i WOULD LIKE TO GO OUT WITH HIM HES VERY NICE BUT I LIKE TO BE FRIENDS FIRST SHOULD I GO UP TO HIM today and say what to him?
2007-01-04 00:26:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey,
Since you want to build a friendship before you build a relationship, just talk to him about anything. Maybe ask him for his number, or his MSN address. Just figure out anyway to communicate with him. Then after ya'll have a friendship start flirting with him and maybe hint about going out somewhere. Just don't rush things. And it depends on how old you are to decide what to say and how to flirt and all that good stuff. Just use ur good judgement. But first today, build a friendship. Just talk to him, but don't be all creepy and in his face. Oh and a good tip is to look at him and focus on him when ur talking to him. If you want more help or don't get what im saying just e-mail me....bittytexas24@yahoo.com!
Good Luck! ;)
2007-01-04 00:32:32 · answer #1 · answered by Texas <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you known him? You say you would like to be friends first. Well, why don't you try to hang around with him or go out with him to develope more friendship and gradually telling him that you would like to know more about him? If you had known him for some time now, then tell him that you love him!
2007-01-04 08:44:14 · answer #2 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime you wish to be friends with someone it is not always necessary to let them know by words. However, if you want to say something to him then ask him if you can help him in any way. Look for an opportunity to help him in some way like helping him carry his things if it looks like he has too much to carry. Compliment him on the way he dresses and ask him what he is interested in and talk about that. Do the little things that will get him to notice you. Laugh with him and have fun with him but don't push things until you get to know him. Take your time and insure you know him under as many different circumstances as possible before you let him know you feel more for him.
2007-01-04 08:32:12 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that your interesed in him, but want to truely kn ow and him form a friendship because without that it won't lasted. We move to fast in most cases then we decide we don't know the person that we're with and don't reall;y like them as aperson. We must be friends before Lovers.
2007-01-04 08:30:32 · answer #4 · answered by silkieladyinthecity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he show you signs of liking you? If yes then go ahead but if no then give time so you will evaluate your situation. This is to prevent the embarrassment. Good Luck hun.
2007-01-04 08:36:02 · answer #5 · answered by Falcon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell him how u feel just say that u wouldnt mind moving into a relationship but u want to be friends for a while that wil give us a chance to know each other better..
2007-01-04 08:30:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have learned from the past, be friends first.
Once he notices that your into him
if he likes you, he will make the move. Guys
don't like to be smothered, so give him space, and then go for it.
2007-01-04 08:35:35 · answer #7 · answered by Shauna. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to him. If you are in the position to go up and talk. Im in a similar position and im hoping my wish comes true!
Go for it and good luck!
2007-01-04 08:37:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say hi and chat. dont flirt if ur intensions are for friendship only to start!
2007-01-04 08:30:39 · answer #9 · answered by flubberlubberlubber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with him.....observe him first if you like his attitude then tell him...
2007-01-04 08:30:43 · answer #10 · answered by jennil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋