im torn between two guys who are quite friendly with each other and go to same school!!the first guy is a bit of a bad boy and i scored him first he was texting me but i never got to see him again and he stopped texting!!i then met the other guy while out one night he is dead sound and great fun and i've met up with him a few times at the cinema and stuff and we get on great!!but last day we were out together we bumped into the first guy and it brought all the feelings I had felt for him flooding back again!when i got home that night he text me again and asked about meeting up!i know for certain though he may only be after one thing whereas the other guy wants something more serious with me!i cant get the other guy out of my head though and im ruining everything?!what should i do?!please help??!!!xx
2007-01-04 23:45:37 · 12 answers · asked by lil Miss Irish 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel your pain honey, its just the way woman are they love the chase of the one that they cant have.You see boy 1 you are hot for but did not show intrest in you but boy 2 did and looks like he wants to be with you.But then boy 1 saw you with another guy and decided to call you, he is a player. But if you are young then go for it see what is out there for you.
2007-01-04 23:51:03 · answer #1 · answered by wblueyesinvt35 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, guy #1 is probably only doing that because he saw you with another guy and probably likes having someone around to fall back on when he needs it. Guy #2, from the sounds of it wants a serious relationship that could work out better in the long run. #1 will probably only brake your heart and then you'll end up with no one. If something were to happen between you and guy #1 that made it so it didn't work. Then see if guy #2 still wants to hang out, but I doubt you'll be missing anything with #2 except for some heartache. But really its all up to you, no matter how much advice you get. Follow your heart and you'll do the right thing. Everything that happens, happens for a reason. So whatever choice you make, its suppose to be that way. One way will just cause more pain than the other.
2007-01-04 23:52:16 · answer #2 · answered by Cait 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Defently dont get with the bad boy because all he wants is a piece of ... ya know the other guys seems really nice and like he would be very true and good to you. Dont miss the chance to have a great guy. If the bad boy stopped texting you for awhile that tells you right there he isnt interested in anything but sex. So do the right thing. Hope this helps
2007-01-04 23:51:24 · answer #3 · answered by blazin_cripz_2006_0wner.sheena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first is to calm down i've been through with this once so i can help you.think of a way or a plan to work this out like....rate them if this has a higher rate maybe he's the guy that's right for you.also if one of the guy ask you out on the same night as the other guy make an escuse or some thing and if you good friends try ask them but be careful! some might spill ;)
2007-01-04 23:58:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take time to sort through your feelings out.. Not knowing age group , thats pretty much all i can tell you but if your middle school age or younger boys can wait enjoy your friends, sports and school, same if your in early high school..But I know children date young so The biggest thing is just to make sure your not messing with anyone emotions and mind, make up your mind and stick with it if u cant be honest with them about...
2007-01-05 00:01:40 · answer #5 · answered by c_sev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for the second guy (the one who wants something more serious). Bad Boys might be fun, but they arent worth it!
2007-01-04 23:47:50 · answer #6 · answered by xo_mzbeck_ox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a chance. Either leave them both.
Tell them both about the other, or
just move on.
I was like this, so I told both of them that if they really
cared, they had to PROVE how much...
only one of them did. So I am happy with being with him.
2007-01-04 23:52:39 · answer #7 · answered by Shauna. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop and move on..MEN TEND TO SEE YOU WITH SOMEONE ELSE..AND KNOW THEY CAN GET YOU BACK..ITS THE TERRITORY..THEY DO NOT LIKE OTHER MEN PISSING ON THEIR SPOT. YOU HAVE TO ASK YOURSELF WHY DIDN'T HE STOP TEXTING YOU IN THE FIRST PLACE. WE AS WOMEN WANT A GREAT GUY AND WHEN WE GET OUR GODSEND WE THROW THEM AWAY. SO, REALLY FIND YOURSELF, KNOW YOUR WORTH AND THEN YOU WILL KNOW WHAT YOU REALLY WANT. GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS.
2014-04-20 01:26:50 · answer #8 · answered by GODIVA'JAI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should forget the 1rst guy bcoz he txted u bcoz he didn't want to c u with the other guy, and wanted to ruin ur luv life so try to forget the 1rst guy
2007-01-04 23:50:58 · answer #9 · answered by Dj Badboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go for the bad boy..... if he only wants one thing he isnt worth ur time..... go for the nice.. i'm sure ur forget about bad boy soon enough....
2007-01-04 23:48:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋