normally i am confident in talking to women. but this girl at my college is really beautiful and im too nervous to talk to her. i made the mistake of telling this other girl that i love this one, and she went and told the entire class. now she knows i like her, but i still can't talk to her cuz her frnds are always with her. i keep catching her looking at me during class, and my friends say she stares at me. what do i make of this, and how can i get her alone?
2006-12-06 01:31:19 · 21 answers · asked by Ashwin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THEY MAKE YOUR WORK EASY NOW YOU ARE DELAYING THE THINGS.
2006-12-09 16:58:17 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the first place u have made a big blunder of going and telling this other girl that u really love that beauty of ur class..........When u love someone u shud not go and tell People..U can say u have a huge crush on this person.Its understood that people have crushes In coll life......Keep ur love for her to urself.....If u r so much for her then atleast make an effort to go ahead ask for some Privacy from her friends to talk alone 2 her........If she likes U go ahead Man.If not may be u'll Find someone else better than her
2006-12-06 03:45:07 · answer #2 · answered by Nilima L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not exactly sure why you have a problem with talking to her if she and the whole class knows you like her. That just made it easier for you. One day when you get to class and she's there sitting around talking to her friends before class purposely walk by her and say hello, how are you. If you see her looking at you in class, whink at her and then smile. But if you really want to catch her off guard walk right up to her and say, I guess my secret is out. You know I like you and would to take you on a date so you should know who I am and introduce yourself to her. If you take this approach present her with flowers not roses. Roses are a bit much at this point. Completely catch her off gaurd by being unique and original. What's the worst that could happen, she may laugh and say no but someone else in your class may enjoy what you did approach you as far as a date.
2006-12-06 02:11:27 · answer #3 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don't know how you can get her alone, since she's always with her friends, but if she's always looking at you in class, there's a pretty good chance she like you too, so check out her whereabouts & where she's most likely to be alone, and step right to it. Ask her if you can just have a minute or two of her time. When she looks at you in class give her your best smile, and maybe she'll approach you after class. Girls love guys with self confidence, so if you don't, them fake it alittle, so what if the entire class knows.... Do what you gotta do! Get your girl!
2006-12-06 01:40:23 · answer #4 · answered by Lue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in the same class, it shouldn't e a problem to know either her adress/phone number/e-mail, when you have one of these, just try to invite her away from her friends (have a drink, a meal), in a nice place where you could be alone and talk to her with your usual facility with women. At least you will be alone with her and not ashamed if you're still nervous (plus she might think that this is a sign of your REAL interest for her).
2006-12-06 01:39:30 · answer #5 · answered by naindesign 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-22 23:52:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, don't tell people you "love " someone- thats for you and your love to share- you haven't even dated this girl so that was just trouble brewing- go up and ask her out to coffee or luch sometime- on campus if she feels nervous- tell her "without her crew" and try to make a polite joke out of it- there is saferty in numbers so she can check you out that way but its also hard- guys have to be the brave ones- sorry!
2006-12-06 01:35:47 · answer #7 · answered by ARTmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can ask her in front of her friends to talk to her. She will respect you for being mannly and not ask a firend to do it for you. Or, if you have the same class together, you can tap her on the shoulder and ask her to do something with you, like go to a party or just on a pick-nick. You'll be surprised!
2006-12-06 01:35:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can just try with this: buy a packed of chewingum, eat some and, go around where she is ....
if she dont ask, u can ask if she would like one .... :P
is just and OLD method which work relatively well. then u can just start with HOW are u, or just begin talking about somthing, like school, a teacher which u dont like or so....
just try to figure out if there is somthing common, and the most important thing, u should get THE MOST IMPORTANT answer, if she wants to talk with u....
if she dont like u, she will fastly change topic, and talk with some her friend ...
2006-12-06 01:41:54 · answer #9 · answered by dibbe776 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write a letter, express how you feel and apologise for what happened in the class.
Tell her that you would like to meet alone so you can talk and ask her to respect your letter and not share it with anyone. I hope things work out for you
2006-12-06 01:37:52 · answer #10 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could send her some flowers and in the not put a date and time to meet then you could meet 1 on 1 and not have to worry about the friends she may feel the same way.
2006-12-06 01:36:35 · answer #11 · answered by buggs8498 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋