WHAT WOULD YOU DO?? its an emergency!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

Okay, so I have this boyfriend. We've been dating for about two months now, and I was really starting to like him, falling for him you could very well say. And yesterday, I called up my best friend and we were hanging out, she was sitting in the living room with him when I went into the kitchen to snag a couple drinks for us all (there were about four other people there too) and I get to the doorway and I see my best friend and my boyfriend making out, I freak and manage to get away without my presence being noticed standing there at the doorway. and now i don't know how to bring it up to him, or how to go about talking about what happend, i mean im mortified, why would my bestfriend do this to me??and why would my boyfriend do this to me???

---confused....

Answer 1

First of all SLAP THE DAYLIGHTS OUT OF HIM!!! If he did that to you he deserves it! After you immediately do that start telling him off! Use cuss words bring it all on him. Get your anger out. I prefer a public place like at school or at a restraunt. Humiliate him!

Second of all go tell your friend off. Can't slap her otherwise you to will be in a fight. Then never talk to her or be her friend again.

Answer 2

I would just come out an ask him. If you are sure you saw with your own 2 eyes they were making out first of all you need to not talk to either of them anymore. There is no need for people who are supposed to be close to you to do that. So ask him and see what he says try an catch him in the lie. If he doesnt' lie then atleast he is being honest but you don't need that in your life period. If he should tell you the truth and he tries to get you to stay with him I don't think it would be a smart decision because you would never know what he was really doing. And your best friend ( well hopefully she won't be anymore) you should check her on it also. And since you have been with him only for a short time it would be easier to get out of the relationship now instead of waiting and hurting yourself more in the long run.
Hope this helps. Good luck

Answer 3

She's not a real friend and he's an *ss. What a prince, right? No. I'd bring it up. Really it's unacceptable. Ask why it happened and what this is supposed to mean for the friendship and for the relationship and then decide what to do. Realistically speaking, do you want to go out with the guy who made out with your best friend? Can you confide in her about guy issues if there's a possibility that she'll try the guy out and see what he's like? They both suck.

Answer 4

You need to handle your business and don't let your so-called best friend thinks she is getting away with being with your so-called boyfriend. Get both of them together at the same time and let them both know that you know how low down and dirty they are both being and if they wanted to see or be with each other then thats all they needed to say instead of cheating like two dogs in heat. Girl handle your biz and let that trash go or would you prefer them to keep making a fool of you and you be the laughing stock of the group?

Answer 5

dump him and stop being her friend because if she was your best friend u wouldnt be in this mess. some people are like leaves they are only meant to be in your life 4 1 season and some are like roots they are ment to be in your life 4ever but see both of these people are leaves and were sent to teach u a lesson so the season is over and the leaves are dead its the middle of winter so their time in your life is so over due and 4 bringing the subject up u dont have 2 because when u put them out your life they will probably ask why. go rent madea goes to jail and there is a seen that tells all about what i just said

Answer 6

Sounds like you need to dump your boyfriend and your best friend (who is really no friend at all). No reason needed....they know what they did. He cheated and she betrayed your friendship. Move on...you don't need the stress or drama in your life. When they call, just be too busy for the both of them and go out and have a great time. You need a boyfriend who adores you and cares about your feelings (this one obviously doesn't).

Answer 7

you know I had the same thing happen to me along time ago. I went to work and came home to find my best friend rubbing lotion on my boyfriends legs, I felt like something had gone on. Well a couple weeks later I bought a eugie board, and my bestfriend and I sat to play it and I asked the board if she cheated our friendship with my boyfriend, and the board said yes...she didnt have to tell me, I was going to find out, and I let them both go. You can find much better friends than keeping the ones who don't care.

Good luck

Answer 8

What's to be confused about? Tell them what you saw and if they are happy together then so be it. But you aren't going to be friends with them anymore. True friends wouldn't make out with a friends boyfriend! And your boyfriend should know better! You need to get rid of them both! I have been in your shoes and this is what I did.

Answer 9

Something is seriously wrong here. I think that you should confront the both of them then let this guy go, and your best friend as well. She's not a real friend if she's making out with your man! Let them both go, find a new best friend & find a new boyfriend.

Answer 10

Because they are asshgoles and because they can get away with it...if I WAS you i would just lose both of them....who needs losers like that...i'm sorry you have to find out ....some best friend....but it could be the drinks too but still....its not a good thing to do....to a good friend...it was done behind your back...if I was you i would confront the both of them...good luck!