Family & Relationships - 4 January 2007

Can someone help me figure out what's going on in his head?
A week ago i told a friend of mine that it would be better that we didn't talk so i can get over my crush on him since he's in a long distance relationship with another girl. Before this happened, we joked around about hooking up, but then i felt bad about us joking about it. Today I wrote him a letter telling him how i felt about us joking around, and the fact we just treat each other as professionals and he didn't even say hi or acknowledge that he got the letter. He didn't even say anything at all. What do you think he's thinking?

2007-01-04 02:57:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 02:57:31 · 1 answers · asked by shaker 1 in Friends

i'm not sure exacly what's going on but it's really bad cramps and more. what should she take? i brought her a hot water bottle down and cuddled her and talked to her nothing took her mind off it. is there anything else i can do? i know girls complain about this stuff but i've never seen her so bad, i'm really worried.

she's 17, i'm 17.

2007-01-04 02:57:09 · 19 answers · asked by Sammy ! 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend was always soOoOo sweat, then I found out that he was cheating on me!!(with one of my "best freiends". Now he is tryin to get me to go back out with him. But I dont know if I can trust him! Pluse I am only 16, I dont know how to deal with this. So I need some advice to help me out on this!! He says that he was drunk and at a party. I wouldent have dumped him so fast if he would have told me its just that all the kids at school told me. Everyone is telling me to get over him but I can, I really miss him!! PLEASE HELP ME!!!!

2007-01-04 02:56:40 · 11 answers · asked by ~sweatypie~ 1 in Singles & Dating

i been with this man for a year and a half. but we have an open relationship. but he still calls me baby and stuff. and he spends more time with me. and i know he doesn't love those other females he's just not ready to settle down. but lately he's been distant. and i do a lot for him. i bought him a phone, i give him money, and i really love him. but he doesn't hardly call me anymore. but he still says he loves me and he wants to be with me but i don't know what to do. but it might be the age thing because i'm 17. and he's 25. but he's never ever acted like this before and i love him so much. even when he's mean to me i'm still very nice. and he said right now he can get into an exclusive relationship with me until i turn 18 because i'm underage and he already has something on his record. and he does stuf 2me that younger men wn't do. like go down on me and he's very good in bed. and i recently even tried powder with him 2 please him.so should i let a year and a half go down the drain?

2007-01-04 02:56:36 · 5 answers · asked by atlgurl 1 in Singles & Dating

how can you tell if he's as into you as ur into him how do you know when you love someone and if they love you

2007-01-04 02:56:14 · 5 answers · asked by fairy_punk07 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 02:55:59 · 19 answers · asked by beautiful 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 25 years old and my sister is 23 years old. She has two children. I love my sister very much and now she is just drinking way to much. Our dad put her in treatment three times. Each time she told us that we are spending money for nothing. My mom keeps her grandchildren. I just want to know what else we can do for her before she kills her self with all her drinking. Please help

2007-01-04 02:54:37 · 9 answers · asked by Stunna 25 2 in Family

I have been married for 13 years and have 5 kids....my husband mentally and emotionally abuses me....should i get out or stay? Where would the kids benifit more....if i say i am leaving he threatens me and says he will take the kids from me...i am a stay at home mom...so my resourses are limited....

2007-01-04 02:54:20 · 27 answers · asked by dragonfly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have wagged school once in the past and my nan and grandad found out, they grounded me for 3 weeks.
i have recently done it since twice because of problems at school and my nan found out from my mother, who i thought wouldn't say anything being as i don't live with her and she said she wouldn't say anything. my nan has also found out i smoke and drink occasionally. why hasn't she said anything to me? she acts like i haven't done anything wrong. i can't look her in the eye, but she doesn't know i know she knows. should i just admit it before she has chance to ask me about it?

2007-01-04 02:54:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

That u stopped dead in ur tracks? It happened yesterday... There was this tall, dark haired, green eyes, tan, drop dead gorgeous guy walking down the street with this brown dog.. anyways i saw him. i just literallly could not take my eyes off him.. HOT!! lol.. he was whew. gorgeous.and he resembled tyson from the all american rejects only he looked italian..i regret not talking to him or getting his number! darn it! . anyways i was wondering if that has happened to you?.. lol.... ciao

2007-01-04 02:53:59 · 32 answers · asked by alohaforever16 3 in Singles & Dating

Iam going through a divorce. My first court date is tomorrow the 5th. Of course this is my side of the story but I was always a loving husband and father of our two kids. She left me in August and moved in with her mother telling me she needed space but was planning on returning home at some point. I found out in November she was seeing another man. I was crushed! She also took what savings we had (14k) out of our account and put it in an account of her own. She forged my signature on a second mortgage without my knowledge for over 50k. I had a forensic document examiner verify it was not my signature. I am still living in the marital home and our kids go back and forth from home to their grandmothers house. I am fighting to keep my kids in there home with me. They love there house, they have friends in the neighborhood and I don't want to disrupt there lives anymore than there mother has. I don't want to keep my kids from there mother but I think it is in there best interest to behome

2007-01-04 02:53:26 · 9 answers · asked by JEFFZ79 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Who would it be??? And why???

2007-01-04 02:52:35 · 43 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

We have been together for eight years. The last year and a half have been nothing but arguements.
For which i think she instigated things.
It feels like she is trying to make me hate her ( Its working)
Since the new year started everytime i come home from work it seems like she finds her self in the bedroom, and within 30 mins she's sleeping.
We do have two children and she does say she loves me all the time but i'm not buying it!
She undermines me when i try to decipline the kids.
This one a classic,
When she aske a question and i answer it, if its not the answer she wants to hear she say's" No that not true its blah blah blah"
You get my drift...........................
Any sergestion on what i should do??????????

2007-01-04 02:52:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What type of woman are you 1)very outgoing 2)very conservative 3)conservative but wild with the right person 4)flirty or 5)wild and willing to try anything?

How would you describe yourself 1)very thin 2)average 3)a little more meat on your bones 4)slightly chubby 5)chubby

Please provide answers for both of the above questions; thanks.

2007-01-04 02:52:19 · 11 answers · asked by hottimesforallwomen 3 in Singles & Dating

I want to tell him I like him but I cant

2007-01-04 02:51:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are on a payment plan and I keep mailing payments in but everything is soo expensive!! I have 11 months to go (we have been making payments since we got engaged) and still owe about $15,000........ OUCH!! Anyone else tired of writing checks to the cater?? LOL

2007-01-04 02:51:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years now, very much in love, have no complaints. However i still find myself randomly thinking about the first girl i truly loved. Is that normal? I also ponder constantly about what i would do if the original one asked me back. Are these normal thoughts? Any ideas how i can stop thinking about her, we broke up 5 years ago after dating for 2 years. Thanks.

2007-01-04 02:47:29 · 15 answers · asked by Drew 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i love my husband with all my heart and try showing him as often as i can i really want to something different,something strange and that will make him laugh i done all different things before like jumping out of a plane with a banner asking him to marry me to having pictures took of me as a present for him just wanted sothing else to try the sillyer the better the wierdest the better you only live once so they say

2007-01-04 02:47:00 · 17 answers · asked by kerry t 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

awhile ago i told my bf that i had kissed another guy. yah, i had screwed up. and now, last night i found that he let a girl give him head. he told his friends it was just so now we were even. i really don't know what to do. i still like him, but if he is acting like a 5 year old and playing the revenge game, then maybe hes to imature for me? help!

2007-01-04 02:45:50 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Girlfriend is going to a party, she goes on about how shes going to hook her mate up with all of these boys that are going to be there, she says that her best mate is a bit of a 'slapper'.

By her saying this it has kind of made me worry about what she might do at the party, them being best mates and all, we are pretty close, and i do trust her, obviously not 100% otherwise i wouldnt be worrying.

She asked me wot was wrong, in a nice way i was truthful, she says..

'Ok i wont go'

i keep telling her to go as i do not want to deprive her from her friends, how can i make her see i dont want my own way, just re-assurance.

Does anyone know of anything that would take my mind off of the matter while she is at the party?

2007-01-04 02:45:39 · 17 answers · asked by Hb 2 in Singles & Dating

my wife was at work and i was at home and i just called two ladies that i know and when they came to my house we start having sex with each other so while we was having it my daughter cought us then i told her to do not tell her mother which is my wife. did i use my brain ?

2007-01-04 02:42:26 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been contemplating moving from the east coast to CA to escape this cold weather and allergies which always seem to go away in CA.

There are a few things which concern me- the major one being my family. I feel very attached to my sister and 6 month old nephew. The other concern is the cost as I don't pay rent right now and I am going back to school, ....that would mean out of state tuition, although I have a family member who is going to help out with the tuition costs.

I want a fresh start and warm weather but I am not sure if moving across the country is the right decision or not. I love California and have always dreamed of picking up and leaving. I am just not sure if this is best left a dream or to just say scr%w it and give it a go. I feel like if I am ever going to make the move- now is the time as I am single still. Any thoughts or advice from someone who has been in this situation or maybe made that move from the east coast to west?

2007-01-04 02:42:10 · 9 answers · asked by marienb 1 in Family

ive just been dumped and feel dead inside

2007-01-04 02:41:13 · 31 answers · asked by alex 3 in Singles & Dating

been seeing this man since oct things going great since christmas things are begingin to be wierd i have not seen him since the friday before christmass.and he has no time for me he takes care of his mom and the house but new years i asked what we doing he said he was talking his mom out o.k i have not heard from him since yesterday he said he was sick and this throat hurting he blew me off the phone. asked if i can come over there is always something i drove past his house twice and 2 different time ther was a car parked in my spot i asked him and he said it was the neigbors so i asked his mom if there was any other girls coming around she told me to ask him so i did he said think what u want, u always think that way anyway, no he said iam always thinking that because i never see him and the excues's and he ingnore my call he sys i call to much cuz he never calls me to let me know whats going on.iam like left in the dark, so i have backed off to see what happen's we lack comuncation

2007-01-04 02:40:27 · 15 answers · asked by Lisa S 2 in Singles & Dating

a girl and i met and kind of liked each other but i moved away and she started to date someone else. in a recent e-mail, she said "i am getting over my guilt and opening up to whatever you wish to write." i want to ask her what she means but i feel i have anxiety and don't want to annoy her. so what do you think she means???

2007-01-04 02:40:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is so nice he buys me things takes me out!!
my crush is so hott!!

2007-01-04 02:40:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

bday gift for homewarming

2007-01-04 02:39:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

K, so all of my friends (age 18-20) are married now. I'm supportive as can be, but it's really starting to bother me. In the past 5 months, 14 of them are married, or are about to be in a short time. I love them all, but they are excluding me from the "group" because I havent married my bf of 2 years now. Most of them still live at home with parents, no jobs, no school, and married the 1st person theyve ever dated. Whenever we go out now, they dont have fun and say i'm too much of a "riot" for them when we're together. I dont want to settle down yet, but I want my friends back. Now i'm just a "pointless college student" as they say. I find it odd that I "party too hard" considering up until a few months ago, they were the exact same way. I dont want to be pushed out of the "group" just because i'm not married yet. I don't know what to do now. I'm starting to wonder if something is wrong with me for not wanting to settle down at 19. I hate it now, and dont know what to do. help.

2007-01-04 02:39:54 · 7 answers · asked by wellwtfok 2 in Friends

My ex-husband and I have been divorced for three years. We did try to reconcile about two years ago, but that ended when he confessed about an earlier affair, he immediately began dating another woman and has been with her ever since. We have a son together and share custody, which is working well and we are doing a good job of co-parenting. For the past year, I have been asking to meet his girlfriend since our son does spend a lot of time around her and her family. He continues to blow me off and will go out of his way to ensure that she and I don't casually meet, such as during the exchanges of our son. I have been dating someone for about six months and he and my ex have met on several occassions. Any idea why he is trying to hide her from me?

2007-01-04 02:39:15 · 15 answers · asked by Traycee 2 in Marriage & Divorce