---i am not telling u my age, im not stupid!
---dont tell me if my parents say im not ready it probably mean im not ready! i've heard all that crap before!
---my parents are strict when it comes to this, but they are not about other things (most things)
2007-01-04 07:59:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
U said it yourself you r a young girl so be a young girl and definately inmature. IM NOT TELLING U MY AGE!!! Leave boys alone until u r old enough.
2007-01-04 10:16:43 · answer #1 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I don't know your age it's a little harder to answer but I'm gunna just give you the run down. I'm 22 so I was in this same situation not that long ago. I know you don't want to hear it but in all honesty when your parents act like that they only do it because they love you and don't want you to get hurt. Now I know it's a pressure an all that to have a boyfriend during school but the worst thing you could do is to sneak it. When (and they will they always do) your parents find out you will get into trouble and nobody wants that. So I would sit down an talk with your parents and try and make a comprise. This will make you look like a mature young lady and they will think that maybe they were wrong in not letting you date. Make a compromise iby saying what if I just have guy friends that you bring to the house only when your parents are home and they get to meet them and all of that great stuff. As long as they feel comfortable with the situation they will let it happen. Don't throw a temper tantrum and scream and yell an all that because this just make you look even less mature and they will have the attitude of I told you so. Be smart about it and don't rush anything like you said your young, you have a lot of time ahead of you to date boys will always be around.
2007-01-04 08:30:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
take on more responsibility, do more chores, get good grades, and talk to them about it in a mature way. Alot of girls around the age of 12 or 13 want to start having a bf. alot of girls want a bf just so they can show off or because everyone has 1. im 14 and i have a bf and my parents think im 2 young to have one too. as long as you dont do anything sexual and u just hang out I think its ok to have a bf at an age no younger than 12.
2007-01-04 08:46:09 · answer #3 · answered by akgurl92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly it would be easier if we knew your age so we could see where your parents are coming from. Personally I don't think a child in elementary school or younger than 13 should really have a boyfriend. So if you're younger than that you're parents have a good reason for not wanting you to have a bf. That's just kinda young. If you're older than that try showing them how responsible you are because they may just be worried about what you might do with a boyfriend and not so much you having one. Then again they could just be very protective.
2007-01-04 08:04:42 · answer #4 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see how you feel right now .. this is through your words. Ok, you want to go out with your friends... thats a great thing atleast you will have fun and enjoy yourself. I am with you abt that 100%. But... " I say BUT", but did you looked to the other direction... coz you've just look from your view... " i mean how you see things ", Again i say... did you looked the other way... the way how your parents see things???? I guess no.. even i did the same mistake when i was like you. Words are many and some you wouldnt take not coz you dont want but coz you dont want to listen. I always believe that for every question there ARE SOLUTIONS... lets start from here. You have said you dont have close connection with your parents. I am pretty sure thats the problem. The solution, get closer to them... talk to them... you kno even help them when they work... show them you will listen to them and their advices... "REMEMBER YOU SHOULD BE HONEST", sure everything will be fine. If you are honest... and you did that for 2 weeks from now... sure they will notice that you have changed... and sure they will trust you going out.... By the way... pls be with good friends who will never spoil you... coz if you dont have, then i am sure they will judge you on that. Wish you all the best.
2016-05-23 03:27:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you refuse to give your age clearly shows that you know you're too young.
Your parents are watching out for your safety, and you should be grateful that you have parents who care.
The fact that they are not so strict when it comes to other things shows that they are willing to be reasonable, as long as your safety is not at stake.
What all this adds up to is this: LISTEN TO THEM! They know what they're talking about.
2007-01-04 08:07:18 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Learn to have fun just being a young girl as long as you can. But I would say maybe 16 if you and the boy are mature.
2007-01-04 08:04:25 · answer #7 · answered by white dove 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've nailed your own coffin because you know you are too young if you refuse to disclose your age. I agree with other posters who side with your parents because you obviously know that you are too young to be dating on a serious basis and your ranting points out your immaturity.
We weren't born yesterday and don't assume we are stupid, because we can all speculate with great reasoning that you are mosty likely 12 or 13.
2007-01-04 08:16:43 · answer #8 · answered by shlangemann 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you want a decent and honest answer, tell us your age and what grade are you in...
the maturity of the age will determine and help you convince your parents to get into a relationship...
study hard FIRST so that your parents wont be alarmed once you have a bf...
2007-01-04 08:07:19 · answer #9 · answered by bianca ysabelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient and do everything else right. Get good grades and don't disobey curfew. If there is a boy you like, introduce him to your parents as a friend. They may get used to the idea if they get used to yall hanging out and like him. Also, make sure they know where you stand morally. Make sure they know you know it is important not to sleep around, etc.
2007-01-04 08:03:21 · answer #10 · answered by kathryn w 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋