why do one person hurt other person?

Question

i m a very soft hearted person and i never want to hurt anyone but i have seen one thing that usually one person ends up hearting other person.why cant we always speak in such a way that no one is hurt by our words.i have seen people who are heartless/they speak so blunt they never care about others feelings.why cant we be careful while speaking to others i belive if we cant keep people happy we dont have the right to make relations.when we cant manage it.what do u think?

Answer 1

We are the smartest ...... but still animal !!!

Answer 2

Control

Answer 3

I also wear my heart on my sleeve I think some people had very hard sad abused lives when they were younger and it spills over in to adulthood because they didnt get the start they needed in life I try to remember these things but there are some pretty vicious people out there who only want it thier way and will stop at nothing I guess thats life on planet earth

Answer 4

I am prob one of those people you are talking about.. I tend to offend people often. I think it is just because I am a very strait forward person. I do not beat around the bush very well. it seems like I just walk strait though it. I guess because its shorter. lol I do not wish to offend people. I just am not a very diplomatic person I guess. never the less, people do get offended by how I put things often... I just do not (or can not) put emotion into my train of thought.. I do not know why. if I did I am sure I would have been able to change it by now..

Answer 5

I think you are absolutely right, there is no one sent on earth to hurt others!!! But sometimes, some people have that kind of nature to be annoying, or always making fun of others, or laughing and hurting there feelings. Me, personally have also done that in past, but thats in different situation{in a fight or stuff}, but i totally agree with you, people need to be more sensible, senstive to others.

Answer 6

if you r real good person or your very kind,so Eny ather one feel j
that's the whey he hurt u but the best way to explain him self u souled be more kind to eny ather then he/she will understand naturally so if you talk to guard 5sec a dally u can be such great person Bic's if u r with guard no one can let down u if eny one get u property,eny one loss Ur love money eny things from the life doesn't matter guard is with u

Answer 7

i agree with u but trust me from the time we are born till the time v die all of us are just puppets playing the part of role that we are bound to play.....none of us are taught be rude nor taught to hurt someone but if u belive in something like destiny and that everybody are destined to behave in their own way i feel none on this earth hurts anyone.

where one person is destined to be hurt other person is destined to hurt the other which means ....let me give u an example.....A and B are two people so if A is destined to be hurt today the source or the medium set up by god to hurt A will be B and B hurts A coz he is destined to hurt A .....

All of us are doing our duties and none does it intentionally...good to know good people like u still exist ...please remain the same

Answer 8

Yea guy, sends out undesirable vibes. Has to do with the potential of reason. people who've studied issues like witchcraft, and so on, could reason affliction at a distance. I gained/t even point out cursing somebody in the previous God. as with the aid of Quantum, all of us understand that each and everything is potential and related to each little thing else. Has to do with the easy interconnectedness of all issues.

Answer 9

Dear,

everyone in this world can't be the same, sometimes its good to hurt someone and some times it bad. all it depends on circumstance.

we are just the pawns of chess, the player is sitting up above and making the moves. We call him god, he call's it's your FATE!

Cheers,
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Answer 10

Well like me and you we're all imperfect.we all tend to make mistakes and along the way we all hurt someone sometimes without even thinking.And sometimes we can control ourselves better than they do.But the main thing is that we be forgiving no matter how often one hurts us and try to help others

Answer 11

hi jasmine...u r rite my dear...sometimes v tend to hurt others...wid our harsh words...well may b coz tht person isnt in his/her best moods..may b the person is really tensed abt some stuf...may b they r frustrated...may b ...thr can b millions of reason dear...well sometime some people mite do it knowingly on some purpose to take some revenge or so...but some mite nt feel tht the words jst spoken by them can harm nyone...may b they dnt have nythng in their mind..but its the way the listeners is decodin it...well may b its jst the way v look at thngs...may b...well i agree nobdy out here has right to harm nyone...