Iam going through a divorce. My first court date is tomorrow the 5th. Of course this is my side of the story but I was always a loving husband and father of our two kids. She left me in August and moved in with her mother telling me she needed space but was planning on returning home at some point. I found out in November she was seeing another man. I was crushed! She also took what savings we had (14k) out of our account and put it in an account of her own. She forged my signature on a second mortgage without my knowledge for over 50k. I had a forensic document examiner verify it was not my signature. I am still living in the marital home and our kids go back and forth from home to their grandmothers house. I am fighting to keep my kids in there home with me. They love there house, they have friends in the neighborhood and I don't want to disrupt there lives anymore than there mother has. I don't want to keep my kids from there mother but I think it is in there best interest to behome
2007-01-04 02:53:26 · 9 answers · asked by JEFFZ79 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yep sounds like you are the better parent here. You will need all the proof you can get against her. If they are with you right now chances are you will be rewarded custody. Best of luck to you
2007-01-04 03:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes keep your children in there home. They don't need to be uprooted because your ex decided too move out. She made her bed so she can lye in it. Your ex sounds as though she is all for herself and that's all she cares about. Being irresponsible and selfish when it comes to the children is a sad situation coming from her. The courts will look at her as just that, so go for full custody and support soon as possible. You can probably fight her on withdrawing all monies out of the account and far as her forging your signature is against the law. Make sure the courts know all about this as well. She'll be lucky if shes not put in jail. Keep up the good work and go for your divorce right away. Your children only have you far as a responsible parent goes. Good Luck! Cocoa
2007-01-04 11:10:30 · answer #2 · answered by cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will need to have proof that she left you and that she have another man and the only way that courts will look at you for stability is if you have pictures and you must prove that she is unfit for them to stay with her but it sound like she is money hungry and the judge may look at that but be honest what did you so to help cause her to go out and do what she did? then go from there and good luck on your case .
Put God frist and pray about this and he will bring you through.
2007-01-04 10:59:57 · answer #3 · answered by miss out spoken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a lawyer immediately!!! File for temporary custody in the best interests of the children. You need to do this immediately or they will say if you were so worried then why did you allow it to go on and not file sooner. Stay strong and hope for the best.
Good luck and I hope things turn out okay for you!
2007-01-04 11:05:55 · answer #4 · answered by mlhjerp2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go file temporary custody papers right away! AND put all this info. in there . You have a lot of good reasons for wanting to deep the kids, and good for you , Also get the papers asap on divorce started with a good attorney because of the financial things that she had done. GOOD LUCK
2007-01-04 11:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Luck to you, and all of you, the once little family you thought was protected by the picket fence. so sorry DIVORCE SUCKS. for the person who wants one and for the person who doesn't. It is not ever an easy thing for all who are involved.. It's to bad she was a cheat, never could understand people who leave one person for another... if it so be the case, atleast respect the person that you wwere with as you once did have feelings for them, sure telling the truth hurts, but its being honest to the person who loved you and cared, and it hurts but its a release of a lie a wrongful act off your chest,,, As of the kids... Wherever the kids may go, they adjust, but as long as they have their rights as children to see there parents both of them as much as they want, and asd, do not hold kids away from the other parents they are so fragile, and are so trusting towards there family, when they start growing up and they will as they do, fast llike weeds they will have their own minds and opinions and ask the questions to understand what happened that mommy and daddy did not stay together, raise your children enjoy the times you have, My mom always said, do not stay together for the children? and you raise you children for someone else, cause one day they grow up and they will be with the person that they will start their family with, hopefully you willbe close to them as adults, besides them relocating for a job, etc..whatever may cause them to move, you will know if you had been a good parent, you will still be close to you wherever they are. good luck.Be strong, for not just your little ones, but for you as a person, who is just trying to do what right for now...
2007-01-04 11:05:12 · answer #6 · answered by homespaparties4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope all these facts come out in court. She is a selfish fool. Her children deserve to NOT be uprooted just because she's found some new plaything. I hope it all bites her in the butt - and she loses everything. I hope you have a good lawyer - she deserves nothing. Good Luck.
2007-01-04 10:58:54 · answer #7 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you are doing is right...disregard your personality, what your wife did was unlawful...she should be punished....kids need to be with someone who can financially & spiritually support them...and yes, its always best to be home...don't interrupt their lives bec of the adults' argurment
2007-01-04 10:58:12 · answer #8 · answered by tsf_michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men lose in devorce thats why men shouldn't marry its not fair. But thats why you should use condoms
2007-01-04 11:14:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋