ive been seeing this guy casually. he always says "give me a call when your in town and ill meet you". we live in different towns. whenever he in town he lets me know too. its all "by chance".nothing is planned.
this one time when i was out in his town, i asked him if he was out to meet up but he wasnt.
later that evening he started flirting with me in his texts and told me to let him know in advance next time when he was out. this was early hours of the morning. im not sure if he was drunk but im guessing he was out drinking. his texts made sense!lol
we have only kissed. i havent slept with him.
nothing has really happened since.ive have met up with him since but things have moved back to the usual way.he hasnt said anything to me about it.
hes 29 and single,
does he really like me?
is he shy?
2006-12-06 01:29:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He could be shy and I don't know the other details of your situation. However, he isn't being proactive enough in my opinion, like asking you out to the cinema or out for a drink. If he liked you loads I think he would pursue you a bit more rather than meeting up on the off chance you happen to be in his town.
2006-12-06 01:38:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off u should write also how old are u :)
second: u should ask him to go out on lauch or dinner to know him better.
better on lunch, so u can have a good excuse if u have to leave, so u just have the chanche to see if u like him or there is somthing in common ....
flirting in msn or other chat program dont mean u like someone... sometime u flirt with someone just for fun (at least me)
i hope this helps
2006-12-06 01:51:15 · answer #2 · answered by dibbe776 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you are good friends..and if that's the way you want to keep it then just carry on as yous are, if you want to take it further then it looks like its up to you, because he does sound shy and only found courage to flirt with you when he'd had a drink, maybe you should send him some flirty txts and see how he reacts.
2006-12-06 01:51:02 · answer #3 · answered by angie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont really know how to answer this... but... truthfully if he wanted to see you over and over again then of course he likes you.... and the reason he is show is because he dont kno how to show that he likes you.. and with shy guys you need to take the lead becuase they wont do it on their own..
2006-12-06 01:35:16 · answer #4 · answered by Mark ツ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I would give him a wide berth.He is dangling you,tell him to get lost.You will soon find some one worthy of your attention.Good Luck
2006-12-08 05:50:27 · answer #5 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just in my opinion he sounds married have u ever been to his place?!
2006-12-08 00:23:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋