I'm friends with a guy who I've known for a few years, we always used to hang out in the same group of friends. We were always flirty, shared beds, generally had a good laugh but nothing ever happened between us.
I hadn't seen him for ages, but our group of friends all got together again over xmas and had a great time.
He's still flirty and looks at me loads, thing is he's always got some girl on the go! I've never let on to his face that I'm really interested in him, beyond general flirting.
My guy friends tell me that he isn't serious with any of the girls he dates, and hasn't been serious with any one for a long while.
Him and me were chatting alone and I asked him if he ever two times the girls he dates, he said 'no, i definitely don't'....then he looks right at me and says 'i'd never two time anyone.' God am I reading too much into this!
Can someone just please tell me if they think he may like me....it's been going on for years!!
2007-01-04 00:14:55 · 13 answers · asked by LadyMiranda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is a player and hes interested in you because hes not had you yet..if you are dumb enough to sleep with him then he will not be interested in you one little bit....dont fall for his smooth talk...you are better than that.
2007-01-04 00:21:52 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you and your friends get together why not start exchanging emails? If you start up a friendly correspondence If he is interested I'll bet he'll suggest meeting for lunch or drinks or something.... You could start the ball rolling by just forwarding one of the millions of email funnies that get sent round either that ask for or post copies of any photos that were taken over Christmas. Add a few anecdotes about what you are up to and see what comes of it. If he is keen he'll respond I'm sure,
However you may find that emailing isn't something he is in to, but persevere, if you send a mix of mail, sometimes to him alone, sometimes to a group and sometimes jokes you won't be too obvious.It will be a talking point for the next time you meet and it will also keep you in his mind when and if he is next 'free' .
Good luck.
2007-01-04 00:42:21 · answer #2 · answered by Ellie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might if he is like nice to me and being a gentleman to you. Like hold the door for you or helping you as more than friends. If it have happened when you look at him in the eye and he look back in the eye at you...there you go he likes you. When I was a Sophomore a guy in my Algebra 2 class whom I really hate. I don't know why but when I look at him I just can keep my eyes off. And then he looked back and I turned immediately turn around. At that time I felt he was my enemy because he throw small balls at me and I was piss so I threw back. My classmate told that I was the one who threw the ball him but I didn't mean to and the aim wasn't at him it was at someone else. At that point I think we are enemies, but I didn't expected on Valentine he wrote me a letter saying how he likes me. Usually best friends end up going out or getting married. I think he likes you, but some people are different. I think you guys should sit down and talk about it.
2007-01-04 00:38:18 · answer #3 · answered by xi xi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly i want to say its really hard to tell just from reading this. how old are you guys? if youre 20+ i think its much more likely that he likes you, cos hes more likely to want a serious relationship. something you should bear in mind is that guys are REALLY BAD at picking up vibes from girls! so if you do something subtle that you think may make it really obvious that you like him, chances are, he wont know! i think you should try to spend a lot of time with him and get really close to him - talk to him a lot about things that are important to you. go out with each other sometimes. then when the moment is right, like when youve been out together and are hugging or something, try to get inside his head and find out what he wants - does he want a serious relationship? how does he feel about you? if you have to, be more forward than he is being to try and bring the truth out. be brave! and if its going well tell him how you feel about him, and make it really obvious so theres no confusion! he may be scared of having a serious relationship cos hes used to all those flings.. but he sounds pretty genuine to me especially cos of the "id never two time anyone". i think basically you need to be confident and direct with him to find out how he feels. otherwise you may always feel unsure like this.. and that would suck right? good luck to you! go for it with this guy! it could be amazing!
2007-01-04 00:58:05 · answer #4 · answered by john9999999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the extent of your friendship with him, but from what your friends say and what you have said I wouldn't trust him when sh says he never two times anyone. He not looking for what you are or you guys would have made a move towards eachother long ago, I would move on and avoid getting hurt later.There are a lot of lonely peple out there that you could have a real relationship with..
2007-01-04 00:50:44 · answer #5 · answered by avilone2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted you don't you think he would have let you know by now? He would be with you still obviously he has moved on with his life and has moved on,,If he wanted you he would break your phone,ask you out,call,etc,,,he sounds like a hot friend.
2007-01-04 00:35:06 · answer #6 · answered by Sofia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who knows really what hes feelin so the only way u will know is to ask him, there is a possibility he likes u as he shows u attention. mayb u cud get 1 of ur friends to slyly ask him or summat. but i do think thats the only way. good luck xx
2007-01-04 00:27:05 · answer #7 · answered by Kimmy xx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok ..... What he is saying is.... exactly that he doesn't two time girls....which is good ..... he also implied that he wont sleep with you until he is single..... So i suggest that you say to him it is a shame that he has a g/f at the moment otherwise you wouldn't hesitate if he was to ask you out...... See what he says.....
2007-01-04 00:45:41 · answer #8 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Next time you guys share a bed, just force the issue....
2007-01-04 00:52:55 · answer #9 · answered by garfet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will probally be another notch on his list or, he just might be playing around waiting for you to make the first move!
2007-01-04 00:22:45 · answer #10 · answered by edison 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋