I have noticed with many relationships, that after some time sex between couples diminish. My boyfriend wonders why I don't want to have sex with him anymore. The answer for me is simple. If you want me to go down there & if you want to stick that in me, it better be as clean as the first time I did it or you're not getting anything. I mean, how many of you notice that when you first met your bf/gf, they spent a good amount of time cleaning down there, brushing their teeth, and making their aromas smell fantastic; but then after a decent amount of time, he/she starts forgetting or just being plain lazy in the personal hygiene department & then expects to have sex or have sex acts performed on them. In the end, it doesn't smell as fresh as it used to and it no longer becomes fun; it more/less becomes a task. Bottom line, everyone (male and female) need to take a shower evry single day or you are going to stink down there and you aren't going to get any ***. Does anyone agree with me??
2007-01-04 02:29:58 · 8 answers · asked by pinkestcamaro 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Does anyone have any other different reasons why sex might decline in a relationship???
2007-01-04 02:40:39 · update #1
Hygiene aside, many people in long relationships get bored with sex because it has become too routine, too predictable, too planned, etc. They know each other so well and have done it the same way together so many times, it has lost its excitement and spontaneity. That's why couples try all kinds of things to "spice up" their sex lives.
2007-01-04 02:39:48 · answer #1 · answered by gab500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can become routine without the proper care and attention. I think it takes an open dialogue regarding changing tastes and needs. When both partners can talk about their feelings it rarely gets to be a chore. I think most couples fall into a pattern and that's why it declines and fades. New ideas of all kinds are easy to effect and even very small things can make an exciting difference. I was married to my late husband for 24 years and can honestly say neither of these things happened to us. We were always talking about it and how we could make it sweeter for each other. And sex is so much more when it is integrated into daily life and not just a 30 roll at the end of the day. We are erotic and sensual beings with a great capacity for different kinds of touching, experiencing and caring for one another. It only gets old if you allow it. Like any other part of your relationship it must have frequent attention. Touch, love and Play. It's supposed to be fun.
2016-05-23 02:33:00 · answer #2 · answered by Christine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely agree.... it is so disgusting when some people do that in my opinion it's just plain laziness after they get comfortable enough with you they're like screw it I have her I don't need to impress her as much anymore..
2007-01-04 02:37:21 · answer #3 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Besides the reasons u mentioned, there are issues such as hormonal changes due to aging or childbirth, medical conditions, bitterness, controlling partners, etc
2007-01-04 02:43:30 · answer #4 · answered by Jim G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, Ive never had that problem. I shower daily and everyone I sleep with showers daily.
2007-01-04 02:36:09 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i aggree totally and if you are not married when this nasty neglect happens it will get worse so alot of us totally aggree with your wise words of cleanliness
2007-01-04 02:43:48 · answer #6 · answered by Mississippi's Jersey girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i with my boyfriend 4 years and we live together now and the sex is brill now i dunno i think you boyf needs a lesson in hygenie serious im the same i wouldnt do anthin like that unless he was scrubbed and hey you wouldnt expect him to do that to you if you hadnt got crubbed yourself
2007-01-04 02:42:22 · answer #7 · answered by Blonde_o2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
b/c it dose ibut wouldn't know
2007-01-04 02:34:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋