ok well theres this guy i like alot and one night i went to where he was 4 like 4 hours and we ended up having sex...this guy knows i like him alot and i ask if he'll call me and he says he'll try...well he texts me anyway i've been feeling sick and have been eating alot and really tired. i asked him if i got pregnant if he would help take care of our baby and he said yea. i know i was totally stupid for doing itbut i like him alot and i thought that maybe he liked me 2 since he wanted me to come see him. what do u guys think. i already know i was dumb for doing it so you don't have to tell me that.
2007-01-04 02:34:49 · 14 answers · asked by kpbkmcjtb 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't want to have a baby after one time but u know im not going to give up my kid
2007-01-04 02:39:20 · update #1
we used protection
2007-01-04 02:40:02 · update #2
we used a condom i should have included that
2007-01-04 02:44:38 · update #3
Maybe he wanted you to come see him because he knew he could get some sex. Guys are like that. Or maybe he did like you -- don't know. I know you said you used protection...good. But get a pregnancy test too.
Take care of yourself.
2007-01-04 02:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Liking is a good start for love, but consider the fact it's not "love" just liking.
You can like a person even without loving the person.
And you can love the person even if you DOESN'T like the person.
We can love the persons we like but it doesn't happen all the time coz when we fell inlove, it's not always that we like the person. True love is not always liking the person.
About you being pregnant, I hope if ever you are that will not be a reason for the two of you to get married or settle down, Love is the most important thing why you would want to be together with someone.
Well, it's only my opinion..in the end you will decide for yourself/yourselves. I just hope that no matter what, you won't think of aborting the baby.
2007-01-04 02:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by guRl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From male P.O.V.-he claims he will help "take care of" the baby, and he might actually mean it..however that does not also mean that he is willing to move in and live with the both of you..he could mean financial support and some help decision-making etc. You already know you should have used latex so I wont go there (hehe too late I guess). And it sounds like he just wanted a "piece" and was fairly sure he could have some from you. Are you sure that you are actually pregnant? Have you been to a doc yet? If you are, be sure he knows and if nothing else he needs to be financially responsible (as well as help you in many other ways to raise his child!)
2007-01-04 02:42:38 · answer #3 · answered by dragondave187 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only dumb thing you did was to have sex without protection if you are not pregnant then that’s good for you, but next time make sure you are caring condoms if the guy does not want to use it then you are out of there plan and simple.
2007-01-04 02:41:26 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you said it **** but at least you can admit it . Why on earth do you want to have a baby by a man that is not your husband or even sound like your boyfriend? Have some class about yourself, for crying out loud! Have you no MORALS, ETHICS ON WHAT A DECENT WOMAN prevails?????? Okay not only are you stupid, but you are the typical welfare stereotype to be! Please have an abortion if you are pregnant and USE YOUR COMMON SENSE NEXT TIME BEFORE YOU HAVE SEX! You should be married if you want a child! Please don't be another Idiot statistics!
2007-01-04 02:39:57 · answer #5 · answered by sexy c 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, i would take a pregnancy test ASAP and find out if i am pregnant. as for the rest, all you can do is ask him if he likes you. you already asked if you had a baby would help take care of it(which i really doubt would happen. if you are pregnant you will probably never see him again!) so why not just ask him if he likes you?!
2007-01-04 02:39:33 · answer #6 · answered by Tracie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell is the question here?
I will guess your question(s) and provide my answer(s):
1. Should I have slept with him? NO
2. Should we have used protection? YES
3. I'm feeling sick, eat a lot. Am I pregnant? MAYBE
4. Do I like him a lot? YES
5. Should I ask better questions next time? YES
6. Should he call me? MAYBE
2007-01-04 02:40:31 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a shallow guy... worst part is his "yea" on helping with the baby might not even happen as well.
I would be very careful if I were you... well... I guess it is too late to be careful now.
2007-01-04 02:38:13 · answer #8 · answered by Robby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what kinda answer are u looking for? are u pregnant if is do u want it? there is other opsions u dont have to have it u have your whole life a head of you. dont waste it. talk to this guy see what he wants to do and where he wants to end up
gd luck
2007-01-04 02:41:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just wants to sample your body again before he makes a real decision on staying with you?
2007-01-04 02:51:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋