I met a boy 2months ago.he isnt so beautiful but he is very very pollite and kind.he asked me many times to go out with him but i refused cause he isnt beautiful and cause i ve also met another boy who is beautiful but a little stupid.tomorrow,its the birthday of the first guy and he wanted to go out with me.I accepted cause i couldnt refuse again and cause he bought me a present for christmas.but now i dont really want to go out with him 2morrow and i dont know if i really like him or not.but if i tell him again that i cant go out with him he might get mad and bored and if i realise in a few weeks that i like him at last i will regret it and i will be sad.Besides i dont want to hurt him or to make him sad or feel like a loser cause he is very kind and he isnt worth such bad treatment.but if i go out with him and he give me the present it will be more difficult to tell him that i dont like him, and besides, i dont wanna date him!but i feel pitty. what can I do? what shall I do?help plz
2007-01-04 23:53:00 · 4 answers · asked by chris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and how shall i tell him that i dont want him so as not to hurt him? thanks
2007-01-04 23:56:33 · update #1
well what you need to do is stop leading the first guy on and to tell the truth and looks are not everything to by the sound of it that this guy has a heart of gold to even to buy you a present at Christmas and the second guy might have the looks but turn out to be a right **** head,sorry but its up to you but just remember that looks are not everything
2007-01-05 00:02:30 · answer #1 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear, you are in such a dilemma.. how old are u anyway? It does not mean that you accept his gift or go out with him means that you must fall in love and b with him. Give it a chance to get to know him as a friend first.. Don't give appearances such an important view becos at the end of the day, if the beautiful boy hurt you, what are you going to do? What if this other boy, in character, is so much better? Will you fall in love with a person or his looks? Let destiny brings you to a person what you will love and will love you in return also... best of luck
2007-01-04 23:59:39 · answer #2 · answered by The Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is always best; better to hurt him a little now, rather than alot later!
2007-01-04 23:56:26 · answer #3 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u dont want to do out with him. tell him you just want to be friends for now
2007-01-04 23:58:46 · answer #4 · answered by Cavegirl948 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋