we have been together for 7 years,but married for 3 of them. recently he told me he doesnt love me anymore,of course i was very hurt by this,because i still love him deeply and because i am 4 months pregnant!!.i asked him if there was any chance of him loving me again and he said maybe(he wants to).so we are still together,but everytime i see him i cannot help but think it all over again in my head.can someone please help me and recommend what i should do,i do want to be with him because i really believe we have a chance, but then i think of the what ifs!!
2007-01-04 07:30:41 · 8 answers · asked by Mrs s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Focus on rekindling your relationship instead of dwelling on what he told you. If he wants to fix things, you are ruining it by dwelling on the negative. Look toward the positive and start moving forward.
2007-01-04 07:43:23 · answer #1 · answered by PDH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if you are persistent about being with him until he finds someone else of interest to him. This would hurt even more especially with a new baby in the picture. So, what do you want in your life if you can't have any reassurance that you're wasting your time in the marriage. See if he's willing to get counseling or work on doing things that can help rejuvenate the marriage.
2007-01-04 15:45:03 · answer #2 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really am against divorce but in this case I think you should consider it.
You have given your husband the keys to your happiness and that makes you powerless.
Think about getting some counseling for yourself ...you need a back-up system to help you deal with this mess.
2007-01-04 15:36:32 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u can take some time off you dont want to go through the drama whilke ur pregnant all the insecurity mixed with hormones can really do a number on u and it might help u see that u just might be able to be without him if he decides its over!
2007-01-04 15:49:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage counseling will help!
2007-01-04 15:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if love is ment to b let him go and he will come back to thee
2007-01-04 15:35:14 · answer #6 · answered by jharris8506 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may be depressed, i have done that before and it ended up being depression
2007-01-04 15:36:46 · answer #7 · answered by Brian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
counseling maybe .. i dunno .. if he hasn't straight up left you there may be a shot at working this out .. find out why he feels the way he does
2007-01-04 15:36:24 · answer #8 · answered by love me only 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋