:30:10 · answer #7 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about sumthing else and let time heal it for you......dont worry youll get over it..just let it go.
2007-01-04 02:41:04 · answer #8 · answered by ravi619 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋