hired a private detective to tail a spouse. I f so was it worth the cost......and how much did it cost?
2007-01-04 07:29:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if there is no trust, perhaps its time to call it a day. Treat yourself to a holiday with the money you save yourself by not paying for a private detective.
2007-01-04 07:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do it and you find nothing, you had better take the whole thing to your grave, because if she finds out you did that she will be so hurt that you didn't trust her.
My father's wife actually did this job. I think the cost was about $50 an hour but it piles up FAST.
By the way, she did it for like 10 years. Here are some neat stats from here experience, best I can remember:
75% of clients were male.
About 50% of women were correct in their suspicions.
Almost 100% of men were correct in their suspicions.
When women were wrong, they were usually lied to about where he was, but it was just as often hiding hanging out with people she didn't like, drinking, or just farting around.
Men, on the other hand, were nearly always correct.
Interesting. Keep in mind this is a cross section of her clientele, not the general populace.
2007-01-04 15:40:54 · answer #2 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually i got a friend to follow him for me and found he was cheating !!so i didn't need a private detective but i believe they are very expensive. My advice to you would be if you suspect you may need a private detective then the chances are you need one !! sorry
2007-01-04 16:26:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I hired someone to follow an ex. It was well worth it when considering I could never catch him cheating on me. Do it if you care a great deal for the person and you strongly suspect they are cheating on you. There will be no room left for them to lie to you anymore. If nothing is wrong, you don't have to tell them you did it.
2007-01-04 15:33:04 · answer #4 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, but i don't think it's a bad idea if you truly think she's cheating. If she is, finding out the truth is worth the cost. If not, atleast you'll have peace of mind.
2007-01-04 15:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by *Just Married* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surely this can only lead to more hurt and mistrust? Why not just confront the spouse if you have suspicions?
2007-01-04 15:32:25 · answer #6 · answered by tiffin8013 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but if I ever came inot a large amount of money, I would before I told or shared it with him. I have thought about it may times - my husband is very secretive.
2007-01-04 15:34:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never worth it...don't go ahead unless you're prepared for what you might find out.
2007-01-04 16:14:12 · answer #8 · answered by sophie.clark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
60 dollars an hour plus expensives.
2007-01-04 15:33:57 · answer #9 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wots the point in wastin ur money wen u have no trust
ull get no where
2007-01-04 16:02:32 · answer #10 · answered by geordiesteph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋