Family & Relationships - 4 January 2007

We have been together for nearly 5 years, unmarried, no kids, we're 24, and were virgins when we met.

He cheated on me in november in a one night stand and confessed all by himself three weeks later-there was no way I'd have known or found out otherwise.I told him I would forgive and forget until I found out that he had her number and she slept over in his apartment twice (he said nothing happened either time tho).When I caught him lying about calling her and getting texts from her I dumped him by text.

When we met up 2 or 3 days after that he wanted to get back together but I asked if he was curious about other people and he said yes so I said we should take a break and see other people over Xmas.

He slept with someone else on thursday 22nd, and he said it was awkward and boring,and he didn't enjoy it, he says loves me and can't wait to see me in the new year.

I'm supposed to be meeting him tomorrow.

Any advice?

Is this something he can just get out of his system?

2007-01-04 00:15:47 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 00:15:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm friends with a guy who I've known for a few years, we always used to hang out in the same group of friends. We were always flirty, shared beds, generally had a good laugh but nothing ever happened between us.
I hadn't seen him for ages, but our group of friends all got together again over xmas and had a great time.
He's still flirty and looks at me loads, thing is he's always got some girl on the go! I've never let on to his face that I'm really interested in him, beyond general flirting.
My guy friends tell me that he isn't serious with any of the girls he dates, and hasn't been serious with any one for a long while.
Him and me were chatting alone and I asked him if he ever two times the girls he dates, he said 'no, i definitely don't'....then he looks right at me and says 'i'd never two time anyone.' God am I reading too much into this!

Can someone just please tell me if they think he may like me....it's been going on for years!!

2007-01-04 00:14:55 · 13 answers · asked by LadyMiranda 1 in Singles & Dating

I had a couple in, seeing about their wedding and the groom kept mentioning the progamme. She was a bit of a Scary Mary tho.
Has anyone seen this program?

2007-01-04 00:13:33 · 8 answers · asked by fatherf.lotski 5 in Weddings

hi my name is michelle and i like this boy in my school named zack we said hi a couple of times but i want to become friends with him what should i do?

2007-01-04 00:13:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am about to start mentoring a 16 year old boy and although I have recieved training on what is expected of me I am interested to hear from people who have been mentored before, or who have been mentors. I know all the obvious things about building trust, good communication, open mindedness etc, but was hoping that you could share your own personal experiences. What would have made the experience better and more useful for you? Are there any mistakes I need to look out for? Thanks for your help.

2007-01-04 00:12:12 · 1 answers · asked by thewarrinoates 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Out of curiosity....

2007-01-04 00:09:57 · 9 answers · asked by --Lost in this world-- 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well, I moved from another state a couple months ago and me and my husband had no house so we agreed to move in with my brother and his girlfriend.We are moving monday to our own house,but my problem is, yesterday they went shopping and usually we write our names on all our food so we know who's is who's....but she wrote on their butter tub- Do Not Touch, I will KILL you, I will KILL you in your sleep!
Lately she has had an attitide towards me and my husband and I am very upset by her writing that.To me, that is a death threat.If I called the police, will they just laugh at me? or can they do something about this? what would they do? What should I do? I tried talking to her and she just has an attitude.....

2007-01-04 00:09:40 · 26 answers · asked by ♥It's a boy♥ 3 in Family

Girlfriend is hinting that the ring better be impressive. I think she was 1/2 kidding and 1/2 serious. I perfer a high quality stone but is a large, lower quality better to show off to your friends and family? (Dawn, if you read this don't get scared and think of running---I'm just beginning my reasearch-- if it happens it will be in the future..lol)

2007-01-04 00:09:32 · 19 answers · asked by J H 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 00:09:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anthony 3 in Singles & Dating

I am trying to get my teacher to like me. Her name is Ms. Ellen. She is really hot.
I love the way she talks. I love the way she walks. I love everything about her.
Chef says she will not like me because she is lesbian and lesbians only like other lesbians.
My mom says that lesbians lick carpets.
The guy at the record store told Stan that lesbians listen to the Indigo Girls.
Kyle says they like to wear Birkenstocks.

I have been licking the carpet in my living room while listening to the Indigo Girls and wearing Birkenstocks for 3 hours now.
But I am not sure I am a lesbian yet.
Can you help me?

2007-01-04 00:09:02 · 7 answers · asked by Eric Inri 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 00:08:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 00:07:01 · 31 answers · asked by Q 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it the 'older the better' and have you ever acted upon this attraction?

2007-01-04 00:06:04 · 10 answers · asked by blueyedimpledguy 3 in Singles & Dating

Can someone help me figure out what's going on in his head?
A week ago i told a friend of mine that it would be better that we didn't talk so i can get over my crush on him. before this happened, we joked around about hooking up, but then i felt bad about us joking about it. Today I wrote him a letter telling him how i felt about us joking around, and the fact we just treat each other as professionals and he didn't even say hi or acknowledge that he got the letter. He didn't even say anything at all. What do you think he's thinking?

2007-01-04 00:04:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A friend who was hurt badly by her ex has become this hard-shelled woman in self-defense (guys call her a 'man-hater'), but I know she is really like a hurt child, and would do fine if the right kind of man coaxed her back into allowing herslef to be loved. I have known men who seek out this kind of woman to nuture, and others who 'run, don't walk' away from this type. Which type are you & why? Explain, and then tell me if your parents had a good or bad relationship in addition. I am testing out a theory, thanks.

2007-01-04 00:03:40 · 3 answers · asked by mustanglynnie 5 in Singles & Dating

Last night, I got into a huge fight with my mom, because she tried to say I called a sex line, which I did not. You see, she was charged 15$ extra this month for her phone bill, so she called Eastlink ( out phone service) and asked what was up. They told her there were 3 calls made to a 1-900 number, at 2.99$ per minute! They also told her it was either a party line or a sex line. There is no possibility that anyone in the house called those numbers, because it's just, my mom, me and my 9 year old brother and I swear to God I didn't do it. But now , I can't imagine what she thinks of me, she said I'm nothing but a liar and everything.. I even called the cable company to see if they made any mistake and they said no! We have out internet and cable from the same company and I'll admit I was on some sites I shouldn't have been. Could that have showed up with the phone bill in any way? If not, what could have caused this and how can I get my dignity back? HELP!

2007-01-04 00:03:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Do you have to go to Church to have a catholic wedding? My partner is catholic, but doesn't go to church.?I'm an Athiest, but was christened by the church of England as a child. Before you ask, we have to get married in a catholic church. My boyfriends family is very religious and won't accept him getting married outside the catholic church. He's the elsest son in an African family and needs to set an example. He would be willing to start going church however I wouldn't. I'm only getting married in a catholic church because I have to. His Family have made it clear. A catholic wedding or no wedding.

2007-01-04 00:02:30 · 18 answers · asked by WS 2 in Weddings

Im in my early 20s and my hair is thinning and receading. I have now decided that the only hairstyle I can really get away with is a skin head. I'm really worried that this will effect my chances with women. I used to have nice black hair and women would go mad for me! but now they really aint bothered. I know its bad to be vain, but I just cant help it.

2007-01-04 00:02:15 · 36 answers · asked by Chief1234 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm 17, same age as her. i'm still at school. from an average family just like her. i don't get into trouble. why don't they like me? i've never done anything to hurt her. i was thinking maybe they think i'm having sex with her, which i'm not. could that be the reason. they're actually really horrible to me, giving little snaps to me, the way i've seen them with other people, they seem lovely.

2007-01-04 00:02:14 · 13 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Singles & Dating

"Case set on progress call" and "Spindle date"?

2007-01-04 00:01:44 · 2 answers · asked by Cathyann 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, I am 14 and can you help me how to be a gentleman to this girl I adore (but we are just friends)? Thank you for your help and I truly appreciate it.

Regards
Asker Knowmore

2007-01-04 00:01:25 · 7 answers · asked by Mr Asker Knowmore 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 00:00:59 · 4 answers · asked by mima 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok be honest guys, and girls for that matter. Have any of you lied in order to get laid ie: I'm a doctor, I'm a race car driver etc. And what was your story?

2007-01-04 00:00:43 · 11 answers · asked by Maverick off Top Gun 3 in Singles & Dating