My boyfriend and I live together and he and I had a fight about porn sights. I was sick knowing he was doing it. Last night I saw that he tried to delete two suggestive pictures of women (not porn). Why try to hide something if you weren't doing anything wrong - as he claims?
2007-01-04 01:09:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe he wasn't doing anything wrong, but knew you'd go off the deep end... What is wrong with porn???
Perhaps you should dump him and live alone!!!
2007-01-04 01:12:43 · answer #1 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he was trying to be sneaky, most men aren't. Rather i think he was just trying to avoid an argument with you, since you have made it clear you don't like his involvement with porn.
Viewing adult porn isn't wrong. If it were, then half the adult population is guilty of it. Now if by viewing it, he begins to shy away from you where sex is concerned then it becomes a major problem in a relationship.
Don't get on his case to hard about this or you might find yourself without the Boyfriend in your life.
2007-01-04 01:15:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
He is trying to keep the peace. Obviously, he doesn't know what will p!ss you off next time so he is trying to be a good boy and get rid of anything that might make you mad. Why are you so upset over him visiting porn sites? It isn't like he is ever going to meet these women. Men are turned on by the visual. You aren't doing your job if he is looking somewhere else! Slut it up, Sister!
2007-01-04 01:53:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe it's because you think it is wrong and he doesn't want to upset you. You do have to realise that if watching porn is something he cares about enough to do it even though you dissagree with it, it is obviously something he is into a lot. I don't know why they lie but you should have a talk with him about it (with out fighting) and find out why he likes it. Lots of men are into porn and its natural. It is also natural for you to be disgusted by it. Just talk it out
2007-01-04 01:59:59 · answer #4 · answered by MAL GAL 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"I was sick knowing he was doing it" and you wonder why he was deleting things..
Why do so many women have the "I am the only woman your eyes will ever fall upon again" mindset? Men are visual creatures.. As long as the look but don't touch rule is obeyed then what is the problem. If you are so insecure in yourself that you don't want your man LOOKING at another woman then you are setting your life up for some supreme disappointments.
2007-01-04 01:54:41 · answer #5 · answered by Lost in Merryland 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
man like porn this is nothing wrong with liking porn as long as they always come back to you and you reap the benefits of him looking at the porn. did you no that most men learn the skill by watching porn and then trying it on they wife's and GF's. so let the man learn and your will have a better sex life.
2007-01-04 01:33:16 · answer #6 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can`t understand women, it has to be me. What is the difference between him opening a book playboy or other books and seeing a naked women on the tube? My suggestion is simple and I hope all the women are listening. When your making love, and hes on top of you tell him " Ob hon your such a good love moan" Before you go to sleep tell him you love him, and when he leaves for work hold him and kiss him.When hes on the computer what do you think hes thinking of??
2007-01-04 02:30:16 · answer #7 · answered by tonyflorida2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mostly likely because he knows how you'll react. Most guys look at porn (even the ones who claim they don't). It's just a 'male thing'.
2007-01-04 01:11:44 · answer #8 · answered by color me blue 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It is your view that is making him sneaky. Although not porn, he obviously is getting turned on by these other pictures and feels you wouldn't approve.
2007-01-04 02:00:05 · answer #9 · answered by scooba 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen to yourself... you are the one that is making him sneak. This is so obvious it's byond funny.
You got "sick" because he looks at erotic material. Please, believe me, if you can't live with the male interest in sex, you need help. Read the research on how much men enjoy sex and think about sex. Get real.
I'd seek help for your problem while you still have time.
2007-01-04 01:46:52 · answer #10 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋