Family & Relationships - 6 December 2006

and why?

2006-12-06 00:27:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

no 'till death do us part!', no 'in-laws, no kids 2 fight 4, but o' the merits of marriage! Do you think it can work, say, married on contract for 2yrs?

2006-12-06 00:26:59 · 8 answers · asked by Another face in the crowd 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Last nigth was very busy and by the time my fella and I had a chance to sit down, we just had a few minutes. I sat beside him on the couch. He called the dog to his lap and petted her. He held my hand for a couple minutes. When it was time for me to leave, he kissed me bye and then told the dog that he would hold her and give attention for a couple hours tomorrow night. I feel jealous of the dog. Should I?

2006-12-06 00:26:26 · 23 answers · asked by just me 2 in Singles & Dating

My sister is getting married, i want her wedding to be very special, But i have no clue how to decorate for a wedding, Does anyone have any inexpensive decorating ideas they would like to share? Please help if you can. Any ideas are greatly appreciated....thanks!

2006-12-06 00:26:01 · 9 answers · asked by Lace 3 in Weddings

4th resort... ?? (or in a drunken stupor)
for example, my uncles had "fat kathy", me and my friends knew "wort woman"... .. im not saying its nice, but people do give these types of nicknames.

2006-12-06 00:24:40 · 5 answers · asked by nodumgys 7 in Singles & Dating

i mean i don't know what i want or where i want to go. im in college, but im heading for a degree and im not sure what i want to do with it. i just wanted to know if i wasn't the only person who felt like this.

2006-12-06 00:24:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if he could get his. he wanted to get his presents that i had got for him. well he was standing there with is belongings in is hand on his way out the door when he asked me this. well i told him ill give it to him later. well i dont plan on doing that. i plan to take it back and get my money back. if he chose to try and ruin my christmas then why should i care what he wants. well my question is should i give it to him. he spent over 260 on me. then told me something to ruin my christmas. so i feel i couldnt enjoy what he bought me anyway behind all that. so should i give him what i bought him or get my money back. i feel if i dont then that would be payback for him saying what he said which would take to long for me to explain. but im fed up and thru with him once and for all. what would you do? about the presents i mean.

2006-12-06 00:23:46 · 17 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

My Husband got home from a 2 week business trip and this morning he found a box of pregnancy tests, he started aking me and I had to think quick so I said they were my sisters, he believed me because she is single. I called my sister and told her what I said and told her to cover for me but she said she won't do it. I'm running out of ideas, what can I do?

2006-12-06 00:23:07 · 27 answers · asked by Wendy Love Muffin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It's not for lack of trying.I stopped asking girls out 7 years ago.When every reply you get is a 'No' it can be defeating.As of four years ago i've stopped going out(another story).And have cut down my list of friends to 2.
I look like n extra from"Conan The Barbarian" and people are easily intimidated when they first meet me,without me doing anything !
Everyone keeps asking me why this is so ? I don't really hve an answer.All i know is that im relly miserable.It seems like the hardest thing to do in the world.Allthough i've kept myself busy with my hobbies(playing the guitar,soccer,reading,working out etc.I cant seem to stop being depressed when i think about it.

I'm very good at putiting on a happy face for everyone so no one really knows about my situation.

Is there anything that i can do to change this ? Have missed the train 15 years ago ?Am i to be forever this way.I now i'm the only one who can change my fortune but and advice would be welcomed.

2006-12-06 00:22:01 · 5 answers · asked by dbeast 1 in Singles & Dating

i am a bast.ard. i have this girl as my gf, she was so nice to me, so loving, and yet i thought i wanted my ex. they both visited me in the hospital when i was really sick, there then i realised, how much i want my gf to stay with me forever. i've neglected her, i've lied to her, i've did horrible things to her, made her cried but she still loved me nonetheless. but i didn't cherish her. i thought i loved my ex, i tried to get back with her, i told her i loved her, but i regretted. i finally realised who i really love. i cut off my contacts with my ex, i told myself, no that is not the girl i want to be with, i will not be happy with her. i am glad i did that and i feel so free now, only unfortunate thing is, my gf is no longer with me, i want her back so much, but she's so hurt by me, so hurt, she trembles at the thought of me, should i go get her back ? or should i just let her go ? i really need to know... i do not want to hurt her anymore.

2006-12-06 00:21:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what if that person was a girl, with more guy friends then girls for friends and is tirewd of not ever being someone's special person but cant seem to find any one???????

2006-12-06 00:20:30 · 10 answers · asked by bigfoot 2 in Singles & Dating

I was in love with a girl in my teenage in 1994.
Her name was Neetu.
This was just a one sided love.
I proposed her by phone when i was in 2nd year of my B.E. graduation.
She avoided me bcoz she was in love with her neighbour.
She also got married to him after 2 years.
Now she is staying at bangalore with her husband and she has 3 year old daughter.
I am 30 and still unmarried due to her memories.
Sometimes i think about bad ideas of making her widow.
What should i do ?

2006-12-06 00:20:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-06 00:20:18 · 8 answers · asked by Duffsta 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-06 00:20:12 · 17 answers · asked by hi_na84 1 in Weddings

2006-12-06 00:20:12 · 2 answers · asked by gilbertalg 1 in Singles & Dating

For the last 4-5 years, I have stayed alone, but now I no longer have the ability to do so. I am leaving in 7 days to get married & hence will no longer be living alone till I die. Over the recent years, I have developed a real fear of staying alone & to overcome my fear, I have started drinking excessively & doing stupid things once I am drunk. My life of living alone is luckily coming to an end, but can living alone be a real phobia?

2006-12-06 00:19:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hey

I've got a pretty embarassing couple problem, and it's been on my mind for too long.
My gf's fantasy is to have a DP (fantasy that I find quite weird), and i feel like she gets more and more bored in our relationship
for me it's unconceivable to share my friend with another man, not because i feel incomfortable in front of a nude guy, but simply because it breaks my holy principle of FIDELITY.
As soon as I try to convince her, she refuses discussion, she even feels now a bit ashamed.
But I would really like her to be happy in our couple. What shall I do? how can I bring up the topic so that we discuss the matter?

Only serious answers please; thanks in advance
(answers from women appreciated)

have a nice day

2006-12-06 00:18:53 · 3 answers · asked by funguyfr19 3 in Singles & Dating

My fiance' and I don't beleive in sex before marriage. We're both still virgins. I'm nervous about our wedding night. I want it to be special. And I want to make him happy. I'm afraid I'll not please him. What can I do to calm my fears?

2006-12-06 00:17:57 · 17 answers · asked by R.L. B 1 in Weddings

I'm in my young 20s & 'suffer' from dark hair. I feel like yetti-legs - I try to deal with it by regularly epilating (so am smooth) but sometimes get other problems like ingrown hairs :(

It causes a few personal problems as I am embarrased by it - it looks unsightly (even though its a perfectly normal biological entity! so by rights should be forgiven & OK), anyway I feel guys aren't that fine with it. Whilst I can forgive the circumstance as being genetic and frankly quite normal...Do guys REALLY mind? would he actually be ok with it? I cringe everytime I think about having to ‘tell him’ before we get closer, & then him actually seeing me ‘as I am’ (because I keep my legs covered most of the time). I hate having to doubt my trust, but all I hear is that guys want bikini-beach beauties 'although' a slightly unshaven leg or two is Ok :p

So any help as to how I tackle my problem? will I be doomed to fear my guys' opinion & wavering attraction? Hopefully guys understand.

2006-12-06 00:17:30 · 13 answers · asked by Tickle_funny 1 in Singles & Dating

i hardly give the chance to guys that does not have a cute face is that wrong? i just don't have any feelings for them even if i spent time with them but a sec with a hottie i am falling for him

2006-12-06 00:17:15 · 12 answers · asked by zoey z 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a single woman with no children, and enjoy many things in life: birding, hiking, reading, traveling, etc.
I really appreciate an idea, because everything has proven unsuccesfully!

2006-12-06 00:16:24 · 8 answers · asked by Halix 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-06 00:15:50 · 8 answers · asked by Nya 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 00:15:13 · 10 answers · asked by ana g 1 in Singles & Dating

what is the most embarrising/ naughtiest thing you have done
mine would have to be when i got stuck in a lift in france with this french boy who suddenly started trien to kiss me he stood write in front of me saying kissey kissey the next morning at breackfast he was looking 4 me how embarrising

2006-12-06 00:13:52 · 7 answers · asked by laura j 2 in Singles & Dating

when a guy tells you: "it's not you, it's me"? i mean i can't be the only one who gets fed up when a guy says that especially when he says "we'll still be friends" but instead he keeps less in touch with you. i hate that.

2006-12-06 00:12:51 · 14 answers · asked by Pyro 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 00:11:05 · 47 answers · asked by Ram 1 in Weddings

You see I really like this guy, and we're really good friends. But the thing is I don't know if he likes me or not. And I sometimes get a lil nervous around him. I don't know how to give him my # b/c I get really nervous when I try, or I get nervous when I try asking him to hang out or something, how should I give him my # or to ask him to hang out, or if he likes me, w/out making a fool of myself? "Our" friends tell me that we make a cute couple and we should go out. Also, he walks w/ me to our class that we have 2-gether and he also stands by me or near me when we're outside @ lunch w/ our friends. So how can I give him my # or ask him to hang out or to ask him out, w/out making a fool of myself? Help!!!!!

2006-12-06 00:10:45 · 9 answers · asked by Twinkie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

if he says he loves you and says he means it
he talks about the stuff you could do together if you were there or him there
when you say you are doing osmething or want to he asks if he can join you even though he knows he cant
he calls you nicknames
he tells you you look sexy and stuff
he comes on just for a little hi time
he asks you to come over and he tells you about the colleges there...

just some of the things I could think of
well Im unsure how he feels I feel like we are in one!

2006-12-06 00:10:41 · 15 answers · asked by ██████████ 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 00:10:03 · 6 answers · asked by miscraterr 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 00:08:51 · 5 answers · asked by siva 1 in Singles & Dating