what should i do?

Question

i have a boyfriend and i have a best friend but everytime i be around my boyfriend my friend always gets in the way of us and she always do things to make him look at her but i don't know how to tell her but she use to like him a long time ago and when i started going with him she started to act funny

Answer 1

She obviously still likes him but she's not a true friend if she's acting like that and doing theses kinds of things in front of you. She should have told you that she still liked him or maybe she's just jealous b/c you have him and she doesn't and so she wants attention too. In my opinion it's wrong and she is not a true friend, so just keep your eyes and ears open and don't let her take what's rightfully yours. Talk to your bf too see what he thinks, don't be afraid to talk about out in the open, stand up for yourself and what u want. Good luck girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

I'd say that if your friend might still have feelings for him, or maybe she just feels lefted out that you spend time with your boyfriend (is your friend single cause if she is then she could just be wanting attention and feel jealous that you're in a relationship and she isnt) i have a friend that has a boyfriend (as do i) but shes always around shes pretty much obessed with the kid and i know that i feel lefted out at times, i think you should talk (calmly and rash) with your friend and figure out whats really wrong cause theres probably a deeper meaning to this than your friend just flirting with your boyfrined

Answer 3

I think you can probably handle this in a mature manner, but this is not your friend. Think about this. If she was your friend she would be sincerely happy about your new love, and she would not be acting out in these extraordinary ways to gain his attention. And to do this in front of you, or behind your back is profoundly disrespectful to you and your new love. If it were me I would say to her..." Listen you are my friend and I care about you. I feel incredibly uncomfortable when you do such and such" whatever it is that causes you to feel uncomfortable. You can even ask your boyfriend if her behavior makes him uncomfortable as well...and if it does, tell her in a polite BUT firm way that it does. Tell her that you need her to respect your wishes and to stop acting inappropriately around you and your boyfriend. If that does not work, then you need to kick her to the curb...until she straightens up and you need to tell your boyfriend that it makes you uncomfortable to be around her, and that you have attempted to share information as to why, but she is not open.

Answer 4

Well, if you don't bring up the courage to question her, you only going to make your own heart ache. I hope you're not waiting for something to happen between them before you decide to question her?....As you said she liked him before....she's acting funny because she probably jealous and wants to see if she steal him from you....perhaps for the attention or perhaps more. But I suggest don't wait... Unless you rather keep your creepy friend who's deliberately hurting you and Im bloody sure she knows what she's doing!!

Answer 5

I think she's probably jealous. Spend time with your bf without your friend around and vice versa. Keep both relationships seperate and maybe she'll get the message to not interfere...and she wont be able to either since she wont be around when you're spending time with your bf! :D

Answer 6

so tell her how you feel. im sure she wouldnt give a second thought to tellin you to move the hell away from her bf if the situation was turned around. maybe shes not a good friend to have around him all the time

Answer 7

I not saying to act like her but take your boyfriend somewhere that shes not and put the moves on him and he`ll start paying more attenchen to you...... believe me it has happened to me before and I tried it and it work out great...... GOOD LUCK !!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 8

i had this happen to me b4 what i did waz told da boy that it seems like my friend likes u he denined it and everything..then i asked her if she liked him and she said no!! i told them to please keep there distances from each other cuz i didnt wanna get hurt....but i wrote my friend a note such as ....i knoe u used to like .....but now it seems like ever since we got together and now ur acting like u like him again....
but it also could be a thing where if she liked him 4 a long time she might be mad or jealous because she cant have him!!!

Answer 9

Just tell her that if she continues to flaunt her self in front of your boyfriend then you wont hang around with her when you are with him.

Answer 10

Well, apparently she likes him.

When you're with him, don't call her or when you're with her don't call him at the same time. Or when you're out with him, go to places, she won't see you. Keep them appart and things will be better. If you say something to her, she'll probably deny it.