Step mom problems?

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Question Details: My dad is 51, he is an International Banker and makes alot of money!! My sister and I are 17 and 16. We were fine until this 24 year old girl tricks him into falling in love with her... she hates my sister and me and makes our life miserable.... she takes the credit card, goes out and spends thousands of $$ a day... but she tries to pull me and my sister apart. for example she will cut up my clothes and say Rilee ( my sister 16) why would you do that to your sister??? she even keyed our(my sister and mine) cars... so i just need some advice to make her life miserable

well my sister and i lived in NewYork with our mom until a year ago she passed away and we had to go live with our dad.. i just feel that if we told him... that he would think it was out of jelousy!! and we have hinted it and he got angry so we try to leave it alone.. but she continues to act like a crazy *****! its ridiculous!!!

thanks but i have tried to talk to my dad... i dont have any other family here in LA or anywhere else...there is no talkin to her!! i just need to get her like she gets me and my sister... thats it! she steals our money cuts our clothes up keys our car... she did something to our dog ... b/c he has been missin for some time now.... she has these other 2 sisters who are just like her!! one is 22 and the other is 19! they do the same thing to my sister and i!! i just need some revenge ideas.. and good ones.. its not like its a step mom im dealing with ... im dealing with the ***** from school ya know! she is what 7 years older than me??

Answer 1

I would get spy cameras and set her up then show your father...what comes around goes around and this witch needs to be stopped!!! That is horrible that she is trying to split your family like that...get her out of your lives ASAP!!!

Answer 2

First of all get your father involved let him know wants going on if he don't listen is there any in your family you can tell. The young that 17 you will be an adult so you may want to solve this problem now before you move out you don't want to leave you sister be herself with that witch. Find out to may sure your is not her everything that can be tricky. Sooo PLEASE talk your dad as soon as possible if too busy you and sister have stop him in his tracks.

Answer 3

you're 13. it truly is the kind of troublesome age. Is there a particular reason your dad raised you rather than your blood mom? you should get rid of the dislike, and also you do have an thoughts-set, it truly is so obvious on your placed up. I easily have a 13 year previous grandson, and if he used the language you've used in this placed up, i might want to be enraged. If it truly is the kind of thoughts-set you've consistently displayed in the route of the doorstep-mom, then i can see the position she is coming from. you want to take a strong verify out your self, and note what you may do to reveal this round. She says she would not care about you, because you're making it obvious that you do not care about her. because you apparently are unlikely to furnish in this one, you want to ascertain if there is another position you may stay. i imagine it truly is a shame you may't attempt to regulate YOUR techniques, and doubtless the doorstep mom will be slightly nicer.

Answer 4

that is soooooooo wrong! u need to talk to someone about this! try talking to ur dad about this. it might be hard but u feel really good after. trust me iv got a step mom too. if ur dad doesn't believe u tell someone u trust. maybe even a school counsler. or tell someone that can help u do something about this. in the meanwhile try to spend as much time away from home as possible. friends house, clubs or a movie or something. also try talking to ur step mom, tell her how u feel. good luck hope everything turns out ok.

Answer 5

I am only giving this advise to you because I had an evil step-father so I sympathize.

if you prepare dinner....laxatives...they are clear, and enough will have her shitting herself.

remember that she is basically your age, so deal with her in anyway you would some ***** that was stepping on your toes. But unfortunately for her, she is the "adult" figure, so your actions are far more excusable than hers, and if your father is smart enough he will see this.

all the luck in the world, but what ever you do just remember, Karma...make her life miserable, but don't hurt her.

Answer 6

tell your dad about her or do something really bad that your dad won't like and blame it on your step mom. or tell your dad to leave her because why would he need a girlfriend when he has ya'll and his money. last tell him that she goes out and spends thousands of $$ a day. GOOD LUCK

Answer 7

I would tell your dad unless he is totally clueless and wouldn't believe you. In which case I would speak to one of his family members he would listen to, or a friend of his that he would listen to. Your stepmom is breaking things and that seems pretty deranged so someone in a position of authority needs to be involved. good luck.

Answer 8

what was your dad thinking?
she is just a young kid herself.
first of all you need to defend yourself, and sister.
tell her if she wants to say anything, tell her, to go threw your dad.
let her know she has nothing to say over anyone.
she is still going threw puberty herself.
i won't even want to be around the house when that little ***** has her monthly friend is in town.(periods)

Answer 9

try to catch her in the act so you can show your dad the evidence. you might want to try to talk to your dad and start crying or something and tell him that she is really hurting your feelings. afterall...she is spending your inheritance!!!

Answer 10

Can You say gold digger? Tell your dad and ask him to get involved.