Why did my boyfriend cheat on me? we were the happiest boyfriends ever, and than when im away on holiday he cheates on me with a portugese bloke, and after that he leaves me, after three years together,,,
saying he still wanna stay friends... whats going on like?
im kind of depressed at the moment,, hmm
2007-01-04 02:30:04 · 43 answers · asked by zivojin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he couldn't certainly not complain about my hmm tool, it is very well conceived lol,, am not swedish for nothing...
yah im bisexual, so any girls wanna have a date? or blokes?
i did show him compassion and love, maybe i showed him it to much, maybe i wasn't 'being mean (enough) to keep him keen' as his saying was, treat them mean keep them keen....
plus i was aware that he cheated on all his ex partners as well, boys and girls... so i guess i shoudnt have been surpriced...
i created a profile to get back at him, if anyone wanna have a look its:
http://www.gaydar.co.uk/bigcock2suck
he didn't like it much, bless...
thanks for the great response and the great support, am fealing better now...
2007-01-04 03:05:32 · update #1
i'm a giver by the way, if there are any takers out there,
feal free to send me a message...
up for anything hehe
2007-01-06 05:50:38 · update #2
He cheated on you because he's selfish.
You dont need him, you're better off without him.
2007-01-04 02:32:16 · answer #1 · answered by Mistress_T 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
why does anybody cheat on anybody hun? Boredom - curiousity - selfishness - lack of self control - there is no right or wrong answer to your questions - and there is no excuse for what your boyfriend did - cheating is wrong - end of story.
Just consider yourself lucky that you found this out now - it would be so much worse ten years down the line when you invested even more in the relationship. You'll be depressed for a while until you start realising what a scum he is and you then stand to meet someone who loves you and will never cheat on you.
xx
2007-01-04 02:33:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm guessing you are in a gay relationship, and if you were a woman I would say to you "Don;t worry about it, all blokes are arseholes!" but I can't really say that to you can I?
It wil be very, vey tough, but i would be more than happy to help, why don't you send me an email I will do my very best to offer you advice. Take care.
2007-01-04 02:33:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey im really sorry this had to happen i can't even believe men can do things like this. it happened for a reason and u never know if this happened he could of cheating on you before if he left u after three years. protect ur pride and really try to stop all contact with him completely and get back out there don't waste ur time. if u never try ull never just what ur worth. good luck and remember dont lower ur standards just because ur lonely
2007-01-04 02:34:47 · answer #4 · answered by annette1911 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be depressed over a guy who is a loser dear.
This probably was the best things that could have happened to you. You finally get to see the true nature of this man (whore) and that he isnt worth your time of day.
You will find some one who actually respects you and would never do this to you. I am sorry that this man did this to you.
2007-01-04 02:34:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's just a primitive instinct for men to try to spread their genes around as much as possible. O wait are you a dude too? I don't know maybe that's just part of being gay.
I bet when you found out, you got madder than a q.u.e.e.r with strep throat on valentines day.
2007-01-04 02:36:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
im not sayin this is what happened but this is how i feel when im with someone for a while...i feel like i need someone new..i get tired of the same things all the time...maybe he felt that since your young that is was just a bit to serious and wanted to do somethin new....but i hope things work out...dont be depressed get over it and find someone else...dont let him know your rly upset...act like its not a big deal....there are plenty of other guys out there...good luck!!!
2007-01-04 02:48:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear of your plight but it is time to face the truth, your mate has found some one new and not ready to settle for one.
Take it like a man and move on.
2007-01-04 02:36:31 · answer #8 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your bf is an inconsiderate self-centered asshole. If I were you I would pass on being with friends with someone who betrayed me. You're better off without him and now you can find someone who will treat you better.
2007-01-04 02:46:22 · answer #9 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is a symbol of something wrong in your relationship. Obviously he wasn't getting what he needs from you. Or it could be just an opportunity...
The person you need to be asking this question of is him. Maybe you can still fix it.
2007-01-04 02:32:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well look at it as a positive thing...he saved you more time that you would have wasted on him!....he is a loser and obviousky wasnt relationship material...some men get bored after that long...its not your fault...it just happens , dont stress over him,he isnt worth a minute of your stressing,,,get out live a little and move on.... whatever you do dont sit around and remeniss about him..........
2007-01-04 02:36:11 · answer #11 · answered by Life....it blows! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋