theres this guy i like hes cute and nice lol but hes a pot head should i like him?
2007-01-04 02:26:24 · 11 answers · asked by Tracy h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, be careful. There's a difference between being a social smoker and a pothead. I was with a pothead once and he cared nothing about much else except smoking more pot. Nothing else came first, and he was a real JERK when he didn't/couldn't smoke. So, if you are OK with that, then go for it. If not, I'd say move on to someone who's not a pothead.
2007-01-04 02:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by Rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he must be really cute that u like a pothead! lol.. well like the person above me said, dont expect much from him.. I have a friend who is one, he is so sweet and nice.. but its like all the time! so annoying.. like stop it and go hang out with me! the guy u like will probably wont hang out with u often, not because of u but because of the pot.. so good luck with that.. lol ciao
2007-01-04 10:30:51 · answer #2 · answered by alohaforever16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything morally WRONG with being interested in him, as long as you don't start doing it yourself and he's not constantly stoned. It's easier to put up with if it's only once in a while. I had a boyfriend in college that was a total burnout. He was really nice to me and kinda cute, but he was always high. It was more annoying than anything. I had a class with him once, but I didn't know it until our midterm exam when he showed up and I asked him what he was doing there (we weren't dating yet). He said? "I'm in this class, man. This is my third time taking it. I hope I pass, I just found out about the test last night." Wow. Like I said, he was nice and all and actually kind of romantic which was a nice change from the typical college early-twenties jerk. It was just that when he smoked, he was so incredibly lazy, and I bet he got high at least 4 times each day. All he did was smoke, drink, and play video games (Tony Hawk usually). This relationship lasted about a month. One day, I was moving to a new apartment, pretty much by myself. I went over to his place to ask him to help me move a box of canned goods because I couldn't even begin to lift it off the floor. He was all vegged out on the couch with bloodshot eyes and he just looked at me all stoned and goes, "no, man." I sort of laughed at first, because I thought he was joking. I said, "ok, let's go, funny guy, we'll be done in 10 minutes". He goes, "dude, I'm not helping you." I said, "are you serious? I thought you were joking. Please help, it's one box". "Dude, I'm high." He didn't call me "dude" and "man" after we dated unless he was really out of his mind, which he was at this time. I walked out and we broke up right afterward. The one good time we really had together was one night we went out to the bars one night and he promised me he wouldn't smoke that night because we'd never done anything when he wasn't high, and he didn't. We had a blast. What's really sad is I was so happy about this "loving gesture" not getting so stoned he couldn't see. What a sweetie! Boy was I releaved when it ended.
2007-01-04 10:42:22 · answer #3 · answered by Lady in Red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong becuz my cousin and bf are potheads and they are nice people and easy to get along with.
2007-01-04 10:33:34 · answer #4 · answered by Wifey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No nothing wrong with that.
But just understand that he is a pot-head, lol. Don't expect much from him.
2007-01-04 10:28:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Potheads are" nice to visit but I wouldn't want to live there".
Beacause they're stoned they think it's "happening."
But...
Nothing ever happens!
2007-01-05 02:15:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? Potheads are generally laid back. You could do a lot worse!
2007-01-04 10:30:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could be friends with him but nothing else. I married one and later lived with one and both of them were more interested in their next joint than our relationship. Neither could or would keep a job and both constantly blew my grocery budget.
2007-01-04 10:39:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help who you like! I would say it's okay. If you date, don't let his ways influence you! If you are uncomfortable, leave. Just because they smoke, doesn't mean any one thing about them. Give it a try, if you want to, but if not, it's cool, too!
2007-01-04 10:59:05 · answer #9 · answered by shondak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with liking him.. it's not like you can control who you are attracted to anyways right. At least he's not a crackhead!
2007-01-04 10:30:16 · answer #10 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋