So i was with this girl. I got along great with her family, I took her out, I trusted her, but I knew she was insecure about 'getting hurt'. It was affecting our relationship so I sat her down and talked about things with her for over an hour and reassured her that I really cared about her and I had no problem waiting on sex until she is ready and that she needs to open up a little bit to me so i know whats going on. Hell, I even came and 'cuddled' with her when she was sick and brought a movie over. She had plenty of space and I let her go out with the 'girls' because I trusted her. She told me yesterday I am 'friend' material and I told her to piss off since I'm not her goddam friend. Should I just be a total d*ck from now on since it pays better?
2007-01-04 23:49:32 · 13 answers · asked by jared d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. I think she was just looking for an excuse for breaking up with you rather than explaining she didn't like you anymore. Just act the way you naturally are and someone will like you for that.
2007-01-04 23:51:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably just doesn't want to be in a relationship at the moment!. Respect her wishes, isn't it better that she has told you this now and not later on down the track where she would have been stringing you along?. There could be lots of reasons why she doesn't want to be in a relationship at present it doesn't mean that your a bad person at all or that you've done anything wrong!. Trust me you will find a woman that will want to have something very special with you soon enough!.
Good luck:)
2007-01-05 08:02:51 · answer #2 · answered by MizK♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally argee with the first answer it was just an excuse. Sad there isnt very many men out there that is good to a girl and she totally missed that chance. So dont start acting like a d*** to all females because you will find you a very good girl one day just dont give up.
2007-01-05 07:54:43 · answer #3 · answered by blazin_cripz_2006_0wner.sheena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had the wrong girl, chalk it up and move on. Be the man you are now, but take your time in cultivating a relationship next time. Most girls aren't used to such kindness.
2007-01-05 07:55:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you sound like a great guy dont let 1 girl who did not appreciate you ruin it for a future relationship.
2007-01-05 07:53:43 · answer #5 · answered by wblueyesinvt35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were a wonderful boyfriend, I think the problem was u two were not made for each other,she was confused and you did the right thing, she though it over and now has decided she doesn't want to be treated well, and it seems she's got it clear, so move on
2007-01-05 07:58:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she just ruined it for the girls like myself looking for a guy like you....but be glad you got out of that one...because if she didnt respect ya know could you imagine the long haul....dont give up your armor yet...i am sure to the heavens you are gonna find a girl that will definately appreciate what you do for them....good luck
2007-01-05 07:55:43 · answer #7 · answered by michele m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't! Just move on and find a girl that appreciates you, and can return your feelings.
2007-01-05 07:54:36 · answer #8 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Jared, don't be a dick, find yourself a woman who appreciates you for you. You sound great, stay that way, just dump the *****.
2007-01-05 07:52:06 · answer #9 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOL ... more details required. Is she breaking up with you b/c you're friend material?
2007-01-05 07:53:22 · answer #10 · answered by Bob_123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋