this guy has been my classmat e for 2 years and we are quite close and he's always making me laugh sooo much! and when i laugh..he'll always stare at me and today..he just can't stop teasing me about the kind of guys that i like, those guys with a little muscle but not too much..and he began flexing his muscles,he ganged up with another guy to tease me about it and we all had a great laugh about it,though he's quite irritating at times,i feel really comfortable with him,i can be myself,but i only see him as a pal.then his friend said if he have more muscles i might just fall for him!oh gosh,what a thing to say!and then he whipped out his phone and tried to take snapshots of me!i was shocked!he has never done such things before!is he nuts??i hope he's only treating me like a pal and harbour no romantic feelings cause i might start to stray if he really does like me,i don't want to destroy this friendship cause i like being with him cause he makes me laugh soo much!!
2007-01-04 01:02:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to ask him if he likes you more then a friend. If he says yes you need to tell him that you only like him as a friend and that you a not ready to take it any further than that. He will understand. Don't sugar-coat things, be straight foward.
2007-01-04 01:07:18 · answer #1 · answered by nealee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get real, serisouly i looked at this question and thought some freak was taking pictures of you. But its just a friend .. everyone takes pictures all the time just for memories, he probably does have a crush on you, but let him know your not intrested.
High School Nuff' Said.
2007-01-04 11:49:07 · answer #2 · answered by name goes here. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you. Although he has a strange way of showing it...
Can I give you some advice though? Personality stays, looks fade. If you fall for someone because of how they look, you may find yourself sitting across from them at the dinner table, bored and irritated. But if your sitting across from them, laughing and happy, what more could you ask for?
2007-01-04 09:08:44 · answer #3 · answered by evilcharm1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a high school crush. The guy likes you but does not know how to come out and say it.
2007-01-04 09:06:09 · answer #4 · answered by Big C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems to me that your buddy has a crush on you. He will eventually voice his feeling to you and then you can let him know that you're just friends. Until he has the courage to tell you how he feels, I would just keep everything the same and not worry about it....when he does voice his feeling is when you need to act.
2007-01-04 09:08:36 · answer #5 · answered by jim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually guys tease you because they DO like you.
Why else would he be flexing his muscles to try and get your attention, but he's using humor to cover it up. It really sounds like he likes you, but is trying hard to be descrete about it.
2007-01-04 09:08:53 · answer #6 · answered by Voice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur freaking out cause he took a pic of u with his phone while u wewre laughing and having a good time? i think ur nuts
2007-01-04 09:05:25 · answer #7 · answered by HanginByAMoment 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simma' down now. don't get all hussy all over a picture. friends don't take pictures? If you don't want a relationship, then tell him in a non-threatening way.
2007-01-04 09:12:15 · answer #8 · answered by spanky1492 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hu cares if he took pix of you hes jus tryin to have fun with you.
2007-01-04 09:13:38 · answer #9 · answered by Lindsey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes u or to say he loves u
2007-01-04 09:20:45 · answer #10 · answered by annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋