Can someone help me figure out what's going on in his head?
A week ago i told a friend of mine that it would be better that we didn't talk so i can get over my crush on him. before this happened, we joked around about hooking up, but then i felt bad about us joking about it. Today I wrote him a letter telling him how i felt about us joking around, and the fact we just treat each other as professionals and he didn't even say hi or acknowledge that he got the letter. He didn't even say anything at all. What do you think he's thinking?
2007-01-04 00:04:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he is doing what you suggested....not talking to you....good luck
2007-01-04 00:06:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats ahard one .... Maybe he read it and he was like, "well she wants her space so im going to give it to her. I just wont talk to her."
You can't let it go on like this. You need to let him know that you still wanna be friends and all the good stuff. Tell he you had a crush on him and you feel like that feeling isn't mutual so you need some you time. You wanna hang out and talk to him but not as often of how you did before until you get over the crush thing.
Feel me?
2007-01-04 00:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by nealee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly he probably just wants to let sleeping dogs lie. I mean, you like him he doesn't like you. Chances are you should have just let it be or just took that risk and asked him out. Guys don't like wishy washy chicks. Also, quit writing letters. If you have something to say then go talk to him. If you have been friends for a long time then he will understand. If you haven't, then he probably thinks you are crazy. Quit obsessing and either ask him out or just leave him alone. I wish you the best and hope it all works out for you.
2007-01-04 00:09:40 · answer #3 · answered by dawn_ch_believes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's definitely thinking about the letter but afraid to say anything. As a man, it's his responsibility to make a statement to you about it and not to keep it an awkwardly silent issue.
2007-01-04 00:07:17 · answer #4 · answered by "Asian Warren Buffett" 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That you have rejected him without knowing how he feels. Did you mean what you said to him or were you just playing. The thing you have to remember is guys are sooo very sensitive about a lot of things. So apologize and find out how he feels.
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2016-10-06 10:23:24 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is giving you the respect of your choice by being your friend. A friend doesn't have to reply you right away. It is a clear sign that he is not into you, and you just have to get over it by yourself.
2007-01-04 00:10:47 · answer #7 · answered by chocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Afraid to talk about your letter you give...And respect as what you decide....maybe if the right time comes He will try to confront you.
2007-01-04 00:10:25 · answer #8 · answered by jennil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you explained your feelings to him, then the ball is in his court. You may have offended him in some way (not meaning to) so now he has to get his feelings in check. Give it time, it will all work out in the end.
2007-01-04 00:07:37 · answer #9 · answered by Jodi C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably thinks you are not interested, and if anyone is going to bring it up, it will have to be you. and you just might have to explain how you feel in person, instead of a letter.
2007-01-04 00:13:46 · answer #10 · answered by khjunior1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably feels like you pulled the rug out from under him and he is pissed off. If he continues to ignore you I can guarantee that is what is wrong.
2007-01-04 00:07:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋