I'm really hurt my heart hurts all the time i keep thinking about him what should i do
2007-01-04 00:25:59 · 10 answers · asked by mima 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I get a notebook and vent out all of my feelings and when I have said everything I wanted to in the notebook I burn it.
2007-01-04 00:28:07 · answer #1 · answered by xxx_kakia_xxx 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry but i am smirking at the moment.... Ask jesus christ... LOL....
Anyway, honnie. If your heart is in pain it means that you are still alive. And this a good step into realizing that you can go on. Did you two had an affair? A relationship? Did you try to get close to him and he declined? I dont know the problem nor do i know the solution. I just know that my heart has been broken so many times and it can always take more...
If you like him and would like him into your life try talking to a friend of yours. Talking always makes thing better. A burden is lighter if two share it... Try getting close to him. Be a part of his life and see how it goes. Make him see you...
If you two were together and broke up, for whatever reasons, try talking to youself instead. Maybe you really know what went wrong.
Best wishes and chin up. Tomorrow is another day so start thinking of it and let the past be what it is.... a memory!
2007-01-04 08:36:21 · answer #2 · answered by kaustikos1981 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to go out and have some fun. Don't be alone tooo much. Try to focus on other things.
Have a hearty cry. Scream if you have to and tell yourself that you are going to be alright. Tell yourself that all the time.
And i am telling you now that everything will be ok. I cry sometimes but i am happy. You always have to look at the positive in all things.
It happened for a reason.
God would not give you someone worse than that . There is something better for you.
Think of all these things and i guarantee that all will be good and well.
2007-01-04 08:31:09 · answer #3 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Mima, I feel the same thing here. What you have to say yourself is that he is not for you. You have a reason to separet from him right? So there is no way that you look back and suffer.
Pray everytime to be strong.
2007-01-04 08:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heal,you will and remember what caused this pain,not just who because you have to take some credit for choosing him,so time will heal you and next time you will pay closer attention to your choices,because we all are responsible for the relationships we get into .pay attention to the little flags you over looked and next time when you are for warned about something you will listen to your intuition and know what to do,
2007-01-04 08:32:54 · answer #5 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get outside and take a walk and re think your life and where you want to go with it . you need to start thinking about yourself and not him. look at all that wasted time you are thinking about him and no yourself. i want you to take a book, go to a movie, get a spa treatment, do something for yourself. its possible he's not even knowing your around anymore, so bump him and take care of you
2007-01-04 08:30:34 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go ..
call it a loss or whatever but let it go cause if you don't it will haunt you frever..
2007-01-04 08:37:12 · answer #7 · answered by rm4real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get busy in something else
2007-01-04 08:29:55 · answer #8 · answered by stranger 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what jesus have to do with this you stupid motherfucker . just find another man
2007-01-04 08:29:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
- Ask Jesus Christ into it . . .
2007-01-04 08:28:35 · answer #10 · answered by Mystro 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋