yea, so me and my friend are argueing if it is or isnt good to be a b*tch in high school...and i say it is (mostly cuz we r upper classmen and i am a b*tch to the freshmen) and she says it isnt cuz then ppl r scared of you! what do u think?
2007-01-04 08:33:26 · 14 answers · asked by blair 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't see how people thinking you are a b*tch could be considered a good thing.
2007-01-04 08:36:45 · answer #1 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is this...."you can catch more flies with honey and less with vinegar"
You ladies are at a point where your personal behavior can take you anywhere or trap you...leaving you nowhere!!!
Do you want to be remembered as a b itch??? IF so then go for it....but there is so much life to live after high school and you will be surprised at how many "lower" class-man may end up working with you later on in life....especially if you stay near the community you grew up in.
I personally want to command respect form others because of who I am and how I live rather than having a false sense of respect because people are afraid of me.....being a jerk only leaves you miserable when all is said and done. Think it over!!!
BTW...all the girls who were b itches when I went to school are the ones that are fat, b itchy and miserable now.
2007-01-04 09:08:44 · answer #2 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Karma is a funny thing. What goes around comes around. Remember that you will be a freshman in college soon enough (if you choose to go.) You should treat others as you yourself would want to be treated. There is nothing to gain by acting that way towards freshmen. Plus, once you are out of school and in the real world, you will be perceived by how you present yourself. If you have what is perceived to be an attitude problem, not only will you have issues with relationships but you will have issues with getting and keeping jobs as well.
2007-01-04 08:38:46 · answer #3 · answered by Jaybo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why be a b*tch at all? What gives you the right to be? Why would you want to be thought of that way? And... do you like it when others are mean to you? Grow up and think about the world from a bigger perspective! Be nice, be kind, help other people out, and do things for others... you'll feel so much better, honest! Give it a try!
2007-01-04 08:41:36 · answer #4 · answered by JP 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, so you'll be the girl everyone makes fun of at your 10 year Reunion because you'll have already been married and divorced with 3 kids all the while worrying if you'll end up dying as an old and alone crazy cat lady
2007-01-05 00:25:43 · answer #5 · answered by ~LAX Mom~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just try to ignore them, there are lots of other people in high school to go hang out with just don't worry about these girls. They think they are better than everyone else, but they're not.
2016-05-23 03:35:07 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you NEED to be a Bi^ch in school it is hard enough on some people to have selfesteem. Why would you make people feel like shi%. God when I went to school and the other cheerleaders were being that way I quite hanging out with them.
2007-01-04 08:38:31 · answer #7 · answered by Jeni Bug 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it can be useful sometimes (like to the freshmen) but around others like friends and family you shouldn't.
2007-01-04 08:38:47 · answer #8 · answered by ms.chic 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop being a *****...it carries later on into life.
2007-01-04 08:41:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No because karma will come and kick u in the butt later on life.
2007-01-04 08:36:25 · answer #10 · answered by Halle Berry 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋