My best friend is obviously a guy and he just recently told me that he had feelings 4 me. I've liked him for about a year now. Right now, i have a boyfriend but we can't see each other and and my Best friend is always there for me. I want to be with both of them but i can't decide which one i want. I love my boyfriend but i think i'm falling inlove with my best friend. I DON'T want to ruin things between my best friend if things don't work out but there's alway that 'what if' What do i do?
2007-01-04 07:31:27 · 8 answers · asked by ***Suga lips*** 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sit down and think about what you really want in life if the bf thing is too hard on you then like i said fallow your heart!! as for the best friend thing my advise would be don't do it!! because if things don't work out then the friendship that you have now could never happen again... it all depends on how you feel about the situation..... like i said Fallow your heart the rest will fall into place!! good luck and stay Strong!!!!
2007-01-04 07:48:53 · answer #1 · answered by socerchic2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This actually happens a lot.... falling for the best friend.
It's a tough one, especially if you already have someone... and because of the fact that it's hard to get involved with a best friend coz you're risking your friendship when u start an intimate relationship. but if the bond is strong, you might as well go for it and see where it goes, especially if he's always there for you. But then telling the boyfriend that'll be difficult too.
Otherwise, see how things go with your boyfriend... ask yourself which guy you're absolutely in love with... and not just "love" plainly. weigh it out.... but don't overthink it coz it'll drive you nuts. whatever happens happens?
Best wishes in your situation! I hope things work out with either guy you choose.
2007-01-04 07:51:04 · answer #2 · answered by hawaiiangirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
“in love” : A temporary state of love. Can last up to 1 ½ years, but usually shorter. It is based on thirst of love, a constant need to be satisfied, but never is. Someone “in love” can never get enough and wants to be near the one they are in love with 24/7. It is a clouded state of mind.
As they say, “love is blind” the person “in love” will make decisions to please the one they are in love with even if it hurts them. At the time they do not even realize they are doing so. Only after the “in love” period is gone do they see what they have done. They do this due to the fear of losing the person and fearing losing the feelings they get while being with this person.
2007-01-04 07:52:13 · answer #3 · answered by Life Coach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats a hard one to answer but you never know until you try, so give your best friend a chance but be careful wen you do so because one thing can change it all,,and with your boyfriend , just tell him that you want some space because you barely even see him and see how things turn out. good luck!!
2007-01-04 07:38:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, dont start anything with your best friend. Because you already have a bf that you love. The best thing is just keep things the way it is, dont start drama.... Take care
2007-01-04 07:38:09 · answer #5 · answered by Rain L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SUGGEST three-way BETWEEN U ALL...one will say no (too possessive) and the one that says yes will be THE ONE becuase he cares more about your happiness than his own...
this is the one true way..sacrifice is love..love is letting someone else be happy at your own expense
2007-01-04 07:44:18 · answer #6 · answered by Tikcus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do them both and who ever is best you keep simple as that
2007-01-04 07:39:14 · answer #7 · answered by Slavemaker Beta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool! Does he know?
2007-01-04 07:44:59 · answer #8 · answered by Bunnytoes:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋