well bf is shy and have to lead its usally the guys that lead its hard cause ive never lead before and im shy and his quiet wich makes me verry shy around him well i saw him yestday and i gave him a hug when the train was about to leave and thats about it i try to start confsations and put effot in but its like he dosent even make a efort and somtimes he seems so cold could someone tell me whats going on? and what to do?and im scared im gona get hurt again
2006-12-03 23:55:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best way outta this situation is to talk to hi, and let him know what you feel.. and ask him about his cold response. Tell him that his behaviour is hurting you.. and that you too feel shy about leading the guy you love. Btw, in a relationship the whole intimacy quotient should be very mutual, do ask him if he is uncomfortable about the whole thing.
2006-12-04 00:00:55 · answer #1 · answered by Sakshi C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to close your eyes and think how you would be happy with somebody. If this somebody is represented by your bf it means that you are really in love with him and it's a matter to know each other better in order to have topics that can be discussed. If onthe other hand you don't think you'll be happy with him probably you're not made for one another (there's no chemistry), so you may consider the idea of leaving him.
Anyway these things happen very often to almost everybody so you shouldn't worry too much.
2006-12-04 08:00:47 · answer #2 · answered by Lorenzo Agostini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO HIM! You can't get any answers that matter from us; only he can give you the answers you need.
2006-12-04 08:01:17 · answer #3 · answered by pr1ncezz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to hang on..
2006-12-04 08:01:41 · answer #4 · answered by darkael08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋