I think I need to get counseling. Things have to be so perfect in my life and if they aren't, I freak! Especially lately...I don't know if it's been because of the people I have been around or what. But I have come to want what other people have, such as there family life, even if they don't have everything in the world. I just really miss hanging with my brothers.
I am honestly dying to get back in school so I can get away from home and from situations that I feel envious of.
My best friend is getting married and I am really happy for her but she shouldn't be living with the guy! Her parents are Christians and they are letting the guy stay in there house! I don't have a problem with the marriage or anything like that but if he is "the one" then why not wait for him. She has told me they have not had sex or anything like that but other people have wondered about it. She is getting a bad reputation and she shouldn't...If anybody knows about Southern Baptist Churches then you should know right along with me...that if the couple has been living together that the church will not marry them. She wants a big wedding as well.
Ever since my brothers have moved out and I got into my 20's I have had the earning to chill with them, but they always thought of me as the "tag along" and since I don't fit into there lifestyle they never call to hang, it's always me doing the calling. I have always thought that the stuff they thought was funny, was funny...but why is it that they never wanna hang out? Would I be disgraced by there lifestyle?
2007-01-04 08:08:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would agree with your first statement. You should get into counseling. The rest of your questions are filled with questions of anxiety.
Best of luck
2007-01-06 15:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by ferretcoach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the hell do you care? Go out into life and find yourself. Who cares what your friends or your brothers are doing? You are putting your happiness into others. STOP. Be happy with who you are.
2007-01-04 08:12:53 · answer #2 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋