my boyfriend left me just before christmas he said he couldnt live with my paranoia anymore, but he still loves me and we talk everyday and he comes round sometimes too see me!!!!. i dont know where he is staying he has no house of own just an ex wife he says his brothers?!? dont no what to do am i being used
2007-01-04 01:20:17 · 22 answers · asked by purdy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
So call his brother's and say that you need to talk..
What it sound like is that he has some problems with you (maybe you are being overly paraniod.. maybe he has commitment issues - common in divorced men) but isn't sure about ending it with you.
2007-01-04 01:24:28 · answer #1 · answered by Lost in Merryland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
clearly we don't all know the situation but from what you say and the fact that you mention the ex wife which suggests that maybe he is right and you are a little paranoid and that is something you may need to work on if you both still love each other its hard to say if you are being used as we don't know the guy or anything about him but if you think that maybe you are you should tell him to stop calling round and make a clean break to sort your head out
2007-01-04 09:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by yoshi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry Christmas tis the season for revisiting the past. Wouldn't be a surprise if he was with his ex. The exs normally come out of the woodwork during the holidays. Sorry.
2007-01-04 09:32:14 · answer #3 · answered by wendyhannan0130 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start the New Year off right by being good to yourself.
This guy is a lot of trouble and life is too short not to be happy.
Let him go and find someone who doesn't come with so much baggage.....good luck.
2007-01-04 09:24:40 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a set of bitches who cares about how to spell? The English laguage is stupid and retarded. queen should probably be spelled cween
Also have these people ever heard of dyslexia?
Chances are dear that he is unsure of commiting to you because of your suspicions, try having abit of space from each other this will probably make any feelings for each other evident and either make or break the relationship.
Just remember things usually turn out for the best
2007-01-04 09:27:50 · answer #5 · answered by David C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes! get out of the relationship, cut ties with him! it may seem easier now to keep contact with him but in the end you will just end up getting more and more hurt.
if he loved you enough he would still be with you but he left you, so you really need to forget him and move on.
sorry if i sound harsh!
to all of you having a go at her about her spelling... get a life! this girl is in a bad way and your not helping in making her feel better! grow up!
2007-01-04 09:30:01 · answer #6 · answered by Jemma G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, check if you are really paranoic. If you really are, get help and assistence as soon as possible. About your actual "friend", just act as you feel. If you wish, try to persuade him to change. But dont try to inforce him. Its useless. Try to calm yourself, have an active social life, you will make new friends, and perhaps found a new love.
2007-01-04 10:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by robertonereo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He says he's staying with his brother... it sounds like you don't believe him. Do you have a reson to not believe him? What reason? What does the brother say?
Without any more details, I would say that it just sounds like you're being paranoid.
2007-01-04 09:49:56 · answer #8 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all its naive use check spelling before sending out a question.
Yes you are, stop taking the calls.. if he has an ex he has baggage found someone nice.
2007-01-04 09:22:07 · answer #9 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like it. You need to asess the situation and get your close friends input as well. We need more details on the situation to be able to help answer your question better.
2007-01-04 10:33:53 · answer #10 · answered by "the Otter" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋