Family & Relationships - 4 January 2007

Do you think it is better to be married or just live together ?????

2007-01-04 07:37:27 · 37 answers · asked by irishlad 3 in Singles & Dating

would like a band that gets people up dancing

2007-01-04 07:37:24 · 4 answers · asked by helen_knott 2 in Weddings

2007-01-04 07:37:10 · 48 answers · asked by lil sexy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 07:37:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Okay, so I have this boyfriend. We've been dating for about two months now, and I was really starting to like him, falling for him you could very well say. And yesterday, I called up my best friend and we were hanging out, she was sitting in the living room with him when I went into the kitchen to snag a couple drinks for us all (there were about four other people there too) and I get to the doorway and I see my best friend and my boyfriend making out, I freak and manage to get away without my presence being noticed standing there at the doorway. and now i don't know how to bring it up to him, or how to go about talking about what happend, i mean im mortified, why would my bestfriend do this to me??and why would my boyfriend do this to me???

---confused....

2007-01-04 07:35:41 · 59 answers · asked by RandomChick 1 in Friends

I started dating this girl before xmas and it was great. We where texting and having fun. She then suddenly stopped texting me and I have just found out that shes with her ex bf again.

When we went on a date, she was moaning about how much of an idiot he was but she back with him. What do I do?

2007-01-04 07:34:35 · 54 answers · asked by medic_man 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 07:34:18 · 28 answers · asked by dj 4 in Singles & Dating

yesterday i put it out there to vote about giving a guy another chance to meet me..we kept e-mailing and he really apolized and said he wanted to see me today (thurs)..I said ok...I have not heard one word from him evn though he said he still has my number..he has not-mailed....now what do you think??????

2007-01-04 07:34:10 · 10 answers · asked by lost 2 in Singles & Dating

When people ask questions about sex and their love life that the response is huge? But not so much when it is serious personal matters like family, etc. Why do you think its so popular?

2007-01-04 07:33:42 · 10 answers · asked by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 in Singles & Dating

He was my classmate for one year, but I lost him for 3 years, I found a note of his email address and started to contact him, we haven't met yet but I am very enxious and I cant stop thinking about him even a minute
What can I do to stop myself? because I dont think my eyes can denied the truth!
I have so much love that I dont get from my husband!!
Please help me and give me a an answer that will make my heart relax

2007-01-04 07:33:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have 3 sons 30, 27, and 21 ; they are successful; finished college; have strong , independent girlfriends/wife that I get along with ; never any problems until this past year when my 30 yr old facing intestinal reconstruction told me to get the h out of room that he doesn't need a mommy any more; (when several days before he called me begging for advice about a second opinion for the surgery) my next son, I asked him to leave at 26 after never contributing etc (told me I would have to evict him) he moved out and is now getting married next year (of course he asked for money for the wedding) my youngest son just had a big argument with me and told me that I borrow money when he was in high school and never paid him back 150.00 - he lives under my roof; helped him with car; my heart breaks for the things that they said to me this year and I burst into tears at the drop of a hat? What do I do now , step back , give time , any advice ; oops there goes another tear! I am so hurt

2007-01-04 07:32:10 · 14 answers · asked by sml 6 in Family

Guys what are some reasons as to why you stay friends or "hang-out" with an ex? My ex dumped me a year ago yet last week he called me and asked me to go see a movie with him. Then he took me home, and when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to see me 'every once in awhile'. By the way, we never had sex cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. BUT, we only dated for one month, so why after one year, after HE dumped me, why does he wanna hang out and see me once in awhile? So what does he REALLY want and should I be worried?

2007-01-04 07:32:06 · 25 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 07:31:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 07:31:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 07:31:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 07:31:32 · 6 answers · asked by mickves t 1 in Singles & Dating

should two people stay together because they have a vhild together.

2007-01-04 07:31:30 · 13 answers · asked by baby 2 in Singles & Dating

My best friend is obviously a guy and he just recently told me that he had feelings 4 me. I've liked him for about a year now. Right now, i have a boyfriend but we can't see each other and and my Best friend is always there for me. I want to be with both of them but i can't decide which one i want. I love my boyfriend but i think i'm falling inlove with my best friend. I DON'T want to ruin things between my best friend if things don't work out but there's alway that 'what if' What do i do?

2007-01-04 07:31:27 · 8 answers · asked by ***Suga lips*** 1 in Singles & Dating

I confessed to my girlfriend that i've been going through her internet accounts like facebook, yahoo, myspace, and her phone account--to see who she's been calling. obviously she's been calling her Ex and i asked her she said yeah she has but there's nothing going on btw them and that he knows not to try anything... Anyway the point is i had to let her know this big secret about me snooping on her cos i felt like i've been keeping something from her. I thought it was the right thing for me to do, but it just caused me my r/ship with her. You think we could ever get back together? What should i do to get her back mehn. I love that gurl so much. Hell i was going to propose to her in 4 months time which is after my graduation!!!

2007-01-04 07:30:53 · 22 answers · asked by PeaceMaker!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

we have been together for 7 years,but married for 3 of them. recently he told me he doesnt love me anymore,of course i was very hurt by this,because i still love him deeply and because i am 4 months pregnant!!.i asked him if there was any chance of him loving me again and he said maybe(he wants to).so we are still together,but everytime i see him i cannot help but think it all over again in my head.can someone please help me and recommend what i should do,i do want to be with him because i really believe we have a chance, but then i think of the what ifs!!

2007-01-04 07:30:41 · 8 answers · asked by Mrs s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She kept this information a seceret from us and I don't think she has the right to do that, especially when me and my other sister both have small children. She says he is sorry for what he did and that I am out of the wedding because it wasn't any of our business what he did in his past and when I found out I shoud have just forgotten about it. I say we have every right to know this, what do you think? Also her two kids father doesn't know about the guys past either. I think we all have the right to know what kind of a person she is bringing into our family.

2007-01-04 07:29:47 · 41 answers · asked by The_Game 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i think the reason why im not to talkative around people i dont know is because i dont want to annoy them. i dont know why but i think if i just try to strike up a conversation with someone they will just think im a wierdo for talking to them

i think it is also becuase alot of times when im nice to people at school like ill tell them oh i really like your shoes or something like that and they just give me a wierd look! well its more to people i dont know but ok sorry for being nice!

but anyways if someone you know but dont really talk to much came up and started to talk to you would you be annoyed??

and no i dont have low self esteem or anything like that...im just not that great in social situations i guess.

2007-01-04 07:29:35 · 15 answers · asked by ... 3 in Singles & Dating

hired a private detective to tail a spouse. I f so was it worth the cost......and how much did it cost?

2007-01-04 07:29:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The problem is he's my best friend. Ive known him for about 14 years and he also hooked me up with my girlfriend of 6 years.

2007-01-04 07:29:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whats wrong with me?
I love my husband very much but so many bad things have happend ever since I got pregnant with his child. Before we got married I found out I was pregnant. I was so happy and he seemed sort of happy. Well we decided we have been together for a long time to get married. Well 2 months before the baby comes we get married and then we have the baby in october. in nov. I find out he cheated in sept. Then I forgave and he doesn't help me at all with the baby, house, or dog. i dont get any attenion unless he want something. Example he wants me 2 have a 3 sum but I don't so he told me that he would stop smoking if I would. I haven't but I don't know what to do. Everyday I wonder if marrying him was a mistake I love my little girl so I will never think that of her. But I think sometimes about leaving him but then I realize i love him so much... What do I do??? I am kinda scared to talk to him.

2007-01-04 07:29:09 · 28 answers · asked by jharris8506 2 in Marriage & Divorce

shes moving about 3 hours from where i live now due to some issues at the house...does anyone think that this could work out between us because its only like 200 miles or so

2007-01-04 07:27:57 · 15 answers · asked by superstuddly 1 in Singles & Dating

i want girls to look and love me

2007-01-04 07:27:05 · 13 answers · asked by amr 1 in Friends

2 kids - 1 gets on ok with dad but is scared stiff of him cos he hits him - 1 hates him and seems to be hated by his dad and new wife who a few weeks ago called him a retard and a b1tch !!?
dad, and his new wife has caused nothing but trouble over last 4 years. he is now paying no support for kids and i am expected to do half the travelling to take kids to see him cost about 100. what would you do? im so angry about the maintenence and the way he treats them, but is it worse for kids if i cut the contact? or if i split the kids and let one go but not the one who hates it so much..is that worse for him in the long run to be the one cut out(even though its what he says he wants he is only 8).and if he can be and allow one son to be abused whats to say they wont start on the eldest when he is the only one there. this has happened before with the eldest, his dad disowned him. its all a mess and he seems to do whatever he wants and get away with it. is there any way to make him see sense

2007-01-04 07:26:25 · 23 answers · asked by slsvenus 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Everything they do, I love it until I sleep with them. How can I be more respectful towards them?

2007-01-04 07:26:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my friend are trying to complile a list of "dating rules" that people have like with girls, a friends ex is off limmits or wiht guys, you cant date a friends sister? waht are some other rules that you and your friends have?

2007-01-04 07:25:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating