my ex g/f of 4yrs broke up with me 7wks ago its really weird 1 week she can not talk to me next week she wants to and is really nice she was very depressed at the time of the spilt wanted to stay friends etc; but it's like she loves me then hates me any ideas!!!!!!
we ended well she said we where moving apart etc:
i moved out of our rented house!!!
2007-01-04 02:26:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How do you feel about her?
If you can move on, just move on and forget about it. Let her handle her own mental problems.
2007-01-04 02:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by Robby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women usually never tell you the full story, There is something that she is feeling inside that may or may not be your fault. I know you don’t know what is going on inside her head but you have to ask yourself this question. “Have I done anything so bad that would make her this distraught”? This is how you fix it… Pay attention to the smallest details. Truly sit and listen to her talk, try not to say anything at all, just let her do all of the talking. Ask her how you can help fix your relationship. Find out what she expects of you. You have to have the will in order to have a way. Be patient things will come together for you. Remember treat her like a queen. Depression is one of the hardest things to make it trough. Be all that you can be and everything will be fine…
2007-01-04 02:59:35 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my propose is that this: tell your ex this "till now I met you I fancied your suited pal, i grew to become into lonely and concept you have been a great guy, i do no longer think of we are suitable yet I nonetheless think of diverse you" then go out with that different lad on saturday as planned and revel in your self. day after right this moment call your ex and say this "I suddenly met {whateverhisnameis} final night and had an quite reliable time - I recognize I nonetheless have reliable emotions for him and need me you and him can all stay friends take excitement in your self and while you're honest no person gets injury.
2016-10-29 23:38:31 · answer #3 · answered by pour 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is having ups and downs and more than likely experiencing depression for some reason. You see, people who are depressed have up moments and down moments and sometimes these experiences extend from day to day and consist of both the ups and downs. After all you did say she was at one time very depressed. She is having mood swings which she cannot control. I should know. I have experienced depression myself.
2007-01-04 02:30:05 · answer #4 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like shes not over the brake off yet give her some more time. it may take a few more months before she can be friends with out the heart getting in the way.
2007-01-04 02:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by Lara <:(((>< 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man, sounds like my ex, don't get me wrong I am madly in love with that woman however, your ex could have the same condition as mine, have you ever considered that she may have Bi Polar? If you do not think that is what it is, then consider she is playing mind games with you for her own enjoyment.
2007-01-04 02:29:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably is confused.She is going through just as much as you.Give her time to see how she wants this to play out.She probaly just can't figure out exactly what she wants.
2007-01-04 02:30:34 · answer #7 · answered by starryeyed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has someone else, that is not treating her too well, and is just using you. move on.
2007-01-04 02:29:02 · answer #8 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep it just friends
2007-01-04 02:27:39 · answer #9 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋