If you found out that your husband's ex was pregnant, would you leave him? I think he was cheating with her before we got married. Everytime we broke up with each other, he ran to her.
2007-01-04 08:32:14 · 8 answers · asked by stella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Though I understand your feelings, I would have to say that basing your leaving on what you ASSUME to be true would be foolish. Just because he ran back to her everytime you broke up, does not mean that he is the one who got her pregnant. However, if he did get her pregnant while you two were broken up, how can you be mad AT him? You guys weren't together, and it may or may not have had anything to do with him not loving you. I know I would definately feel hurt in this situation, but you can hardly be mad at him. If you love him, then honor your vows until you find out otherwise. Has he said that he could be the father? If so, have you talked about what he plans on doing if he is? And let me ask you something else. If you thought he cheated with her BEFORE you guys got married, why did you marry him? How would you deal with the situation? Trust is a huge factor in any relationship, and it sounds like you have none left. I do hope you find a decision/answer that works best for you. Good Luck.
2007-01-04 08:42:07 · answer #1 · answered by candyyy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only real reason to leave over that would be if you could prove the child was his. It is tough to speculate in that situation. I guess you would have to ask your husband if his ex knows who the father is. I would also be up front with him and ask if he thinks he fathered the child during one of your breakups.
2007-01-04 17:31:24 · answer #2 · answered by Jaybo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I found out my husband's ex was pregnant I would want to know if it was from my husband. Then I would decide what to do.
2007-01-04 16:35:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't leave until you have the proof that it is his baby. If he was cheating, Leave him and never look back girl!
2007-01-04 16:37:30 · answer #4 · answered by happywifenmom21@verizon.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out if he's the father and if he is, then the writing's on the wall, you should leave him.
2007-01-04 16:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by Vimbai M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to know for sure or not it's his, and you need to know from him if he can stay away from her for good. If not you not you need to move on or else you will be sharing him with her for some time to come.
Good luck
2007-01-04 16:37:08 · answer #6 · answered by jaws1013 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u love him??? does he love u???
How do you know for a fact if it is even his kid??
2007-01-04 16:37:40 · answer #7 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know for sure its his baby?????
2007-01-04 16:34:35 · answer #8 · answered by Luv_My_Baby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋