im 16 years old alright im not shy, im an absolutely outgoing kid that everyone thinks of me of being the nice "good looking" kid in the grade, but there's this one girl that stumps me. I've liked her since 8th grade and i've never really been able to be able to talk to her. Im always struggling how to "get to know" a girl by talking on AIM messanger or in person. I tend to run out of things to say in my conversation n i tend to lose her, i kno she thinks im "bangin" haha but idk if she likes me. She always msgs me if i dont talk to her for a few days and is like "So nice not talking to you??!?" or sumthing like that. idk i have the confidence to get her but i just donno what to say sumtimes or how to "get to know her" more. Ne ideas if she likes me and what i shuld do to talk to her?
2007-01-04 08:28:54 · 8 answers · asked by nymetsfan23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say that since I am a girl, that a lot of the guy when I was in high school, didn't ask out because they though that they couldn't get me. They were mistaken, most girls that will talk to you, and especially give the line, "so nice talking to you??!?" she is flirting with you.
You have the confidence. but once you do get her, dont treat her like a jerk. if she wants a jerk shell get the football player, always remember that she can have any man and that you are lucky to be with her.
The best thing to do is ask her out on a date. this way you get to know if she is the type of person you want to be around.
2007-01-04 08:35:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she would like to hang out with you -just as friends.
Just go get lunch on a Sat. or something little like that to get to know her better. Good luck :)
2007-01-04 16:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by m cheryl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out. Casual and active, no flowers, and in a group if you have the same freinds. get her to talk about herself. ask her about music, or her hair. listen and provide feedback and you probably won't have to say much, at least untill she relaxes and asks you the same type of questions.
2007-01-04 16:47:10 · answer #3 · answered by lovedoc 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok. well i think its pretty obvious that she likes you too, so, i know you've heard this a billion times, but just go up to her and say "hey." i think shes just waiting for you to make the first move, and as soon as you do, she'll step up
good luck
2007-01-04 16:32:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, tell her that she intimidates you! Seriously! She will be flattered, and she will love the attention. She will start opening up "for" you, and you just reap the rewards!
2007-01-04 16:35:22 · answer #5 · answered by John W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her on a group date, then if it get awkward, you have other ppl to talk to but u can get to know her better and she'll kno ur interested
2007-01-04 16:32:46 · answer #6 · answered by ©•®°ß♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch out the girl i like use to do the same to me. now she will not even talk to me
2007-01-05 18:03:46 · answer #7 · answered by cworkman2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what she likes to do and let her know that you do like her and want to get to know her.
2007-01-04 16:31:41 · answer #8 · answered by Jeni Bug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋