My boyfriend was always soOoOo sweat, then I found out that he was cheating on me!!(with one of my "best freiends". Now he is tryin to get me to go back out with him. But I dont know if I can trust him! Pluse I am only 16, I dont know how to deal with this. So I need some advice to help me out on this!! He says that he was drunk and at a party. I wouldent have dumped him so fast if he would have told me its just that all the kids at school told me. Everyone is telling me to get over him but I can, I really miss him!! PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
2007-01-04 02:56:40 · 11 answers · asked by ~sweatypie~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-01-04 03:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. so your 16 and boys matter. How about friends? Do they matter. I think this getting back with him should be put on hold. You said it yourself - Where's the trust? Trust is priceless. and should be found even in your friends. Friends first and then the mushy stuff later. Unless you just want mushy stuff-but if that is the case there may not be anything but mushy.
You could make a list. On one side why you want to get back together and on the other side why not. And on that list you can put all the reasons, noone has to see the list. Weigh the list and then you can go with your heart.
2007-01-04 11:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by LESLIE M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
noooooo you should not go back out with your ex. because he may cheat on you again. give it a couple of weeks. if you still feel the same way try it again with him. but follow your heart. the saying once a cheater always a cheater is not always true. just because he was drunk dont make that an excuse. if you were drunk and you cheated on him. and you wanted to get back together. what do you think he would do. plus your only sixteen. take time to see if this is what you really want out if this relation ship.
2007-01-04 11:03:57 · answer #3 · answered by girlie 801 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey there is nothin easy bout this...you are going to have to get over him...the first reason is that you might get hurt again and the drunk excuse is LAME....it is sad cause u are probly a nice girl to...just take it one day at a time and find any way to lose his nuber and lose all contact with him. it hurts but the longer it goes by the easer it gets.
2007-01-04 11:05:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on school to young to be dealing with the stress of boyfriend you still have time.
2007-01-04 11:00:07 · answer #5 · answered by Ans 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how u feel I have been their 2. If u really love him u will give him another chance, but if u dont break it loose.
2007-01-04 11:00:10 · answer #6 · answered by $Mz.Nina aka Baby G$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater.....kick him to the curb girlfriend
2007-01-04 10:59:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl don't even think about going back with him because he'll do it again and his excuse will be "i'm drunk" you can do better you don't want to be worrying about where he is and who he's with
2007-01-04 11:00:53 · answer #8 · answered by beautiful 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait, wait. you're 16. what exactly do you constitute as cheating? well either way, infidelity is infidelity. don't give him a second chance. he doesn't deserve it.
2007-01-04 11:14:34 · answer #9 · answered by spankypants 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes still trying to get you back
IGNORE him hes no good and he will cheat on you again
2007-01-04 11:04:25 · answer #10 · answered by ino M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are so many fish in the sea -move on
2007-01-04 11:01:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋