It's because I'm in love with her.
I sensed she loved me, but then, now, she loved someone else who doesn't even give a crap for her.
2007-01-04 00:21:50 · 16 answers · asked by Nicko C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One thing you need to understand and that is you can't make anyone be in love with you. You can only be a friend to her or anyone else. For someone to love you or for you to love them it takes time and patience. Love is something you cannot rush no matter how much you may want to. The thing to do is to be nice to her and let her know you care for her and if she needs or wants your help all she needs to do is to call on you. At every opportunity do the little things that mean a lot to her like opening a door for her, helping her with her coat, picking up something she may drop on the floor. If she asks you to help her do something for her then do it and smile. Let her know you are concerned for her but don't put her boyfriend down when you talk to her. She has a view of him and you are not the person to change her view by words, only by actions. She will come to appreciate all you do for her.
2007-01-04 00:27:53 · answer #1 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to tell you that you can't make a woman love you or vice-versa. Love is something that a person can feel cause love is an emotion and not a habit. Some here will tell you to be nice to her but from my experience I found that this is not the solution for your problem. So take my advise mate, be yourself and move on with your life. I'm sure that you will encounter the right one for you sooner or later.
Hope this helps and Good Luck.
2007-01-04 00:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by Falcon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot make someone love you or be happy with you.When will people learn that you can,t make that happen.all the time on yahoo answers they ask that question....you say you sensed she loved you,but that don,t mean she did,she must not have loved you or else she would be with you.Just let her go and be with someone who treats her like crap,maybe one day she will find she has the wrong guy....dont try to make someone love you or try to make them happy because you love them.It will never work a one sided love,she must love you back or its not worth it...
2007-01-04 00:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by slickcut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sumtimes people that u thought were close with u will go and mess around with someone else knowing u had the same feelings towards them..u just b u theres nothing u can change about that and when that piss a crap kicks in she'll probably *** running back to u...just be yourself and things will work out
2007-01-04 00:25:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's the one with the problem, not you. Some girls are just like that. Sounds like you're young so take comfort in knowing that there are plenty of women out there that can appreciate a guy that has sincere love to offer. And remember, time heals all wounds.
2007-01-04 00:25:39 · answer #5 · answered by Jimmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was because you are not a challange. change the situtation and don't respond to her. the game of love is can i get this person. so to make her happy is to keep her on her toes and maybe make her take notice in you by not showing her attention and if its meant to be she'll come and stay for a long time
2007-01-04 00:24:33 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
fight for her!!!!she probably wants you badly as you do.i once dumped my bf for some loser who only wanted sex,which i definitely didn't give to him.but deep down,i loved my bf so badly.after i left him for the loser(the ****)he called me all the time,wrote me sweet poems and tried reminding me of the happy moments we had together.after 3months,he stopped writing tome.completly.then i found out that he had a new gf.which pissed mo off.i realized that i wanted him badly too,so i went to his house,and told him how i felt...you know what he told me?that he knew i would come around becos i love him...and all those good times we shared,were not once,but alwys.i advice you to fight for her,at some point,she'll realize she loves.she needs time though.good luck!
2007-01-04 00:32:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave her alone. Eventually when she realises that you are the true one for her then she will come back. I just hope that it is not tooooo late.
2007-01-04 00:25:59 · answer #8 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can not make someone be happy with you, they have to be happy with them selves before they can be happy with another. she may think she's happy or even know shes happy but you cant make her be happy you cant force someone to feel what they dont.
2007-01-04 00:25:12 · answer #9 · answered by furby_lost 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make her happy! If it's dosn't work,then make happy somebody else!
2007-01-04 00:46:18 · answer #10 · answered by Mila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋