Marry me. She is wonderful, she has a good heart and the virtues inside a person that match mine. But she was arranged for marriage at a young age, and even though there were some emotions between her and her husband a long time back, they were gone long before I was in the picture.
Now we have been together for over two years, her husband found out ... but he is not doing anything.. just sitting around. I asked her to leave him often, and she is afraid of her family, his family and the Indian culture. Also losing her friends and also how a divorce will impact her and her 4 year old son.
I have been patient, but am consistently being torn as I dont see where this is leading, and she does not want to commit fearing to break my heart, although she does not realize my heart is chipping daily ( or does not want to be blamed for it).
Any advice is helpful. Please dont judge to much my actions or hers until you one day are in our shoes also if possible.
2006-12-03
23:41:28
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UnHappySide
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Marriage & Divorce