okay, so me and my fiance have some issuses with our wedding.. my fiance wants his cousin as one of my bridesmaids and i don't even know her, now i want my 2 guy friends in my wedding, my fiance know my guys friends....so how can i have my guys friends on my side but have a girl on his side? wont that look wierd? and he wants 2 best men, and I only want have one maid of honor, so should I have 2 or he have 1? and finally...his 2 "best men" both have horable hair...like one guys gets mistaken for a girl all the time and the other puts his in the nasty ponytail...so is it rude to tell them both they need to do something with it otherwise their not in the wedding? please help me!
2007-01-04 19:30:53 · 8 answers · asked by THE 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
1. While having a guy on the girls side or a girl on the guys side can be done - when you have so many, you are going to look very messy and unorganzied - I would recommend having the guys are groomsmen and the cousin as a bridesmaid. Traditional, you pick the girls and he picks the guys, but it is BOTH of you wedding day, so you can mix it up a little.
2, He can have two best men without you having two MOH but you can have two if you want. If you don't, one of the best men wil escort a bridesmaid instead - no big deal.
3. The hair - yes, you can ask them to have something done with it - but you can't make them cut it short.
2007-01-05 02:07:12 · answer #1 · answered by Chrys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you having a formal. semi formal, or in formal wedding. As this will have a big play in how you proceed.
I would accept you fiance's cousin, as a brides maid and then you can have your male friends as attendants to you and your fiance.
If formal you can ask every one to follow protocols, and if you have your male friends as attendants, why not make sure that all the men wear the same suit. And the brides maids in a dress in a colour of your choice.
Similar goes for a semi formal wedding.
However any thing can go for informal wedding, as long as you set out guide lines, especially personal hygiene and hair must be neat trimmed and tidy, and every one follows these guidelines, including yourself. You don't want to be known as bridezilla.
Make sure you consult with your fiance all the time, and make sure you both have a clear idea of what you both want. It maybe a good idea to sit down and write out what you both want, and how your going to do it.
Hope it all goes well and good luck for the future.
2007-01-04 20:48:20 · answer #2 · answered by Georgie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW That a lot of problems you have there.ok 1st. i dont think it would be a good idea to have your two guy friends on your side with the other bridesmaids it wont look right.so put your 2 friends in as groomsmen and add his friend to your side plus another one of your friends( maybe a Jr bridesmaid.)as for the best men hair well u could try to ask the to change their hair to a nice cut or a neat style( ask them to wear a bow on their ponytail if they say no lol).
i hope you have a perfect wedding and enjoy your special day.
2007-01-04 19:48:12 · answer #3 · answered by teetee01us 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It won't look weird at all. As for the two best men - have one on each side of your MOR and have them walk down the aisle that way. Ask them to have one of two things done - a) get their hair cut or 2) ask them to have their hair styled the day of the wedding.
Good luck and congrats.
2007-01-05 08:03:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The attendants for a wedding, regardless of whether they are male or female, belong to both the bride and groom. Therefore, you can have guys, but they will stand up with your groom, and he can have girls, and they will stand up alongside you. He should not have two best men, one should be his first groomsman. And no, you cannot dictate style to those guys!
2007-01-04 23:26:03 · answer #5 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what!!! You're in luck because nowadays, there is no such thing as weird in a bridal party. You can both have as many as you wish, holding each position-hell-you can even invent positions if you want! Guys, gals, which side-it doesn't matter. Mix it up and have fun!
2007-01-05 03:25:26 · answer #6 · answered by Happy Wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god, i wish this was all i had to worry about, drama drama. yuck, just go get married in reno, just the two of you.
2007-01-04 19:50:01 · answer #7 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a divorce b4 your marriage
2007-01-04 19:44:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋