What should I do?
We were living toghther. he dated a girl while we were broke up. We have d dated off and on for 6 years. I seen where she is calling him and I kicked him out.
Should I jsut raise this kid by myself?
2007-01-04 02:28:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should have sat down and told him how you felt and if he loved you he would respect your wishes especially if you were living together. And do not have an abortion. You keep that baby in your life.
2007-01-04 02:32:34 · answer #1 · answered by lady bug 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She called him while living with you? Kick his *** to the curb!!! I personally think you should raise the child yourself, but most definitely go after him for support!! If you are sure he is the father then he MUST be responsible for the child to some degree-and that means supporting the child financially if nothing else!! This is coming from a father of two children that raised them himself due to the same type of problem. Believe it when I say he is not the man for you to have raising your child! Once a cheater-always a cheater!! You will find the right guy for you-try eHarmony.com (and answer the questions HONESTLY!)
2007-01-04 10:34:30 · answer #2 · answered by dragondave187 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is better to raise a child outside of a relationship if the parents can not get along in a relationship. As long as he was not abusive he has a right to know about the child and see the child. But it is never a good idea to stay with someone just because you have a child together.
2007-01-04 10:31:38 · answer #3 · answered by williamcoulson 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just because you two aren't together, doesn't mean you have to raise the child alone. Tell him you are pregnant. Give him a chance to be in the child's life, before you just assume he doesn't want to be. You don't have to be with him, but allow him to be the best father he can be. If he doesn't want to be in either of your lives (lets face it, he'll have to be), then yes, raise the child alone. I'm sure you'll find a great guy down the road that will fit in with your little family! Good luck, God bless!
2007-01-04 10:33:39 · answer #4 · answered by shondak 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to make your mind up on what it is you want to do, then go to him and tell him what you decided. Because you two can decide what you want to do together, but keep in mind no matter if he stays or goes you will always have the baby to take care of with or without him. Just make sure you are ready for anything that might come your way. Maybe he will want to be with you and help out the all of the responsibilities.
Good Luck!
2007-01-04 10:34:58 · answer #5 · answered by cowchic9 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congradulations if you are... But also if you are im sure you wont be raising the child your self. Although the biological father wont be around you'll have mate and family who will always be there for you, and if you have a brother or close male make sure he is the for the son/daughter because they always need a male figure they can talk to. Good Luck!
... x o x o !
2007-01-04 10:32:43 · answer #6 · answered by ♥..::Amy::..♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im raising my son by myself. I couldnt see it no other way. I take great pride in being a single mom. You will NEVER here me say, "I sure wish soandso was here to help me" Hell no. Im good mom and you will be too. It comes naturally. Youll hold that baby for the first time, and ahhh, youll know how to do it
Good luck, and remember to try and enjoy your pregnancy. I worried to much so it was a tought time for me. Good Luck. you can do it. Plenty of single moms, and dads are out there.
2007-01-04 10:32:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a tricky one.
Your baby needs a dad really, and other than your own feelings you have no right to stop your chilld seeinghis/her daddy.
It will be painful to watch your child have something to do with a man you may still love but you have to put your little one first, it isnt their fault for mummy and daddys fall out.
Good luck
2007-01-04 10:31:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find out his view on the subject... He should have input in the kids life... I'm not sure if this would be his first child, but it can definitely change a person...
2007-01-04 10:32:58 · answer #9 · answered by Casey P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all u said IF....
go get a pregnancy blood test taken by a doctor to determine if u are preggers or not. If not--no problem
If yes, then u need to decide if u want to keep this baby or not. Once u make that decision...u can then move on with your life.
2007-01-04 10:31:05 · answer #10 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋