Family & Relationships - 4 January 2007

I got diagnosed with ocd about six months ago. Of course I was sad, confused, etc. so I talked to my sister in law about it. She said she understood and was sympathetic. Last month we got into an argument and I ended up calling her a loser. She told me that I had mental problems and needed to get something done about it. How would me having ocd have anything to do with calling her a loser? I feel like she betrayed me because she took what I told her in confidence and degraded me with it. Why didn't she just call me a name back? I know that fighting in the first place wasen't mature. we made up but I don't want to speak to her anymore.

2007-01-04 08:04:17 · 9 answers · asked by Lora P 1 in Family

im new at a school in brighton and have no friends what do i do to make friends?

2007-01-04 08:04:01 · 6 answers · asked by Raelinda F 1 in Friends

Friday Jan-5-07 will be 12mons and 1 week.
And i have stoped talking to my best friend.
Iam always with my bf and not my friends.
Should i not spend some much time with my bf and start hanging out with my friends?
I dotn want to leave him cuz i really love him.
For x-mas he gave me a promise ring.
Wat should i do?

2007-01-04 08:03:56 · 4 answers · asked by carole H 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ever have anne summers parties at your home.... and if so are they worth doing?
A friend has aked me to host one an don't know if I should.
Thanks in advance for answers

2007-01-04 08:03:52 · 13 answers · asked by crazeeladee no more 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 08:02:26 · 3 answers · asked by Victorio 2 in Singles & Dating

I've observed that women tend to go for guys that treat them like trash (for lack of a better word). And the other night I was listening to a show on the radio with women calling in and admitting they like to be treated that way.

I have several questions: Do women like to be treated like trash? If they do does it have something to do with their childhood? Were they abused or beaten? Did their dad treat mom like a doormat so that's why they think that poor treatment is a show of love? Or is it some biological instinct that mistakes jerks for alpha males?

2007-01-04 08:01:53 · 45 answers · asked by Jim Z 2 in Singles & Dating

I read something that referred to someone as a "practice-girl", guys what does this term really mean?

2007-01-04 08:01:47 · 5 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 08:01:24 · 3 answers · asked by non active 2 in Singles & Dating

My alcoholic wife divorced me. We had no children. I tried everything to get her to change her mind you name it i did.

She has cirrhosis diagnosed 2 years ago. We got divorced last April. She wanted to remain friends i said i couldn't if she had boyfriends around as it would hurt me too much.

I asked her to leave me alone and get on with her life, and let me get on with mine. I even had to say to her contact me again and i will go to the police.

On christmas eve she rang me saying she was ill and would i go and see her. She asked for my mobile no and would i go and see her in rehab when she goes in a fortnight. I said yes.

I never heard from her again until new years eve she text me before midnight wishing me happy new year. I text back saying remember that i love you.

NYD she text me to say she had spent most of the day ill in bed waiting to Rehab. I asked did she want me to go and see her and she said don't worry have friends now.

What is she up to do you think?

2007-01-04 08:01:09 · 2 answers · asked by padervan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-04 08:00:47 · 10 answers · asked by EL-BRAY 3 in Singles & Dating

do you agree with me that yahoo answeers is a great place to solve ur problems that ur to scared to go to a parent or a friend about and wouldnt go to a clinic or somewhere?

2007-01-04 08:00:20 · 12 answers · asked by SimpleImmortality 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm trying to call my boyfriend and his brother said he talked to him and he was fine and i talked to him 2days ago and now every time i call the phone rings and it gives you this recording saying someones on the other line or something and every time i call no one answers. I have been trying to get ahold of him ever since 11:00am

2007-01-04 08:00:13 · 12 answers · asked by blackkat 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in love with three of my cousins and it just hurts so bad that i can't be with them.

2007-01-04 08:00:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

---i am not telling u my age, im not stupid!
---dont tell me if my parents say im not ready it probably mean im not ready! i've heard all that crap before!
---my parents are strict when it comes to this, but they are not about other things (most things)

2007-01-04 07:59:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

hey i was just wondering everyones opinions out there but please dont say you're too youmg dont worry about it. i am 14 and in 8th grade my boyfriend who goes to a different school is 13 and in 7th grade..he got held back hes suppose to be in 8th grade and he will be 14 in march

2007-01-04 07:59:34 · 8 answers · asked by PerfectlyinLove 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i know im a pretty girl, im blonde with green eyes, i got curves ofcourse im cuban. Im fun to be around. but sometimes i feel ugly and some other times i think im beautiful i think im having some selfsteem problems fornutalety noone notices i hide it really good, but i cant hide it from myself. how can i start been more appreacitive of my looks?

2007-01-04 07:58:40 · 1 answers · asked by Blondie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ive never sone it before

2007-01-04 07:58:10 · 10 answers · asked by example 1 in Singles & Dating

There was an article in the local paper today saying one in two babies are born out of wedlock in Wales. I know alot of people who are in long term relationships and have kids, I don't think they will ever get married. I have a baby and I see us being together forever. Do you think it really matters about parents being married these days?

2007-01-04 07:58:02 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

bec she called me up and ask when my next doc appoiment was... so me being dumb I told her and then i asked her if he was still mad at me and she said I dont know... but he sure is mad about something but I just dont think she would have told me anyway.... she might have know and not told me ... i told her that i keep emailing him and he has not wrote back to me and i asked her do u know why and she told me he never going to write back to he does not want anything to do with u ??/ I still dont understand this why were we going to get married and we have a baby on the way why would he do this now and no it not bec he want sex from me ??? we had sex way befoure we even talik about having a baby what should i do i still love him and want him back i think he might have a girlfriend by now i dont know what to do i still want him back but if i keep writeing to him he might change his email on me what should i do i miss him and i want him back so bad.... what should I do

2007-01-04 07:57:12 · 1 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Is the face more important or is the body the main thing. For example if a girl has big boobs - would this be more attractive than one with a pretty face>?

2007-01-04 07:56:58 · 8 answers · asked by milly S 1 in Singles & Dating

No stupid answers, if you dont' have a good answer then don't write anything. - no her head is not heavy!

have read a few articles on body language but I still don't know for sure what stuff means.

Maybe I don't see her often enough to know.

She is really shy toward most everyone, any suggestions on what her body language would be for both attraction and non-attraction?

Do you know of any big easy signs that I can look for?

There are so many small ones that I don't know what she's saying.

Seriously think about it don't just write on a whim.
I usually only answer questions that I think are relevant and that I could help. Do me the same courtesy won't you.

2007-01-04 07:56:34 · 21 answers · asked by rambocommandodude 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 24 yrs old and have been married twice already.My parents could not stand my first hubby who i met while in college at a club where he was an ultimate fighter.I fell head over feel and eloped with him after 3 months.Problems were numerous to say the least he had never graduated from highschool and he was participating in illegal fights to make ends meet.My parent continued to pay for my college tuition but cut off all ties with me and when i graduated college i was 3 months pregnant.After i gave birth to my daughter he became violent and in a fight with me over money broke my jaw.I divorced him and married my divorce lawyer who i thought i was in love with that marriage lasted only a year an half before i found out he was a womanizer and a con-man.At this point i am terrified of dating anyone or trusting people?

2007-01-04 07:56:13 · 19 answers · asked by Mercedes C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-04 07:55:57 · 2 answers · asked by EL-BRAY 3 in Singles & Dating

found out the guy I was talking to overseas < wasflyingout
to see some other girl when he came home ,so I broke it off with him, because he sort of lied and was dishonest about it, and I did not feel comfortable being his friend/dating, ect since he was dishonest. and deleted him from myspace, ect. He put his profile on private the day he came back from visiting her, even though he checked it the whole time that he was gone, visiting her. and never changed his status to single, and never put pictures up of him, even though she had tons of pictures of the two of them on her profile. Does this mean they are in a relationship, or that he's trying to hide all this now that he's gotten laid?

And why didn't he tell me about this, what does he care if I can see that he is in a relationship...is he ashamed of himself?

2007-01-04 07:55:38 · 5 answers · asked by googlegirly 1 in Singles & Dating

She may be looking for her dad.

2007-01-04 07:54:53 · 1 answers · asked by SL F 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-04 07:54:47 · 15 answers · asked by britzygail 1 in Singles & Dating

Greetings,


We all see that some white women, date outside of their race openly. They love black men and chase after them, and so do some black men. However, white men I have a question for you. I am a black woman, single, successful, with a master's degree, beautiful, long black hair (not weave), nice body, and I own my own car and home. I am just wondering if most white men would date outside their race, to a woman like me? I know we see many black men and white women dating each other. So white men... would you be open to dating a black woman who has it together? Please only honest answers respond. If you are going to be rude do not answer.

2007-01-04 07:54:38 · 8 answers · asked by Tonya 3 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 10 monthes..and about 2 months ago i told him i had a brain tumor and i dont...idk what came over me to tell him that but i did and now his whole family think i have a brain tumor...the last thing i want to do is hurt him because i love him but idk how to tell him

2007-01-04 07:53:43 · 32 answers · asked by charlotte 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 07:53:06 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cause i have tattoos and work. what to do? what to use??? im broke here

2007-01-04 07:52:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating