Family & Relationships - 6 December 2006

2006-12-06 01:32:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

normally i am confident in talking to women. but this girl at my college is really beautiful and im too nervous to talk to her. i made the mistake of telling this other girl that i love this one, and she went and told the entire class. now she knows i like her, but i still can't talk to her cuz her frnds are always with her. i keep catching her looking at me during class, and my friends say she stares at me. what do i make of this, and how can i get her alone?

2006-12-06 01:31:19 · 21 answers · asked by Ashwin 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to understand why she got mad at that because she says she contemplates it sometimes we've had some arguments and all. I told her she should go ahead and have her fun, cos internally I'm to the point where I feel I won't miss much. She got mad at that and I wonder why she would bcos if she's thinking about it, then i feel she could care less if I give a damn or not.And just in case anyone is wondering, I am NOT having an affair or anything, sometimes you get so frustrated you could care less.

2006-12-06 01:30:06 · 16 answers · asked by Blk Angel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If I do, why do I?
And if I dont, why dont I? What did you do to upset me?

THIS IS JUST A BIT OF FUN! I can see the 'how can I answer that- I dont know you' answers already!

2006-12-06 01:29:56 · 20 answers · asked by Georgie 5 in Singles & Dating

ive been seeing this guy casually. he always says "give me a call when your in town and ill meet you". we live in different towns. whenever he in town he lets me know too. its all "by chance".nothing is planned.

this one time when i was out in his town, i asked him if he was out to meet up but he wasnt.

later that evening he started flirting with me in his texts and told me to let him know in advance next time when he was out. this was early hours of the morning. im not sure if he was drunk but im guessing he was out drinking. his texts made sense!lol

we have only kissed. i havent slept with him.

nothing has really happened since.ive have met up with him since but things have moved back to the usual way.he hasnt said anything to me about it.

hes 29 and single,

does he really like me?
is he shy?

2006-12-06 01:29:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im in a relationship thats going through somethings. He has cheated in the past, and recently he went two weeks without calling me. Ive been reallly stressed and pissed off about our relationship lately, weve been together for 7 years and we have a 3 yr old daughter. Last week i posted a questions about whether or not leos and pisces are a good match...well after i reviewed the answers, the next day my spouse called me at work and said he had a surprise for me, and it was a letter, two rings, and a print out of leo and pisces relationships. I didnt tell him i read the same thing. He has no idea i posted this question, because i did it at work, and we dont live together......so he doesnt have a clue..but do you think this is a sign! or just a coincidence?
we dont live together....and the reason he didnt call according to him was because he was doing something i dont approve of, selling illegal drugs.

2006-12-06 01:29:44 · 3 answers · asked by Jackeeeee 3 in Singles & Dating

i need ur help, it's stupid, but pls no selly comments!
i'm at the bigining of a new relationship, only 2 weeks ago, i mat a guy, and we wxent out together 4 times, we are ok, but the problemis that we do not talk much, i start talking i tell him abt my day, work, friends, i ask him, and he answer, but we do not talk enough!
i'm not the kind of poeple who talk much, and so he is!! and now, i feel that he is bored of this, may be he doesn't feel that he does not speak a lot too, he always say to me when we finish a short conversation and we keep quite:" so, say something", and i smile or i laught, sometimes i find things to say, but often not!!
WHAT TO DO? pls suggest me subjects top talk abt, and how to move on, how to keep this relationship, i haven't seen him from last saturday(3days ago), yesterday he called me and he said that he is sorry fpor not calling, because he has some problems(...)
i feel bad, pls help

2006-12-06 01:29:29 · 9 answers · asked by curious girl 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 01:29:27 · 11 answers · asked by Lieutenant Columbo 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 01:28:23 · 13 answers · asked by flak 1 in Weddings

I accidentally found out about 2 or more gifts im getting for xmas. I feel bad about it yet excited. What should I do? There's no wayyy im letting anyone know about thiss.

2006-12-06 01:27:18 · 9 answers · asked by Kr!st3n 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 01:26:51 · 6 answers · asked by mjkwoopghvg 1 in Singles & Dating

no matter how much I clean and prepare our home for this occasion, she will always find something wrong. Should I take this personal? My husband tells me that she dose'nt mean anything by it. PLEASE HELP!!!!!

2006-12-06 01:26:41 · 14 answers · asked by Shannon B 2 in Family

and i was telling someone at work this. as i was telling him the guy that i like looked over at me for a minute.sometimes he does glance over at me.and then i was flirting with the same guy right in front of the guy that i like and i could see and feel him looking at me and he was silent. i walk past and he looks at me.what does this mean?

2006-12-06 01:26:20 · 8 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm afraid that if i accept, i'll get used to the generosity and order chocolates from him in the shape of starfish, and then if that generosity gets taken away, i'll pout, he'll finish with me, and i'll be bored again and back to playing with rubber sticks. what should i do?

2006-12-06 01:26:16 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-06 01:25:57 · 2 answers · asked by Ajay B 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like this girl of our class!
Shez sweet! Shez nice!
She loves me alot too.
We are going out for the last three month.
But the thing is she kinda likes to hang out with this one boy of our class.
they are firendz! Best friends actually.
But I hate the boy.
And he is flirting with her all the time.
I told her about that but...
u know she is not responding!
she told me she will change but, she is not changin!
WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW?
DUMP HER!
SHE ALSO TOLD SHE WILL SUICIDE IF I DUMP HER!

2006-12-06 01:25:53 · 10 answers · asked by Muntaseer K 1 in Friends

2006-12-06 01:25:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

being lonely on christmas is the worst thing i am looking for a guy who wont break my heart and be there for me I need someone who will respect me

2006-12-06 01:25:00 · 7 answers · asked by barbarau17 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, were both 16, he lives in NC, I live in TX. On the phone yesterday he wouldn't stop telling me he loves me. And that's not normal behavior I was sort of shocked. And since we both have free nights, the past three nights we've been going to sleep on the phone together and wake up to get ready fo school together. Last night he found out a friend of his had died, and he couldn't sleep and he was like "Baby please just stay with me on the phone tonight" we didn't talk much because it was a sad time for him but I assured him that I would be right here and that I wouldn't hang up the phone. Last night he really showed he needed me and he knows i'll always b there I'm starting to see good changes in his attitude towards me we used to argue alot but things have settled down. we've been going out since august and I don't think I can say love because at this age I don't really know what that is but I can say I care about him enough that if I wasn't able to talk to him every day i'd go crazy!

2006-12-06 01:24:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He left me to be with another woman. He called it off with her. ( I know because we have mutual friends.) Yeah, I still love him. We have beautiful (hurting) children together, I am particularly interested in hearing from men who's wives gave them a second chance. I can't trust him, though, and I don't know that I can never bring it up again. Maybe in a year or so but not now. I am too hurt. What should I see and hear from him? Thanks.
(Or a wife who gave a second chance could tell me why.) Thanks.

2006-12-06 01:22:22 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

For some reason I think he's getting me a purse/bag. A fancy one - that I don't even think I'm ready for. I know I don't have to match the gift, but my idea of cooking him dinner doesn't really cut it.

2006-12-06 01:22:13 · 8 answers · asked by Katie H 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been living with this man for six months now and all of a sudden I'm finding out alot more than I anticipated.For one he was speaking with another woman and was saying I was psycho and I have alot of issues,also he would call her when we had problems crying and telling her personal things.I cannot trust this man anymore and I always seem to be angry at him ,he admits what he did was wrong but knowing that he talked bad about me,forbid me to talk with my friends yet had one or several of his own makes me wonder what else hes hiding,should I kick him out?

2006-12-06 01:21:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you knew a woman who was in her mid thirties, divorced 3 kids and she was having unprotected sex with lots of people would you think this is wrong. She blames it on her bipolar and the fact that she doesn't think she is worth anything more than sex with people.
I told her what she is doing is wrong but she doesn't see it like that, she says she was married for 14 years and now wants to enjoy herself a bit, I suggested a few beers but she wants an STD obviously!!

2006-12-06 01:21:16 · 4 answers · asked by dfsdg d 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 01:20:47 · 23 answers · asked by isthisinuisetoo 2 in Singles & Dating

I like her so much, and I know she like me but she did not want to say it. I knew her for 3 months ago. We went out together manytime and I went her home and she come my home. But I tried to push her to say that she like me. I could not be patient more I get upset and she left me.
After one week, I felt I miss her, I tried to contact her by emails or call but she did not reply.
What should I do, I want her back.....

2006-12-06 01:19:56 · 16 answers · asked by ram 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband is leaving for Iraq in a month so I quit my job so I could spend as much time with him as possible. But now we don't really have much play money, so I want to do something really fun this weekend with just the two of us but not spend any money and just be able to stay around the house. Any suggestions would really help.

2006-12-06 01:17:53 · 20 answers · asked by camille9_23 1 in Marriage & Divorce

just for fun...;0)

2006-12-06 01:17:53 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should I wait for her - should I not?
I really yearn to wait for this girl who previously replied my email saying that she just want to be friends. I really love her. We are both 14 and who knows when we reach maturity, she can realize her feeling.

For those of you who said I must forget her, you do not understand it.

You do not understand the sacrifice I have made to be with her.
You do not understand the courage I have collected in order to tell her my feeling.
You do not understand all those that I have gone thru..


Should I wait for her?
After all, doesn't true love wait?

2006-12-06 01:17:40 · 18 answers · asked by Life is Like A Box of Chocolate 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont have a lot of confidence around the opposite sex, dont like getting drunk or noisy smoke filled places.... any ideas ?

2006-12-06 01:17:37 · 18 answers · asked by forjunkmail0987 1 in Singles & Dating

We are talkin via email and I met her at a Jiu-jitsu competition

2006-12-06 01:17:07 · 4 answers · asked by unlimited_shooter915 1 in Friends