Family & Relationships - 4 January 2007

i have known my husband likes women but he claims they are just his friends. recently he sends them txts wen i am there and even calls them but walks away so i do not hear wat they are saying . he claims he just loves thier company but has nothing sexual to do with them. pls help me. what do i do?

2007-01-04 08:36:56 · 56 answers · asked by bode 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-04 08:36:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What is the correct protocol for asking a girl out that works in the same place as you if you never have the chance to meet socially outside work? Email? Phone? On the corridor? Or is it off limits?

2007-01-04 08:36:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and that person is already with som1 else....and everything reminds u of that person....

2007-01-04 08:35:58 · 19 answers · asked by mel 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to know a good comeback because a kid named Kevin keeps bothering me!!! The comeback I'm using right doesn't seem to bother him. So what Comeback should I use?

2007-01-04 08:35:37 · 11 answers · asked by mike93 1 in Friends

I am a divorcing man from a unfaithful marriage who is involved with a woman who broke off a non serious relationship with a man to begin a serious long term relationship with me (phew). This man claimed he loved her and made attemtps to keep her feeling bad about ending the relationship but now just keeps in touch to keep in touch. He emails and corresponds with her via her cell (voice and text msg). She says she likes his friendship and it will be nice when he accepts her choice. She is owed a considerable amount of money from him. Instead of paying a lump sum or check by mail, he insists on giving her cash here and there. She knows I don't trust or like him. She never says in advance that he called with another payment meet (coffee and chit chat normally per her) and it's always an "Oh, by the way..." sort of thing when she tells me afterward. She has never lied to me or been dishonest with me - so why do I feel like I'm being deceived without being lied to?

2007-01-04 08:35:36 · 3 answers · asked by bucs44coach 1 in Singles & Dating

i've had my 3 grandchildren living with my husband and i for 41/2 years they are my daughters children - she is a heroin addict and keeps threatening to take them back (when she needs benifit money) they are doing really well at school although they have had alot of problems in their past - i have been told it would cost us a lot of money to make everything legal but i don't want to drag them through court they are aged 6,8 and 11 years old

2007-01-04 08:35:31 · 9 answers · asked by emarston@btinternet.com 2 in Family

been dating this sexy Russian guy for about 7 mos. we went on a ski trip for new years and i totally found out he was cheating on me. i confronted him but he totally denied it. i didn't tell how I knew but believe me I found the smoking gun so there is no doubt in my mind...heres the dilemma... This guy is a great person and seems like an amazing friend but since we started out as lovers should I just cut him loose completely or keep him on as a friend since he has been so great since I've met him? Or could the fact that he's cheating be a sign that he's not the guy I thought he was. I know that he really wants me in his life but I'm definetely no Backseat B*tch so I don't know what to do.. All answers welcome

2007-01-04 08:34:34 · 6 answers · asked by HONEY 2 in Singles & Dating

If your spouse was fully willing and capable to support you such that you didn't have to work, what would you do?

2007-01-04 08:33:58 · 73 answers · asked by Saphire Aurora 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Question Details: My dad is 51, he is an International Banker and makes alot of money!! My sister and I are 17 and 16. We were fine until this 24 year old girl tricks him into falling in love with her... she hates my sister and me and makes our life miserable.... she takes the credit card, goes out and spends thousands of $$ a day... but she tries to pull me and my sister apart. for example she will cut up my clothes and say Rilee ( my sister 16) why would you do that to your sister??? she even keyed our(my sister and mine) cars... so i just need some advice to make her life miserable

2007-01-04 08:33:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

daughter is almost 18, he has 3 other kids with another woman and friends are telling him she is gonna take ½ of his salary. Is this possible even if he has other responsibilities or will the amount be determined based on this? I am all for him helping them out but she is still in love with him (after being separated for almost 18 years) and I am afraid she will screw with him just out of spite!!!!

2007-01-04 08:33:42 · 21 answers · asked by mex_drgn 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If a girl is over 5 10 is she too tall to put guys off= Would you ever go for a girl taller than you?

2007-01-04 08:33:34 · 31 answers · asked by milly S 1 in Singles & Dating

yea, so me and my friend are argueing if it is or isnt good to be a b*tch in high school...and i say it is (mostly cuz we r upper classmen and i am a b*tch to the freshmen) and she says it isnt cuz then ppl r scared of you! what do u think?

2007-01-04 08:33:26 · 14 answers · asked by blair 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I posted here earlier today that I thought the best way to deal with my separation with the wife was that I moved into our loft apartment and kept taking care of the major finances (car payments, house and utilities) while the ex and the kids live in the house. Her wages from her job are enough for her personal spending and groceries.
Some comments I got in return from you guys weren't very responsive to this idea!

The problem is that she is very irresponsible and immature with money, and just sending her a cheque once a month would be chaos....things were go very wrong very quickly.
The best thing for her and the kids is to remain in our house (they all love it) and for the kids to be with their mom (she is very loving and a good parent) but she cannot 'run a household' so I have to assist in that in some way.
So, if you didn't like our 'living on the same property' idea, give me some ideas on how I can give them a good household and still move on with my life......

2007-01-04 08:33:25 · 4 answers · asked by AUTO S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so theres this girl. we used to have tons of fun together in a class we had a couple years back, and it was cool. we didnt have any classes together last year, but i asked her to a school dance, and she said she couldnt go. I talked to her friend, who didnt kno i asked her, and she said that the girl only goes with ppl shes good friends with. which is understandable. well we have a class together this year its its a ton of fun. like we walk together after class and stuff, and we basically just laugh alot. should i ask her on a date?

2007-01-04 08:33:16 · 17 answers · asked by Ant 2 in Singles & Dating

How can you tell if a guy has deep feelings for a certain girl if he doesnt say that he does or tells anyone else how he feels about that particular person?

2007-01-04 08:32:58 · 8 answers · asked by BEAUTY ISIS 1 in Singles & Dating

If you found out that your husband's ex was pregnant, would you leave him? I think he was cheating with her before we got married. Everytime we broke up with each other, he ran to her.

2007-01-04 08:32:14 · 8 answers · asked by stella 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Good Will Hunting

2007-01-04 08:31:43 · 30 answers · asked by amazon 4 in Singles & Dating

my best friend and I like eachother..we kissed. now she tells me she is confused and tells me there is 60% not to be w/ me and a 40% to be with me. but she just told me that wont work. She likes me i like her. but she is also my best friend now i feel like i lost both
what should i do girls..i need ur help i am confuse

2007-01-04 08:31:12 · 29 answers · asked by leomebaby 1 in Singles & Dating

From the last question i asked about me messing up my r/ship by going through her stuff. She was mad at that point and ignoring my calls.. but i just talked to her minutes ago and she was responding fine, but her tone was kinda weak like she tired or something... You think she still loves me that much and want us back together??? And for the record i'm buying some roses tomorrow!!! for her!!!

2007-01-04 08:31:07 · 12 answers · asked by PeaceMaker!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

I decided to stay out all night long and party last night without telling my husband or calling him to let him know I wasn't coming home till the next morning. When I finally staggered in at 8am he was soooo mad. He had the nerve to yell at me and spank me!!!!!!! Then he tried to "ground" me from the tv, computer, car, etc.... for a whole week. I laughed at him when he said he was grounding me, go figure that made him even madder!!!! I mean who cares if I stayed out all night drinking and partying. Don't you think he's being a little unfair??????

2007-01-04 08:30:59 · 23 answers · asked by Man of the house 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-04 08:30:28 · 8 answers · asked by justme 2 in Singles & Dating

please help me, should sex still hurt / be uncomfortable half way through sex, it isnt all the time just now and then ,and it comes and goes, but it is making me scared of sex incase im damaging myself please help me, me and my bf always do foreplay so it isnt lubrication or nerves as im the more confident, so pls help me

2007-01-04 08:30:03 · 6 answers · asked by choooo choooo 2 in Singles & Dating

im 16 years old alright im not shy, im an absolutely outgoing kid that everyone thinks of me of being the nice "good looking" kid in the grade, but there's this one girl that stumps me. I've liked her since 8th grade and i've never really been able to be able to talk to her. Im always struggling how to "get to know" a girl by talking on AIM messanger or in person. I tend to run out of things to say in my conversation n i tend to lose her, i kno she thinks im "bangin" haha but idk if she likes me. She always msgs me if i dont talk to her for a few days and is like "So nice not talking to you??!?" or sumthing like that. idk i have the confidence to get her but i just donno what to say sumtimes or how to "get to know her" more. Ne ideas if she likes me and what i shuld do to talk to her?

2007-01-04 08:28:54 · 8 answers · asked by nymetsfan23 1 in Singles & Dating

The dress I am thinking of has a red kinda like a stripe on the top and along the bottom I just hope that it isn't a bad thing.

2007-01-04 08:28:43 · 25 answers · asked by Krypto 1 in Weddings

hey this is korean babe again with some realationship problems. i like this 1 guy but as i said b4 he has a girlfriend, but then a new kid came to our skool and he soooooo hot (omg) but he just came on 1-3-07 and hes already taken by my best friends cousin (tear) he offered me a dollar b/c i got the basketball 4 him i really want to go with him to the valentines day dance b/c im pretty sure he will dance with me. my other 2 best friends like him too. what if he asks 1 of my friends out ill be crushed! what should i do tell my friends how i feel, ask him out, ask 1 of my friends to ask him out for me? i REALLY need help. HELP ME ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-04 08:28:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you any know phone numbers of prostitute?

2007-01-04 08:28:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

do boys expect it to be shaved completely? not shaved at all? trimmed? if you shave is there anyway to get it completely smooth without stubble or razor burn?

2007-01-04 08:28:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend and friends, but I am alone more than I have ever been. I don't have my siblings anymore.

2007-01-04 08:28:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

how long does it take to heal a broken heart???

2007-01-04 08:28:04 · 38 answers · asked by ann_jacques 2 in Other - Family & Relationships