awhile ago i told my bf that i had kissed another guy. yah, i had screwed up. and now, last night i found that he let a girl give him head. he told his friends it was just so now we were even. i really don't know what to do. i still like him, but if he is acting like a 5 year old and playing the revenge game, then maybe hes to imature for me? help!
2007-01-04 02:45:50 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
think about it...if the girl gave your loser boyfriend head, do u really think that was all the two did?...and how many girls would just give some random guy head or...that soon? i don't mean to make assumptions, but he has probably been cheating with this girl for quite some time...and...it is definetly, in my opinion, a lot harder for a guy to get a girl to give him head than for a girl to get a guy to kiss her...a girl can get a guy to do anything sexual on them...but a guy can't do the same for a girl(most situations)...
did he cheat with a prostitute?! c´mon!!!
if u told ur boyfriend u kissed another guy as in like..."i am so sorry but i have to tell u this cuz it's eatin me up inside -- i...i...kissed another guy" and it was like tha...then what ur boyfriend did was way wrong!!!
go out with the guy u kissed or find someone else...
xao
:)
2007-01-04 02:54:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You certainly did the wrong thing. Telling your bf you kissed another guy was not a smart move. Of course, him then telling you he let another girl give him head was childish and immature on his part. Is he getting back at you? Yes he is just as you have said. If I were you I would move on and forget about him and let him go his own way. However, next time you kiss someone make sure it is for the right reason and please don't tell someone who you like that you did it unless you want to lose them. If some girl of mine told me she kissed another guy I would fist ask her why she did it. If the answer was not reasonable then I would not stay with her. However, I might consider her as a friend but certainly not as a girlfriend. If some guy of yours allows another girl to give him head then obviously he has gone too far. Dump him.
2007-01-04 02:53:18 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well It is hard to say why you motive was to cheat on your boyfriend in the first place, so when you boyfriend let another girl do what she did then he felt that it would be fair to cheat on you and that does not make things better in a relationship it only makes it worse. So of course it is going to even the score but if you want you boyfriend to only have eyes for you then you and him need to be honest with each other and keep the line of communication open. Tell him everything that is going on and don't leave anything out. If he is acting like a five year old then it is immature on his part, but only will he be willing to change that will things better if not then you need to figure out what you want to do next either mend the fence or see what is on the other side of it. You have a choice to make and only you can make it.
2007-01-04 02:53:12 · answer #3 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well u hit him where it hurt the most. men are very hurt by betrayal because it hurts their egos. that is the worse thing u can ever do to a man. eventhough he is behaving like an inmature i mean is clear that he was hurt but maybe he should have talk to u or just break up but maybe he doesnt want to break up and he is afraid of confronting u so chose the easy side revenge. if u really wnat to resolve ur issues talk to him and say ur sorry for what u did but that he hurt u 2 an that u want a fresh start no more cheating and no more lies. i mean just try it and see what happens, good luck girl.
2007-01-04 02:54:11 · answer #4 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok i admit the kiss was wrong but let a girl give him head is like comparing a piece of gum to a pack of gum one is nothing but a whole pack is to much. yea i think that if he has to play a revenge game to get even to you he is just to immature. tell him that you still like him and you will be there waiting for him when he grows up but that you won't wait forever so he better hurry. tell him that you were wrong but that what he did was just to extreme let him knw how you feel about it a let him beat himself up once he has changed give him a second chance
2007-01-04 02:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by love strong with no regrets! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you made the bed, so now you've got to sleep in it. yes, he was being a bit immature, but you can't really hold it against him, because then you'd be a hypocrite.
honestly, if youre going around kissing other guys, and he's going to feel it necessary that he exacts revenge, it sounds like an unhealthy relationship in the first place. i say you have a discussion and either decide to wipe the slte completely clean, or or figure out if it's time to part ways.
2007-01-04 02:56:04 · answer #6 · answered by spankypants 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, its not the same thing, BUT how does your boyfriend really know that you just kissed the guy,. For all you know he thinks you did more than kiss. Anyways.. You two are done for.. Move on.. Nothing good will come from this relationship..
2007-01-04 02:58:28 · answer #7 · answered by charlie2900 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both sound immature. Are you going to try to have a relationship and put your love and trust in a person who acts like this? You already know what the right answer is. Dump him and move on.
2007-01-04 02:51:20 · answer #8 · answered by gab500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn from this what you do take it to your grave some things you don't tell you started the game off males are not able to take taht so don't dish it out unless you can recieve what ever he gives back. take that and move on if you really like him work it out. Grow up the both of you.
2007-01-04 02:49:34 · answer #9 · answered by miss out spoken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he cheated, a kiss is nothing compared to getting a BJ. I would dump the jerk, he sounds as if he's acting like a child.
2007-01-04 02:50:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋