Family & Relationships - 2 December 2006

ok ok the deal there is a nice fellow .. somehow we are going on serious .. hes jewish and i'm muslim and he knows it obviously. but i'm sure this is going to flare up both sides of the family.. somehow i'm trying to avoid him before it gets much worst (before i really love him to death ) why why why

2006-12-02 23:57:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband spends a lot of his time at work with a woman who does not even work in the same dept. as he does. He leaves his dept. to go sit with her for hours. He calls her on her job. She always doing little favors for him. Everybody is always saying this woman sleeps around with everyone. He says they're just friends. There is a rumor that he is/was messing around with her really close friend. I found the friends cell # hidden in his phone once. (That was before we got married ) However, he still spends hours with the woman at work. I have told him about it time after time, still he's in the woman's company. "She's just a friend nothing is going on" So we got into really bad and he left. Now he wants to come home.

2006-12-02 23:57:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you have a happy mariage? Is it even possible because I start having some doubts.

2006-12-02 23:55:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am very submissive to women I had 4 sisters and was the only Boy. I was always very uneasy around them. Now I am in my 40 I love to deal with women and love to talk to them.I have a home Improemt Bus I just find it easy talking with the women all day,. I hate dealing with me. Women love to talk More then Men But for a Man I talk as much as a women.I dony act gay However I thing women can see I am submissive.

2006-12-02 23:55:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been through drama for a long time which is bugging me alot and I think I need help. I did not do anything and my what I thought were friends are accusing me of sending fake ecards and email from their other friend==> this other girl was trying to take revenge on me because of her broken friendship with another girl because according to her, this one guy made up things about what she said about the other girl. I think she tried to do the same thing to that guy (our mutual friend) and told me that he talks alot of bad things about me. I fell for that and emailed her back but she added alot of other things that were horrible like death and forwarded my emails . Then, she kept emailing and apparently she is now starting to say she never had that email address to be friends with that girl again. I'm so confused. Last night I got a phone call from another girl saying that they are going to the police. I am being framed. I know they have nothing on me, but I'm still very upset.

2006-12-02 23:55:14 · 7 answers · asked by kowalley 5 in Friends

2006-12-02 23:54:49 · 16 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Singles & Dating

Just trying to understand how you guys minds work

2006-12-02 23:53:26 · 14 answers · asked by Katsika 2 in Singles & Dating

if a girls look at u really long. what does it mean. is it that most girls will not ever look at u if u are not cute. i love this girl at chruch i did not tell her my feeling inside. but she keeps on looking at me when i look at her.

2006-12-02 23:49:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really miss that doll!

2006-12-02 23:48:23 · 29 answers · asked by Hotstuff1 2 in Friends

I'll be leaving pretty much everything behind. a friend of mine has offered me a job on an island resort. a job I've been dreaming of all my life, but then I've just reunited with my family and recently refurbished our two homes, I desperately want to go but I feel kinda bad leaving them. what to do? my mom's kinda reluctant to let me go and dad ain't talking abt it.... I wanna go! Help?

2006-12-02 23:47:58 · 12 answers · asked by Shasha 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

What is in his mind ?
This guy works with us in office , we are to-gether from date of joining,me and my 4 friends, we all get along, aprt from one girl, he takes care of all of us,and is nice , as we are new to this place, he takes us all out mostly we have good dinners , and its always he who does all expenditures , we always tel him separately don"
t spend so much money, spend it on himself ,while giving gift { i asked a gurl to give him the {vallet} she ket it on his working table , and said its from us all ,1st day he said he aint gonna open it,cause it looks soo preety , he will keep it with him till the last.
2nd day he gave it back to us and said, he has a vallet , and don"t want anything in return for his money, he was just trying to buy happiness, cause he was having money ....we did hi-bye 2-3 times after that, but now he never talks , what is in his mind ?
I gave a guy a birthday gift ,he gave it back to me ,what does it means ?

2006-12-02 23:47:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im going on a date for the first time in a very long time, i've noticed since i had stopped dating and going out alot, i'm now very reserved and the only time i am truly myself is with my family and very close friends which is who i spend all my time with. I am not really shy, but its almost impossible for me to relax and be myself around people im not close with, i dont meet new people often. Can anyone offer some wisdom

2006-12-02 23:47:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are you listening, men? Come a little closer…a little closer. Shhhhhh, we’ve got to keep our voices down so the feminists don’t hear….

You know that stuff you’ve been reading in the girly magazines that tell you that women like to be romanced with candlelit dinners before you gently (gently!) make love to them by first giving them hours of oral pleasure and then softly (oh so softly!) penetrating them while staring lovingly into their eyes…always making absolutely sure that they reach orgasm first?

Well, it’s all bunk.

Do you want to know what they really talked about when discussing the best sex they ever had? They talked about their scraped knees and the bruises on our backs where they were bitten in the throes of passion. No one even mentioned that time you filled the bathtub full of rose petals and blah,

So ladies is this true do you like more passion and fun or slow and comfortable????

2006-12-02 23:46:00 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

jamelia, one member of girls aloud or xtina

2006-12-02 23:45:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 18 year old virgin and i know im going to have sex soon and when i do i want to be good at it for my very first time. I mastebate almost 3-4 times a day for the past 4 years i dont know if that will effect how long i last or not... Are there any tips you guys can give for me so my first time isnt bad and is actually good? tips on lasting longer, oral pleasure etc... what mistakes did u do on your first time ? thanks

2006-12-02 23:45:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, my husband of 25 years won't share what he got me for Christmas! I'd be glad to share what I got for him, if he'd do the same but everytime I ask him he says he got me some bricks! and I know Wal Mart doesn't sell bricks! Besides, he says the same things every year.

I just think that after 25 years he should be honest with me, don't you?
Sigh!! What to do??? LOL!

2006-12-02 23:45:15 · 12 answers · asked by Mrs J 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been with my man two years. He's sweet, funny and respectful. But I find myself desperately wanting intelligent conversation at home and I just don't get it. I've tried talking to him about it, but it just doesn't seem to get me anywhere. It's the only real problem area for us, and though I can go to mates for a good conversation, it's just not enough. What do you suppose I should do?

2006-12-02 23:45:06 · 12 answers · asked by The Mad Shillelagh 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex and I broke up 8 months ago now and I am still every bit as hurt over it as I was when it first happened. I know it can't be normal to hold on to this for so long, can it? Much of it probably has to do with the fact that for the first time in my life, I thought I had met "the one" and I was truly happy. I thought everything was perfect. How could I have been so wrong? Because of this, all the self esteem I ever had is gone. I feel that because I was not good enough for her, I am not good enough for anyone. I also feel like I can never let myself love again. It's like there is this giant hole in the center of my chest all the time. 8 months later and I still cannot let go of the hurt she caused. Isn't that WAY too long? Will it ever get better?

2006-12-02 23:45:03 · 10 answers · asked by PhilliesPhan 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 23:44:16 · 4 answers · asked by sweething45123 1 in Singles & Dating

So my boyfriens invited me to spend Christmas with his family, but am i obligated to buy his wife a gift? I've only met her a few times, and those times she wouldn't stop yelling about me breaking her family up, blah, blah.................................
So should i buy her one?

2006-12-02 23:44:08 · 17 answers · asked by Pardonne Moi? 2 in Singles & Dating

Been together 8 yrs now and feel quite fed up.... However, how can I be sure that leaving is the right thing to do or am I just fed up and it will all be ok again eventually?

2006-12-02 23:42:32 · 19 answers · asked by Stephanie C 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am an English woman, married with two kids living in France. Last week my dentist followed me home from the school run, overtook me, waved me down in the road and basically told me he was obsessed with me, had a photo of me... other embarrassing stuff. I was kind but firm and told him I was happily married and there was no future.
Two problems - I have an appointment to see him, second problem, his lovely wife works at my daughter's school.
I feel a bit stressed an angry - I don't know how the culture works here, but you don't go stalking people like that and I don't feel I even know him very well.
Do I avoid him, do I tell his wife or do I go for my appointment and tell him he obviously has problems at home and needs to sort them out?
I am quite brave, but want to do the right thing. My gut feeling is that he seemed so confident he's done this before - UGH! Advice would be really appreciated.

2006-12-02 23:42:28 · 22 answers · asked by Empea 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Fed up with American women ?
Want to meet a Soul-Mate ?
Love after 40....is it there ?

2006-12-02 23:41:50 · 1 answers · asked by Lincoln Lover 3 in Singles & Dating

Me well i'm a pushover sometimes.....well okay maybe most of the time.I tend to bottle up my feelings until i explode,and believe me noone at my school wants to be near me when that happens ever since friday!!! I kept all my anger up inside until i couldn't take it anymore.I was in the gym,my friend wanted to sit next to her friend,so i followed her {she ussualy does that,hang out with her friends while i follow her around so she's not lonely} well anyway... these girls behind us on the bleechers were teasin someone else then i just sneezed a few times,then the girl behind me said at least he doesn't sneeze and i stared at her,i didn't want to make a commotion so i kindly asked my friend if we could move and i explained why and she said "NO i don't wanna move!" then i kept asking her and she still replied the same answer and i finally said "NO i want to move now!" and she said "Y" then i said u know why...... then i lashed out at the girl cussing her out.infront of the whole school!

2006-12-02 23:41:41 · 6 answers · asked by stephanie 2 in Singles & Dating

she won't eat any of the food i have in
should she go to the shop for something she likes or should i?
what do i do about the boredom? she wants me to take her out but i was planning on a day of catching up with housework

2006-12-02 23:41:26 · 20 answers · asked by jay dee 1 in Family

2006-12-02 23:40:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The last couple months, her attitude has changed. Always demanding, angry and complaining. She tells me that she doesn't care about me and doesn't love me like that way she used to?? She doesnt clean after herself, her clothing scattered on the bed even, the restroom is not clean. I feel like, Im the one who's holding this relationship together, just dont like the way she treats me. All she does, talk on the phone with her gf's and go online...God knows what she's up to. I start to think, Do I really deserve this girl? I really want someone new. She doesn't appreciate me, I really love her and do whatever she wants. Im just tired of her drama but dunno how to leave her. Any ideas how to leave her and/ or end this relationship?? If so, where do I start from..

2006-12-02 23:35:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

without going as far as marriage, how can i commit more to my relationship with my bf, i'm 18 and he's 23. some may say move in with him, but i feel that shud come after marriage cos i strongly beleive in marriage, but how can me and him commit more without asking to get married etc hope it makes sense

2006-12-02 23:34:48 · 6 answers · asked by DaRkAnGeL 4 in Singles & Dating

Should an intimate couple live together before marriage?

2006-12-02 23:33:59 · 13 answers · asked by starsgirl021687 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend never wears make-up, hardly wears jewelry or does anything with her hair. Whenever I mention something about liking it when she is more girly (rarely, I don't want to pester her) she says that she doesn't really know how.

Are there ways that she can learn? She has few close female friends, and I think she's embarrassed to ask them about "things she should already know." Likewise with her mom and older sister.

Or, should I just continue to be happy with what I have and look forward to the special occasions when she does "get girly" (we're currently in a long-distance relationship, so that's not very often)?

p.s. I am 24 and she is 23.

2006-12-02 23:33:14 · 15 answers · asked by ozjmu 1 in Singles & Dating