ive just been dumped and feel dead inside
2007-01-04 02:41:13 · 31 answers · asked by alex 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're a girl - go shopping
If you're a guy - go on a bender with your guy friends.
i cant decipher which you are - but either way Im sorry - being dumped sucks. Hope you feel better soon hun. xx
2007-01-04 02:45:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We've all been there at one time or another. Feeling low after being dumped is not unusual and believe me you have plenty of company. I have been there and experienced that quite a few times in my life. It is something you have to endure. The best thing I can tell you to do is to try to get your mind on something else or on someone else. Think about a friend you might go and talk with. See if there is a friend you can go to the movies with or do something with this weekend. Don't wallow in the mire so to speak. There are plenty of fish in the sea and if she was a love of yours then I know it will be difficult. Think about putting this behind you and moving on because believe me she is moving on and so should you. If there is some other girl who is your friend then get with her and have some fun. I know this is hard but it is the best thing to do.
2007-01-04 10:47:49 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you do is going to make you feel better right now. It's happened to everyone at one time or another and it's one of the worst feelings in the world. You just have to remember that SOMEONE, SOMEWHERE is feeling the same way that you do too. You're not alone. It took me literally months to get over my last ex that dumped me. But eventually I did and now I have someone even more amazing and we've been together for almost 8 months. I hope you feel better, I really really do. I'm sorry this happened to you. No one deserves to feel like that.
2007-01-04 10:48:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been in ur situation and it takes time! the best thing that helped me was to talk to someone about it and find something that interests you. For me it was working out at the gym which is a great stress reliever and good for you! throw yourself into something new and exciting or if possible travel and see the world! Theres more out there than you think and you never no who you might meet.
2007-01-04 10:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by Irish Lass 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop wallowing in self-pity and get on with your life...so you've been dumped, it happens. Not to say that your feelings aren't understandable, but it is to say that throwing a pity party only prolongs the time it'll take to pick yourself back up. Get out and start to do things that you did before you got into your relationship. What made you feel good then? Rediscover yourself.......
2007-01-04 10:46:11 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to feel low for a bit, that's how we all get past the shitty stuff in life. Let yourself feel it for a while without wallowing in it. For the time being just be gentle with yourself, indulge yourself with comforting stuff (comfort food, crap films etc). You'll know when you have to move beyond it. Just go out into the world with dignity and know that things shift and change all the time; what we do, how we do it, who we do it with(!). How you feel will pass. Be there for the people you care about and let them be there for you. Good Luck
2007-01-04 10:53:38 · answer #6 · answered by wissy67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch a feel good film, tends to work for me, bridget jones makes me laugh and cry all at the same time. Whatever you do dont go jumping in with someone else, always a fatal mistake when we need a bit of attention, we all have basic human needs, food, water and the need to feel loved/feel wanted. Time is a great healer believe me i know from experience and try to keep yourself busy, go and try that hobby you always wanted too.Talk to someone about and dont let it bottle up. HTH
2007-01-04 10:52:47 · answer #7 · answered by Johnyboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gen1:31 And God looked at everything He had and behold it was very GOOD.You are made in His image after his likeness.So nothing short of very good is premitted to follow or hang around you.Nobody is permitted to bring down except you permit it yourself if you understand me so rejoice in God for that is good ridance to bad rubbish.HE knows the end from the beginning.Maybe that relationship would have brought you doom in the end.Dont be cast down.You are beautiful and dont forget,something good is on the way
2007-01-04 11:05:42 · answer #8 · answered by diuto n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happened to me too. Go to a psichiatrist, and if necessary, take the pills he indicates. Helps. And keep active. Its hard to start, to get out of bed, out of home. But after you make a move, the following will be easier. If you drink alcohol, dont incresase the amount you drunk when you werent low, and if you dont drink until you recover, better.
Luck
2007-01-04 10:59:09 · answer #9 · answered by robertonereo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, it is just a passing phase. Try excercising and be happy. Get over it and move on... I know it is easier said than done. If you feel like talking, talk about it to your best friend. Try to concentrate on something you love doing like travel, or take up some hobby.. etc...Hope it helps.
2007-01-04 10:47:18 · answer #10 · answered by SP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋