Can someone help me figure out what's going on in his head?
A week ago i told a friend of mine that it would be better that we didn't talk so i can get over my crush on him. before this happened, we joked around about hooking up, but then i felt bad about us joking about it. Today I wrote him a letter telling him how i felt about us joking around, and the fact we just treat each other as professionals and he didn't even say hi or acknowledge that he got the letter. He didn't even say anything at all. What do you think he's thinking?
2007-01-04 01:14:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is probably hurt (bruised ego) that the two of you will nothing more than friends. He probably had expectations of something more between the two of you. Give him a couple days to sort out his feelings, and then maybe approach him to talk more about what you wrote in the letter. If he still won't acknowledge you at this time, then I think you just move on until he is ready to deal with the situation.
2007-01-04 01:18:23 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aagh, this is a hard one. Well, he probably got the letter, and is just doing what you said. So can you blame him? I'm thinking that he's got a bit of an ego problem - like 'if that's what she wants, then fine, that's what she gets.' See how this whole silent treatment is going and if you think the idea sucked, then tell him. He might have felt hurt about you thinking that it was all just a joke.
2007-01-04 09:20:32 · answer #2 · answered by Aicha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably confused. Guys cannot read women very well (duh), and so when you write him a letter cause you feel bad about joking around, he is probably thinking "What is up with her? We were only kidding and joking around. She is reacting too much." You could ask him if he got the letter if you want to know so much.
2007-01-04 09:18:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's hurt because he had a crush on you too. Or maybe he doesn't have a crush on you and wants you to get over yours so you can be freinds. If I were him, I'd be thinking you were a drama queen at this point. If you like someone just be strait with them, don't play games.
2007-01-04 09:17:38 · answer #4 · answered by Jessy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Probably Freaking Him Out! Just Be Friend's.
2007-01-04 09:17:00 · answer #5 · answered by † Dark Prince † 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably trying to figure out what's going on your head. Which is it? Do you want to stop talking to him, or do you want to talk to him? Make up your mind first, then act on it.
2007-01-04 09:16:52 · answer #6 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably just upset let it slide go on with life and if he does talk to you again try to stay away from that subject.
2007-01-04 09:18:22 · answer #7 · answered by yankee_lost_in_ga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who knows but him?why so much drama?there's a war going on in Iraq.My grand daughter reminds me of that when I start making big issues out of nonsense,so I am doing that for you.Sounds like a lot of nothing to me,handle your business and make choices that please you,duh.
2007-01-04 09:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he likes you to, he might not know how to comfront you about the situation. Maybe you should try to talk to him about it if he dosen't want you then try to continue being friends, if he wants to.
2007-01-04 09:24:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's possibly feeling rejected. Give him some time.
2007-01-04 09:17:57 · answer #10 · answered by color me blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋