my boyfriend is so nice he buys me things takes me out!!
my crush is so hott!!
2007-01-04 02:40:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your boyfriend should be your crush otherwise you are missing the point of relationships entirely.
2007-01-04 02:42:43 · answer #1 · answered by DannyK 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you love your boyfriend and that you have a thing for your crush but, you can't have both, you have to figure out who you are into the most and have a lot in common with. If you really love your boyfriend you will decline your crush's question and tell him why you can't. If you don't love your boyfriend and have nothing in common with him then split from you boyfriend and tell him why and then take your crush's offer. Either way you have to let one guy go and you have to choose who it is going to be.
2007-01-04 10:46:23 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're young, go out with your crush. He will soon break your heart and you will also lose your nice boyfriend. But then again, if you are with your boyfriend because he buys you things and you don't really feel that attraction for him, leave him and let some other girl who will appreciate him have him.
2007-01-04 10:45:48 · answer #3 · answered by mvas800 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself this, are you ready to break up with your boyfriend coz of your crush? if so, i dont think that you're really into him so much. and probably the only reason that you want to gout with you crush is because he's hot, and that doesn't seen a valid reason for you to date him. your current boyfriend really seems to like you, and it would break his heart for him to see you with a cuter guy. a relationship with your crush might not turn out well, and there you would have lost the good relationship that you had with your current boyfriend, the choice is up to you, but first why not ask yourself which guy you like best? remember, looks aren't everything, really it's the inside that counts.
2007-01-04 10:48:48 · answer #4 · answered by vallyazz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is 100% up to you. Either way you have to turn one of them down, or date them both. If your boyfriend is not serious he won't have a problem with yo dating someone else.......It does sound like he is fairly serious though if he takes you out a lot.
As for the crush...you could tell him you really want to but his timing is just off. Or go for it but you can't expect your current boyfriend to like the idea.
That is a tough situation......it really depends on your age and what you are looking for, a potential husband or a boyfriend. Tough call!!
Good Luck!!
2007-01-04 10:48:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Soooo.... You like your bf for the presents, and you like your crush for his looks.....
And how old are you?
10-15- Whatever- you're young, you're allowed to be shallow...
16-20- Again, you're still young, but be wise. You're building a reputation that could follow you for a long time.
21+- Grow UP!!! Quit being so shallow. There's more to life than presents (bf) and looks (crush).
2007-01-04 11:25:53 · answer #6 · answered by Yoda's Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you're basically stuck between getting good things and a hot guy?
wow what a dilemma.
so you have a boyfriend AND a crush? sheesh, i say you pick a guy you're really interested in and stick with it.
2007-01-04 11:04:58 · answer #7 · answered by T-NEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first ask your self if you are thinking of the hot guy what is missing in your boyfriend.. must not be what you want in a relationship or the hot guy wouldnt be in the picture..
2007-01-04 10:47:23 · answer #8 · answered by suesunshine8 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont get frightened from ur friend and be frank to clarify ur problem with ur friend. Dont force but tell ur problem and wait for the response from ur boyfriend so that he can't mistake ur character
2007-01-04 10:52:06 · answer #9 · answered by bala krishna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well gurl you are the only one who can decide that...i mean which do you want to be with more...are you just wanting to go out with your crush for his looks...are you just going out with your boyfriend because of what he does with you?...ask yourself some questions about these guys then decide which one you want to be with...ONLY YOU CAN DECIDE...it's your choice.
2007-01-04 10:46:54 · answer #10 · answered by kristine_star2008 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋